frustrating people?

While I agree that people who aren't प्रशंसकों should butt out, I think आप may need to research the genre a little more. Yes, याओइ started out as pointless gay-ish प्यार making. And I myself do enjoy a little twincest here and there,but the label of "yaoi" has recently started to branch out. It's not just unrealistic gay relationships anymore! I was happy to find some actual gay प्यार that wasn't between two 15-year-old scrawny guys that aren't actually that good looking. But you've got terms confused. "Shounen Ai" is romance and "Shota" is याओइ with kids. College students aren't shota unless the kid is under the age of 13 and is smart enough to be in college. And they may not all be "newbs". I've been a प्रशंसक for about 6 years now and I believe that my affection for the typical याओइ guy was just teenage hormones. My प्यार of याओइ has been fine-tuned and,while I will still look at scrawny twinky-men,I believe that आप may be the one who's the "newb". Not to offend,but since आप probably offended a few,most women/men who like याओइ end up hating the stereotypical version. I think that many of the younger याओइ fangirls are actually closeted homophobes. That is,they wouldn't react to real gay men the way they react to yaoi.