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About marriage in general

There's a lot of discussion about gay marriage. While I completely support it and see no reason for it not to be allowed, I sometimes find myself wishing this was no longer something to be debated in this दिन and age. I mean, really? It's the 21st century already. But of course, as long as ignorance and hate exists, there's no helping it...

That was not the point anyhow. I find myself wondering, exactly what role marriage as an institution has in todays society? Why is it still considered an advantage for heterosexual people to be able to marry? What significance does marriage have? I myself have resolved not to marry. What would be the point, I asked myself. I would just probably end up getting a divorce, like most people do these days. या "drift apart", only staying in an emotionally and/or physically unsatisfying relationship because of the kids, या whatnot.

I'm curious. Is this just a useless tradition that has stuck around? या does it have something other to it than financial and legal matters, which can be overturned द्वारा changing the law, should it come to that? I don't really have any case of my own as of yet, just raising a question.
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bri-marie said:
"On the order of 1,400 legal rights are conferred upon married couples in the U.S. Typically these are composed of about 400 state benefits and over 1,000 federal benefits. Among them are the rights to:
- joint parenting;
- joint adoption;
- joint foster care, custody, and visitation (including non-biological parents);
- status as next-of-kin for hospital visits and medical decisions where one partner is too ill to be competent;
- joint insurance policies for home, auto and health;
- dissolution and divorce protections such as community property and child support;
- immigration and residency for partners from other countries;
- inheritance automatically in the absence of a will;
- joint leases with automatic renewal rights in the event one partner dies या leaves the house या apartment;
- inheritance of jointly-owned real and personal property through the right of survivorship (which avoids the time and expense and taxes in probate);
- benefits such as annuities, pension plans, Social Security, and Medicare;
- spousal exemptions to property tax increases upon the death of one partner who is a co-owner of the home;
- veterans' discounts on medical care, education, and घर loans; joint filing of tax returns;
- joint filing of customs claims when traveling;
- wrongful death benefits for a surviving partner and children;
- bereavement या sick leave to care for a partner या child;
- decision-making power with respect to whether a deceased partner will be cremated या not and where to bury him या her;
- crime victims' recovery benefits;
- loss of consortium tort benefits;
- domestic violence protection orders;
- judicial protections and evidentiary immunity;

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To me marriage is a symbol of commitment. A symbol that says "I want to spend the rest of my life with you, only you, through the good and bad times, for richer या poorer, for better या worse. I want to prove to you, in every way -on paper and legally, through a big ceremony - that I am, and forever will be, yours."
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-sapherequeen- said:
My opinion on the significance या existance in general of marriage's purpose...currently undecided.

As for my thoughts on marriage in general (perhaps it will be easier to give आप the जवाब आप wish to find this way);

To me, marriage for society is the final step. The last step needed to verify that hypothetical Steve and hypothetical Anna will be together forever. I see it this way; a couple's relationship is neatly या messily folded woolen blanket, and marriage is the ribbon that's tied around it to make it keep its shape.

Now, do I see that view being accurate (in terms of it being correct)? Sometimes.

I usually see marriage as overrated, mainly due to the rising divorce rate, how young couples cluelessly get married just to abolish it months later, and because प्यार itself is overrated in my opinion :/

As for myself getting married...most likely no. 1) Can't find anyone close to being the least compatible partner. 2) It'll cost money to get the marriage and done, and to कन्फर्म a very possible divorce. I need all the money I can gather as of now :/
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piperleoforever said:
In my option, gay या lesbian marriages are okay. And for me it's just like an ordinary men-women marriage.
And if your really प्यार someone so much,you wanna spend the rest of your life with that person. With a marriage your sending a message "He/she is MINE" .. BUT most of the marriages today end up with a divorce.. SO in my option,there is still true प्यार in this world,but then again in a romantic soul,so... Anyway,if two people are meant for eachother,they will find themselves and be together.
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GiftUzamaki said:
it never gos rong cuz its प्यार and momma says प्यार is good as long as its frot the soul not body and looks =) i beleve momma!
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samuraibond005 said:
I find it to be a religious thing, I believe that marriage is an eternal bond that sticks with two people until either they divorce, या well, that is the only way to end it really...
I believe that a family isn't just a that guy gave birth to that guy, या that guy and that girl are married, and so on, but it is an eternal thing that sticks with आप even after death.
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