Lately on Fanpop, I've been noticing a lot of people wondering if they are gay या bisexual, in particular. They ask if certain behaviors या feelings they have make them gay या bi.

But really, asking other people to tell आप whether या not आप are gay या straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what आप do every day. It's up to आप to figure that out on your own!

If that leaves आप feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered द्वारा you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:

1. You cannot choose who आप are. Don't let anyone convince आप that आप should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on आप and tell आप who आप are! Only आप know how आप feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, या anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay या straight. Many struggle with it for years या even their whole lives.

So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.

And some of us don't want to be labeled या are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, द्वारा no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!

I hope this लेख has helped आप discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who आप are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, या anything else!