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I need help. On the brink of breaking down

Okay, so prepare for quite a story. Sorry for making आप guys listen.

I'm a new student who has been in the school for almost a साल and there's this really mean and bossy girl who everyone used to dislike. Suddenly, she changed and my besties started to like her. She copies every action they do. Ever since, my besties started to slap me and abuse me. I figured that i'm kinda a doormat [need help on this too]. So, i decided to organise a trip with my besties and didn't invite the mean girl. Huge mistake. Somehow, the mean girl found out and decided to organise the same trip and invite everyone except me. And now, there's another girl organising the same trip. I'm starting to get paranoid. Also, I have संगीत practice. There's another girl that everybody dislikes. She keeps blaming me when our teacher scolds us for messing up. She takes my phone and glasses and shakes me on the shoulder till at one point, I fell. It's really irritating. I need help :/ Sorry, for making आप guys read the entire story. Just hoping someone out there could help.
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seffro said:
I wouldn't call people like that, "besties " या even friends
I have this one girl at my school who's done the same
I hate the word but for lack of s better one; shes a bitch
She "supposedly" isn't that bad now and is dating a friend of mine but I won't buy it.
आप should get better फ्रेंड्स या make them treat आप as a person and just ignore this other girl
आप can easily live without them, so try and fix it, if not, forget them and do something else
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I wouldn't call people like that, "besties " या even फ्रेंड्स I have this one girl at my school who's done the same I hate the word but for lack of s better one; shes a कुतिया, मतलबी She "supposedly" isn't that bad now and is dating a friend of mine but I won't buy it. आप should get better फ्रेंड्स या make them treat आप as a person and just ignore this other girl आप can easily live without them, so try and fix it, if not, forget them and do something else
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yeah, don't settle for people who don't help आप and are mean, besties are supposed to be there for आप forever and always, but they are not so आप need to think about whether आप want to continue living like that या new besties. आप will find new besties that are worth your time and friendship. dw, आप will be ok :)
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well कहा :)
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Mileym said:
First of all um sorry.. I didnt get your story it's a bit confusing.. Bt i'd like say tht if ur frnds या ur so called "besties" dnt treat आप well and left u cuz they made a new frnd.. They'r nt wrth ua concern.. U shud try to make new deserving frnds and enjoy ua life!


Best of luck ;)
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:D yeah!
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*Shudders at the grammar* anyway. I agree.
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haremaster99 said:
First off: **IF THEY HURT YOU. GET AWAY FROM THEM ASAP** it's not WORTH getting physically hurt द्वारा people who dropped आप like a hot potato for this bully! Ignore them. Stay away from them. They are NOT you're फ्रेंड्स या "besties"

Second: have आप talked to any people (besides just now on here) about this situation? I suggest आप do if not ^^

Hope that helps ^^
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she's right these people don't act like besties from what i heard
coriann posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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i had some फ्रेंड्स like that :\
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^same here. But I made new फ्रेंड्स and I'm really happy :3
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pureawesome15 said:
Find new friends. dont say anything to the other "friends" of yours. just find some new people to hang out with. ive done this before, and it worked like a charm

also, about that girl in संगीत class; just tell the teacher. Thats BULLYING! its not cool! i get bullied still, but its for my height and other बिना सोचे समझे things. just tell your teacher या principal. let them get in trouble.
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Lady_Rebel said:
What I personally would do is say "Fuck you" and go find some new friends, but I don't think that would work for you. Eithr that या पंच them. Don't do that either.

Don't try to exclude just the first bitchy girl, but all the bitchy girls. Make new फ्रेंड्स and have sleepovers, go on trips, hang out together at school. Be extremely polite to your ex-best friend and her new role model. None of them are worth your time या pain.
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yeah maybe आप can make new friends, that way they might realize what jerks they were when they lose आप :P
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या not आप never know XD
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101trx said:
tell them off, fool! (sorry, i call everyone fool) and find some new friends. या tell someone about this...this ain't right. =(
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XD telling them off might not be such a bad idea...lol jk
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coriann said:
i know this is hard to hear but you're फ्रेंड्स are अभिनय like jerks, the way आप कहा it it seems like if they are all sort of bullying you, im sorry but it just seems like bullying to me, i don't think anyone deserves to be bullied, im not the best at giving friendship advice, im a lonely girl with no real फ्रेंड्स outside of fanpop, it's hard to leave your friend, i mean everyone needs someone to hang out with and have fun, just keep in mind that they are not अभिनय like real friend right now because they are letting आप get bullied, i don't know why they are behaving this way या if आप can do to stop them, but for yourself आप have to know that it's gonna be okay and you're just going through a bad time, clear आप head and figure out a good solution on your own because i think that other people can give आप सलाह but only आप can decide what's best :) so good luck with that and i hope आप make it out alive XD
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wait, maybe your फ्रेंड्स aren't bullying you, just those two girls but your फ्रेंड्स are just letting it happen, हे i have a suggestion...maybe आप can tell them how आप feel away from the two girls okay? :) and if that doesn't work then your फ्रेंड्स are really अभिनय like jerks but that's life :P
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