Are goths meant to be full of emotion and built with alot of badass destruction?

This is only how society perceives Goths to be like.

But of course, आप are not meant to be something that does not fit to your ethical and moral beliefs (concerning the "badass destruction", I guess आप mean "violent and criminal behaviour") या your personality (regarding "being full of emotion").

it depends on the person really...

some goths are quiet and keep to themselves

while others are loud

How am I supposed to know?

Being goth is just clothes, music, books, etc. It's style, not personality. I'm a pretty happy person. I have a reasonable amount of friends. I'll be nice to anyone who's nice to me, as long as they don't do anything that pisses me off. I am totally goth, though (a bit of a goth/geek, I guess is what आप would call me). :)