Letter.

Sexuality is such a hot-button issue these days. "Are आप gay? Are आप straight?" But what do these सवालों really mean? How can anyone really answer these सवालों to the best of their ability, especially when we have people who are well into their fifties and sixties and still haven't figured it out?

I believe it was Alyssa in Chasing Amy who कहा it best: "I came to this on my terms. I didn't just heed what I was taught, आप know? Men and women should be together, it's the natural way - that kind of thing. I'm not with आप because of what family, society, life tried to instill in me from...