STEFAN!!!

So I know this is supposed to be a सुरक्षित haven from hearing about Damon, but I have a rant building up and I dont know where else it will be सुरक्षित to post it.
First off, how many people does he have to kill before I stop hearing "poor Damon"? He is the murderer, not the victim, for crying out loud.
Also,( please dont kill me) I think Damon/Ian is oveerrated. I am not trying to bash him. Obviously he is hot, and he is giving a very good performance. The thing is though that some people are अभिनय like he is the सेकंड coming या something. Honestly I dont see it.
I प्यार Stefan. I think Paul is also hot, and is also giving a great performance. I can only hope that Kevin and Julie dont follow in LJ's footsteps and *spoiler alert*do what she did to us in Shadow Souls and Midnight.
ok, rant over.

What Is that awful saying? Opposites attract. Metaphysically speaking, opposites repel. And honestly, were fights and constant bickering anything to base a healthy relationship off of? A healthy relationship, the kind that usually leads to the soul mate kind of love, starts off with a solid friendship/Relationship – the one where आप do everything in your power to protect them and keep them happy, even if it means sacrificing your own happiness, standing द्वारा them when no one else will, not because आप feel आप should, but because आप really and truly believe in him/her, and above all, being so connected that at times आप feel like you're one person – when your thoughts mesh so perfectly that आप finish each other's sentences and know what they're thinking without saying any words.
At least that's my opinion on the matter. This is why I ship Stelena:)