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Ummm... Im kinda embarrased to ask this but... here it goes...

Im 14 yrs old but sometimes i get these dreams या thoughts. Im way to young for sex but sometimes I get these weird feelings. Im not sure what आप call that. Im just not sure what to do. I never ask anybody (especialy my parents) cause that might look diffrently at me. They wont see me as a cute innocent little girl anymore. I've only asked one person before... she told me too "pleasure myself", It felt awkward when she told me that. What would आप say? I need advice. It would help alot.
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sasuhia4ever said:
honey, आप are not alone. masturbation is better and safer than sex and the best part is आप can deal with it द्वारा yourself. wait till आप have some time alone या a time when आप know nobody will disturb you, and take some time to explore what feels right for you. if आप don't feel comfortable talking to your parents, then don't. it's honestly none of their business if self pleasure is all your doing. i also had the same problem.(i'm 16 & a girl myself) i just decided to take care of it myself and not talk to my parents because like you, i don't want them to look at me differently. (plus it'd be awkward to sit in the same room with them after them knowing.) hope this helps. आप can talk to me if आप have any सवालों you'd like to ask :)
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thanx ill keep that in mind. it helped me alot
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Sasuhia is right I'd feel the same way
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:) good
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MissMichele said:
आप should take her advice. Try pleasuring yourself.
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is it right to do it at this age?
MJlovaNumba1 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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14 is very young still...
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:D
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NellLovetCarter said:
हे dear<3 I think the first thing that आप have to know, is that there's nothing embarrasing या wrong about what आप told. I think we all go through those kinda feelings sometimes. If आप don't feel comfortable with talking about this with your parents, then don't. But i think your parents at some point have to understand that you're not a little girl anymore and maybe it would make them just happy to see that you're able to talk about these things with them. But don't do anything that doesn't feel good for you.
I think आप could try masturbating. Y'know it's totally normal, most of people do it. Just try it out, listen to your body. आप have nothing to lose, and if आप enjoy it(which i think आप will), then the problem's solved! If आप have something else to ask या talk about, I'll be here happy to help you:) I hope this helped a little.
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yungosiris said:
आप can also use serious meditation to find out (WHY) आप are having these urges and yes there is nothing weird about आप but before आप indulge in what in playing with yourself understand and mentally control your urges PEACE
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
It IS natural. आप do not have to dicuss it [with anyone]. I think it took me awhile before I was okay with talking about any of my private life, and I was much older. Just know that your फ्रेंड्स probably all do it too. Some bloom a little earlier than others, some a little later- same basic urges.
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chan-lee15 said:
so do i, but masterbration is the only way, it not gross like those peppy girls say, it human nature, we use to do it as little childern, anyway it not very gross या wrong,
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