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Should I be her Friend या not? I really need help! Im about to cry!

Me and my friend have been through a lot these past couple of weeks. We have fought, we have huggged. But now she doesnt even notice me anymore, she spends all her time with her friend (who will not be named). She Sits द्वारा her at lunch, she talks to her not me, her पासवर्ड is her best फ्रेंड्स name, She had me change it for her. I told her today that I tought she was ignoring me and spending all her time with her new BFF and she just got all weird and started saying she is going through a lot. She also tells me that she doesnt have enough time to hang with her BFF, But she does! I text her and her फ्रेंड्स and i ask where she is and they always say out with her BFF. I have now heard she doesnt want to be my friend anymore. I heard that and started to cry and I am a boy. I dont know what to do. Please help me!
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Gracie1995 said:
I just went through a similar situation with my BFF and I told her I still wanted to be फ्रेंड्स and she कहा she did too and we decided not to hang out for a महीना and that really helped.
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CULLEN-HALE said:
srry bout what ur going through... i think that the best thing could do is just tell her आप still want to be friends, have a real sit down दिल to दिल talk with her... maybe txt (or message) her a little but not too much (you dont want her to think आप are stalking her... i have had frieds do tht 2 pple b4) and if she dosent have much to say just tell her "well i guess i'll ttyl :)" and leave it at that maybe she just needs some अंतरिक्ष या time to think are something like that... good luck and if आप need to talk feel free to message me i always help (or try to anyway) my फ्रेंड्स with this kind of stuff. once again good luck!
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nafela said:
u see thats the thing shes a girl and ur a guy. she probably just needs some time with a girl. because its probably embarassing for her to talk about girl stuff with आप dont take it personal just talk to her and tell her how u feel. she probably is going thrue a tuff time and needs her अंतरिक्ष and she probably just feels weird around u.
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hope my सलाह helps
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i agree with my answer and this 1 is good सलाह 2
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jedigal1990 said:
Wow this is a hard situation. This is what i would do. I would just give her अंतरिक्ष for the time being but let her know आप still want to be her friend and that आप will be there for her if she needs आप other than that though just give her अंतरिक्ष i know this is difficult but people make their own decisions. This is just what i would do if i were in your position i hope this helps and wish आप the best of luck
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princesspinkla said:
I am so sorry I think आप should just do what आप think is right and if it dose not work out I am sooooo sorry I know how that fills but if it turns out that ya'll will be फ्रेंड्स agin that is great and I also think आप should give her some time

P.S. hope it works out
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sweet_n_silly said:
oh my gosh! that's so tragic! since I am a girl, I understand a girl's brain occasionally. here's what I think is happenin. I think that it's not that she's mad at u या anything like that, I think she just needs time with someone else. u can't help her with what she's going through, but her other friend can, so she's spending time with the one that can help. I think u need to give her some अंतरिक्ष and time and eventually she'll come back when her issue's been helped sufficiently. i'm not sayin to back off completely though, make sure she knows ur still gunna be there and u wanna help her if u can. be supportive and patient and i'm sure things'll work out.
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Kaylyn15181 said:
First of all, it doesn't matter if आप are a boy and आप are crying. That is sexist. सेकंड of all, Just talk to her. She probably has a lot of stuff going on and is afraid to taLK TO आप ABOUT IT.
WHEN girls get to that age they don't rly want to talk to a guy about what they are going through. I should know, My best friend is a guy. Just really talk to her and tell her how आप feel. It will be ok in the long run! She respects आप या else she wouldnt have even दिया आप an explanation for why she hasnt bee n talking to आप no matter how petty it seemed. I had the same situation. It will blow over आप just need to talk about it and dont hold anything back.
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dsgt5 said:
well i am sorry for what is happning. It sounds like she's inoring आप for a reason. Mabey people are teasing her that आप and her are dating. या mabey she just feals akward around आप because आप gyz are like not like both a girl...and most of all girls need someone to talk to like about gyz and आप wudnt understand, and girls always need a girl to hang out with like to the mall, and stuff like that, well anyway i hope i helped...bye and good luck!..p.s try to understand what she's going through and dont jump to conclusions.
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well i am sorry for what is happning. It sounds like she's inoring आप for a reason. Mabey people are teasing her that आप and her are dating. या mabey she just feals akward around आप because आप gyz are like not like both a girl...and most of all girls need someone to talk to like about gyz and आप wudnt understand, and girls always need a girl to hang out with like to the mall, and stuff like that, well anyway i hope i helped...bye and good luck!..p.s try to understand what she's going through and dont jump to conclusions.
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oh and she might also not wana hang out w/ आप bcuz mabey she wants a boyfriend and when she hang out w/ आप gyz are gonna think that ur going out
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smg09 said:
i know ima sound like a jack नितंब, गधा but lmao ur a guy ok this is my सलाह if ur bff is a chick shes probably out partying with her new friend and she doesnt want u 2 know cuz u have been bff's 4eva and she thinks of u और than a बिना सोचे समझे party buddie that she can do stupid things with at partys and not feel bad, या shes embarrassed 2 be seen with u at a party, या shes embarassed period to hang out with u, या shes just a कुतिया, मतलबी and thinks her new bff is कूलर than u या something those r my opinions and about 75% of my opinions happened to me be4 so it might be false but thats what i think kk
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K5-HOWL said:
ok im not sure how to help but boys should not be afraid to cry -_-
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