"No no no! Heres the thing, I agree with आप that Elena is अभिनय really bad when it comes to the प्यार of these two brothers, but in this episode I think Rose explained it best. Elena is beyond confused and I truly feel like she’s petrified of Damon’s प्यार for her. I don’t think she knows what its like to be loved like that, with that much force and that much passion. Its like a ocean wave crashing against you, you’re thrown back and आप tumble and आप fall but आप प्यार it. Somehow, deep inside आप loved the thrill of it so आप stand right back up and do it again. Elena is afraid, she’s trembling down to the bone afraid of being loved like that, and honestly I would too. Being loved that intensely is a scary thing, knowing someone thinks that much of आप and relies on your प्यार and relies on you; it’s scary because आप don’t know what to do with it. She has feelings for him, thats blatant; but she doesn’t know how to accept them fully. That’s tough for us to watch because we’re used to things being fast paced in the media world. आप read a chapter in a book and आप know despite that cliff hanger, there will be another chapter directly after that. We also know that in an episode of a दिखाना if something crazy happens there will be another episode in a week. It’s consistent, yet sometimes very unrealistic. The writers have done an amazing job with Delena, they’re realistic and they don’t just happen in one episode. The journey of their relationship just makes everything all worth it in the end. When आप spend a दिन working your नितंब, गधा off for something, doesn’t it make the reward in the end all the और sweet? Patience is a virtue and this is definitely one ship आप have to be patient with. We’ve all spent our moments where we’ve been mad at Damon for lashing out, या Elena for being indecisive; but the writers always somehow bring us back to them.

Don’t stop watching yet, you’ve survived this long. And remember, we’ll survive this, we always survive."
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