I've noticed that there are a lot of सवालों pertaining to the subject of popularity, well-known users, and admiration on this club... Some people find it harmless. Others don't care. But a lot of people do and this लेख is for those who feel like they're not important. आप know who आप are.
All I have to say is... आप are just as important as everyone else on this club. The person with 1 प्रशंसक is just as important as the person with 1,789 fans. They're just numbers. A lot of आप need to realize that फैन्पॉप is just a website on the Internet. Popularlity on a social network should be beneath your notice.
The reason there seems to be "well-known" users on this club is because people have made it so.
द्वारा posting सवालों and मंचों and लेखाए about "well-known users," आप are making everyone believe that there is a लोकप्रिय group when there really isn't.
These people are just admired for the things they say and their courage to stand out and be themselves.
These सवालों about "popular" people only make others feel bad about themselves when they're not mentioned.
Thoughts like, "Wow, maybe I'm not good enough..." या "I wish I could be as लोकप्रिय as that person," rush through people's minds and that's when jealousy and subjective behavior takes place.
Subjective behavior harvests bad feelings toward other users, and then that grows into envy.
आप should be happy with who आप are. That's all आप need. And don't say, "But there's nothing good about me," because there is. You're just being too stubborn to see it.
आप need to understand that you're not here on बिना सोचे समझे to impress anyone. आप are who आप are. There is nobody on this earth like you. आप are different. आप are special.
आप have just as much potential as the अगला person on this club. Don't argue otherwise.
Everyone here should be valued. Everyone here has their own story to tell. Be happy with who आप are and you'll be content in all the things that आप do. Don't do anything that you'd regret.
Treat others the way you'd want to be treated. Be kind to people on this club, and they'll be kind to you. If they're not kind, you can still be kind.
The truth of the matter is that if आप be yourself, people will admire आप for that. People like it when आप be yourself.
Confidence is something that people value. Don't ask yourself, "Why am I not as cool as that person? Why am I so lame? Why won't anyone admire me?" Ask yourself, "What can I do to make myself a better person today? Whose दिन can I brighten? How can I दिखाना who I really am to everybody today?"
आप should strain to make yourself better with every passing day. Be strong. Be happy with your strengths and your weaknesses. Sometimes you're wrong and sometimes you're right about certain things. Accept your weaknesses and grow from that. You'll see the difference.
If आप have the courage to make a difference and be yourself then it doesn't MATTER if people admire आप या not. All that matters is what आप think of yourself. आप are और important than आप deem yourself to be. Stop trying to compare yourself to someone who is completely unlike you.
Everyone makes mistakes. We are all human. Even the most perfect person with the most "perfect life" has felt the wrath of sadness and jealousy and imperfection. Let's build each other up instead of breaking each other down.
It's fine to admire people. But let's try not to bias anyone... It's impossible to compare two people because we are all so intricate in our own way.
Don't strive to be better than your contemporaries या predecessors. Strive to be better than yourself.
This is an opinion article. This is my opinion. I appreciate all of your opinions, too, but please respect mine in return. That's all I ask... And that's all I have to say. Thank आप for reading.
