Damon & Bonnie Why Damon and Bonnie?

samjhart posted on Oct 27, 2009 at 02:17PM
Considering the majority of fans (of the tv show) ship Delena and book fans are divided on Damon/Bonnie, thought I'd make a forum to welcome Donnie fans (I jus made the name up) and list why exactly you are in love with this ship!

So I'll start. I read about them in the book and tho I thot Delena was sexy and all but I jus couldn't erm LOVE it. Then came the Donnie interaction - fell head over heels. It was jus..WOW. Bonnie brought out a caring, human side to Damon that I was craving to see. He cared about her and she trusted him enough to call him for help when she was in danger. I think she believed in him where even Elena gave up.

In the tv show - they look like incredibly STRONG characters who would not be intimidated by each other in a relationship. Of crz, we've actually got to see a scene with them together yet...

Gonna stop now - getting rantish lol

{The List} NOTE: Please don't copy or steal this idea. You know who you are

- Because somehow in some way they bring out the best in one another
- Because Damon sees himself in Bonnie
- Because somehow Bonnie always saves Damon
- Because Damon HAS saved Bonnie in spite of himself
- Because they're on the slow-burn and are still explosive
- Because when it comes down to it Damon could NEVER hurt Bonnie
- Because Bamon are the LOVE STORY before 'The Vampire Diaries'
- Because Damon has never lied to Bonnie
- Because Damon always can see through Bonnie even if her friends can't see through her lies
- Because Bonnie showed she trusted him with her life
- Because Damon died for her
- Because our heart broke for Bonnie when she saw Damon die - you only cry like that for someone you LOVE
- Because even in serious situations they found time to flirt
- Because Stefan totally ships them XD
- Because he blushed when she kissed him
- Because he gave her a sexy, open-mouthed kiss
- Because he noticed her bra size lol
- Because Damon teased her about the manliness of Jeremy
- Because she saved him from the witches' wrath
- Because the first time Damon saw Bonnie have a vision - he was politely puzzled
- Because Bonnie pulled one over him
- Because she was the first person to touch his true self - his soul
- Because he sees her as a 'good person'
- Because she challenged his emotional self when she saved him from the fire
- Because he did really want to 'protect' her
- Because the little hints of their backstory we've seen on the show seem AMAZING
- Because their chemistry is undeniable
- Because they outrageously flirt no matter who's there
- Because Damon rose his glass as a toast at her
- Because he eyed her up whilst she was doing a spell
- Because he was whistling at her
- Because Damon couldn't help but lick his lips when she went fiesty on his ass
- Because they are so #Married
- Because Damon automatically has no concept of personal space when it comes to Bonnie
- Because they dress in matching colours sometimes
- Because he did his eye-flirt at her
- Because he listens to her
- Because Damon tells jokes more around Bonnie
- Because Bonnie calls him "Older, sexy, danger guy" (Girl's guy radar is ON)
- Because she calls him "gorgeous" in the books
- Because he gave her sexy kiss on her back ;D
- Because he comes for his 'bird'
- Because she is worth "infinity" ordinary girls to him
- Because Bamon is so much more than lovely dovely, their wicked, bad,and not your average couple ;D
- Because we love a forbidden love story
- Because a vampire and a witch - is something to be revered
- Because they are so unpredictable together
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie in Blood Will tell before attempting to bite her
- Because that kiss had us thinking bad things
- Because on the show - he's never held anyone so physically close as he did with 'dead Bonnie'
- Because he nicknamed her
- Because she nicknamed him
- Because Damon was so emotionally affected by Bonnie's death - even though he knew she wasn't really gone
- Because she ONLY loves him!
- Because Damon couldn't slap Bonnie, instead he kiss her to calm her down in The Dinner Disaster
- Because Bonnie in the books love only him and for her he is her first choice and not the second like for Elena and Katherine
- Because they have so much passion
- Because Damon refused to let Klaus take Bonnie - with a firm "No"
- Because they both are great dancers
- Because Damon's instinct is always to protect Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie hurt Damon he never ever seeks revenge in any form
- Because in their first scene together - we love how Damon tried it on with Bonnie and how she shot him down
- Because they see right through each other
- Because in the books: Damon was beside himself with 'terror' when he realised he'd just abandoned Bonnie
- Because he couldn't take the idea of Bonnie being anyone's but his
- Because Bonnie asked Mrs Flowers how to contact the dead - so she could talk to Damon
- Because at the end of Midnight when all other visions cleared away there were only two on his mind : Bonnie's face and name
- Because he sooo checked her out in her dress in 3x09
- Because Bonnie is Damon's "humanity" in the books
- Because Damon is Bonnie's "savior"
- Because we so ship the bad boy and 'sidekick'
- Because Damon called Bonnie "good"
- Because in the Last Dance Bonnie saw real concern in Damon for herself
- Because Bonnie teases Damon
- Because Damon teases Bonnie back
- Because Bonnie is Damon's type in the books and show
- Because Damon is Bonnie's type in the books and show
- Because in After Hours Damon was fantasizing with his eyes wide open for Bonnie
- Because Damon went all poetic for Bonnie in the books
- Because Damon made Bonnie smirk-smile with his goofy dancing
- Because one look is always enough
- Because they deserve to be happy
- Because Elena is jealous of Bonnie. “I’ve also been jealous of Bonnie.” Bonnie’s head shot up, and she stared at Elena with an expression of disbelief. “I was used to being the only human Damon cared about, the only one who he would want to save.” She looked at Bonnie with tear-filled eyes. “I am so, so glad that Bonnie is alive. But I was jealous that Damon cared enough to die for her." i mean if ELENA is jealous there must be something going on! ;)
- Because the Bamily alone are enough for anyone to start shipping them XD
- Because Damon got very guilty when Bonnie mentioned him leaving her for 4 days.(Midnight)
- Because he couldn't help not looking at Bonnie, after he had undressed her. (Nightfall)
- Because Damon met Bonnie, before he met Elena. (After hours)
- Because Bonnie said he could have her anytime:
"You just don't want it to be Damon," said Meredith. "I would think you'd be more worried about him being a psycho killer than a diary thief."
"I don't know; killers are sort of romantic. Imagine your dying with his hands around your throat. He'd strangle the life out of you, and the last thing you'd see would be his face." Putting her own hands to her throat, Bonnie gasped and expired tragically, ending up draped across the bed. "He can have me anytime," she said, eyes still closed.
- Because Damon kissed Bonnie at Alaric Saltzmans party.
- Because Damon got the ability to make Bonnie laugh:
She heard Damon's low ironical voice: "And have you heard that kissing a red-haired girl cures fever blisters?" And then Bonnie's outrageous, flattered laughter.(The Struggle)
- Because they are "cut from the same cloth" aka are SoulMates
- Because Ian admitted he read the Bamon book scenes *squee*
- Because Kat said: "The most profound bond Bonnie has is with Damon"
- Because Ian said Bamon is "Wow!"
- Because Ian said that Bamon "really works"
- Because KG&IS ship them XD
- Because there's never been a couple like them
- Because in his 500 years of existence he's never met anyone like Bonnie (books)
- Because Bonnie's feelings for Damon are very real (books and show)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her (books)
- Because we can't help but notice the way he touches her in the show
- Because Damon avoids manhandling Bonnie
- Because when Bonnie saved Tyler from Damon, he immediately forgot to be mad at her
- Because they do 'mouthing' communication
- Because Damon was listening out for Bonnie even before he got to the house
- Because when Abby told Bonnie to tell her 'friends' of the danger - she called Damon
- Because Damon soooo checked out Bonnie in that dress
- Because in the books Bonnie withstood torture for Damon
- Because Bonnie lied to protect Damon from the kitsune
- Because the 'lady of quality' Damon chose to help him turn back into a vampire reminded him of Bonnie (psychoanalysis alert).
- Because Damon told Bonnie she was a 'lady of quality.'
- Because there aren't 'two like her'
- Because Damon refers to Bonnie as his witch
- Because they keep us waiting which ensures they'll be even more epic when they happen!
- Damon would never accept Bonnie w/ other guy in order to make her happy..
- Because Damon, 'He’d always thought of her as his' (Moonsong)
- Because LJ Smith said that she would have had Bamon together in the woods helping Caroline give birth. And she would FIGHT for the scene to be published

 Considering the majority of प्रशंसकों (of the tv show) ship Delena and book प्रशंसकों are divided on Damon/Bonn
last edited on Mar 07, 2012 at 02:40PM

Damon & Bonnie 12469 उत्तरों

Click here to write a response...

Showing Replies 1801-1850 of 12469

एक साल  से अधिक पुराना ILoveRomances said…
We only need one more vote and we should be ahead of them on their what would you do if Delena don't end up together poll.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
^Oh c'mon *shakes head*
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना ILoveRomances said…
What? It's not the same as posting comments.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
Its wrong tho..I mean I actually like some of these ppl they have been nice to me. I'm not gonna irratate them/annoy them cz a teenage brat with no life outside of TVD can't respect any other fanbase.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना ILoveRomances said…
I spose.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
laugh
^lol with such reluctance
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना ILoveRomances said…
Well that's because I'm dealing with some cowardly Delena fans over here and at CW. Not one of them will admit they called some Bamon fans liars over that interview. Man up people. It's not a crime. You were wrong, mistaken, whatever, but don't sweep it under the rug and pretend it didn't get said.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना ILoveRomances said…
Over at CW, they're saying I'm lying because I said they lied. I can't believe the utter gall.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
mischievous
^jus laugh it off - it always gets them worked up

most of them want u to blow a fuse..
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना bamon123 said…
XDDD

FAILS.



:) Well we'll be justified once they read the bamon scenes.

XDDDD
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना HaloSupporter said…
Everyone don't be mad, Damon and Elena fans just hate to lose any voting poll and they hate how much Bamon fan there is, I really don't know why they are complaining though, they get Damon and Elena scenes in like every episode and we have to wait and hope for Bamon scenes. They also have a great deal of scenes in the books of them so I really think they shouldn't be so mad and they should just accept that Bamon has a lot of fans and not everyone ships Stefan and Elena or Damon and Elena. I ship Stefan and Elena though Lol
last edited एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना bamon123 said…
Lol same.

stefan and elena <3

but i mainly ship bamon..
XDDD
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना HaloSupporter said…
Same with me Bamon is the main ship for me oh and everyone vote for Bamon in the polls!
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना bamon123 said…
which one??
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना HaloSupporter said…
All of them LOL I think you probably voted on them though you want me to post the link?

EDIT: You voted already so everyone else need to vote Lol
last edited एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना bamon123 said…
LMFAOOOO oh........................
XDDDDDD
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना Alexi95 said…
Okay I deleted the pick answer, I was feeling a little bad too... After all it's not all their fault some of them are evil
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना silvina19 said…
big smile
i'm agree with you people
but for some hope check the new link that i post in the bonnie's fanclub!!!

एक साल  से अधिक पुराना silvina19 said…
big smile
oh! well... better here is the link directly to the link:
link
i'm so happy with this news! it has to mean something!!!!
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
wink
I loved it! Bonnie is an important character! Specially in DR!
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
meh
Oh, I really don't think there was anything wrong with what we did on that pick. Every possibility is an option since fanpop allow us to vote on any pick, even when we are not fan on the spot.

But I don't really care. Lexi decided to delete and that's fine to me, this subject is not so important to me. Whatever happens, my life won't change. We're just having fun here. It's just a TV show. We'll have 5 years to watch Damon kissing Bonnie, loving Elena and whatever simply because the show must go on. No one would stand Damon dating Elena or Bonnie for 5 seasons.

I was pretty upset because I knew yesterday someone had said I had made up that interview and this is not fair. And that brat teenage said my friends here are fake on that offensive message, what couldn't stay unanswered.
last edited एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
smile
Exactly Patty. I love Donnie soooooo much. But I'm not gonna stoop to that brat's level and insult actual ppl who exist. Its so immature. And I know my friends aren't fake - she was the one who came across as a tad desperate and pathetic. I don't think us gatecrashing their spot reinforced that. I jus don't want to give up ANY of my friends (and some of them are Delena fans) over a lifeless, sad & pathetic individual who can't accept other POVs'. She too me isn't worth that
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
mischievous
Asma! *knocks over Asma with hug*

Yeah, this is so stupid. We're just talking about our favourite books and TV shows here. This is not something to make us sad or angry.

But that girl was pretty disrespectful. I don't even know if they answered something I said because I don't really care. I'm not coming back there.

What I really don't understand is why these ppl want to see Damon & Elena together since nobody likes Elena. All these girls are crazy for Damon because they think it's exciting to have their necks snapped but they are all jealous of her. So, what's the point? They want Damon to be the main character?
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
hmmm
^*bearhugs Patty* XD

I think they are sorta fanatsising about Damon of the show. It kinda reminds of Isabella & Heathcliff

scary - really
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
hmmm
XD

Oh, that's truth! Poor Isabella... When she realized she had married a monster it was too late... Fortunately she was rich and could run away from him, but I was sorry for her son...

That's the deal with this Heathcliff 2.0. His only love was Katherine, he hated everyone else. We'll see what's going to happen now that he knows she's never loved him and he's hated his little brother for all these years because of her.

It was so humiliating when Anna told him the truth. She knew all the time Katherine was alive and didn't care about him.

Do you think (fantasising) that Stefan comforted him when they were sat in front of the fireplace or they just stayed there the whole night in silence?
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
crying
^One of the most scary aspects of WH is I/H. *shudder*

I think they sat in silence. I truly believe that Damon couldn't bring himself to tell Stefan how sorry he was, and how much he was hurting but I think Stefan knew. I wish these two stay together forever, man. They are everything for each other. I actually believed in the books and now show - that Stefan was part of Damon's humanity..
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
crying
Oh, the worst part of WH for me was when Heathcliff forced Catherine L. to marry Linton H. That scene is awful... Of course in the end there is hope, but what this girl goes through is not fair. She was Catherine's daughter!

In the show it's easier to see how much Damon loves Stefan, don't you think? It's harder to see Stefan's love for him. But at least they used to be best friends.

In the books Damon has always had this hatred for Stefan because of their mother's death and we can only see the love when he saves Stefan.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
big smile
^OMG that was bad but at least she had Hareton at the end! XD

Yeah - in the books, he seems more about getting Elena like in the show getting Katherine. But he isn't brutal he torments his brother by continuosly trying to seduce Elena and be rude to Stefan's friends. He plays games but doesn't kill anyone..

In the show - he's more of a killer but the fact they were bffs before being vamps showed that Damon had a great bond. The fact that Damon loves K couldn't change it. Well not really. I mean it showed they were in a sense the same..
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना ILoveRomances said…
I don't think Damon ever "loved" Katherine. I think he was obsessed with her. I don't think you can have love without respect and what did he respect about her. She pitted him against his own brother who was his best friend at that time. I think he lusted after and was obsessed with her. With E, in the show, I think it'll again be about competition with his brother more than anything. I'm not buying the magic of E's love argument.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
^Why do you say that?
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
surprise
Of course, the end is the best moment... Hareton and Catherine finally together... And that evil monster dead! XD

Weird Damon and Stefan sharing the same woman in 1864 when everybody knew what was happening, don't you think? K compelled Stefan not to tell Damon, but Damon knew anyway. And why Damon has never talked to Stefan about it if he was not being compelled?
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
smile
^I think he couldn't bring himself to break Stefan's heart. I think he believed that Stefan was in love too..that's how I see it.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
wink
Hey DD!

I agree with you, it's more competition than anything. And Katherine was an obsession. He's spent 145 years wishing he could change the past. Maybe he couldn't bring himself the fact she had been taken away because of Stefan's mistake. And if he could get her back, than he could finally forgive his brother.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
tongue
Yes Asma, it must be because he believed Stefan loved her too. But... Katherine told Stefan that Damon wanted her with exclusivity *:P* as well. Then why wouldn't he do anything to ruin her game with Stefan? Maybe because he was afraid to lose her?

I don't understand how Damon could actually believe she loved him. When we love, we are afraid to lose our love. The way she played with them made perfectly clear that she didn't care.
last edited एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
cake
269 fans!
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
hmmm
^Are we really gonna believe what K says? lol but when it came to Katherine Damon was selfish I think. Like the Delena of the books..

269 fans XD
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना ILoveRomances said…
The Delena in the show is selfish too. When has Delena ever worked together to save anybody other than each other? Not to mention the selfishness of cheating either romantically or physically on Stefan.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
hmmm
^You mean an emotional affair?

IDK. They jus don't seem to have IT as the book-Delena did..
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना ILoveRomances said…
Yeah I mean an emotional affair. According to a lot of the Delena fans that's all it ever was because E is so good, virtuous, and loyal to Stefan even though she's more in love with Damon. Yuck and yawn. That's just what I've heard. I've never read the books and don't plan too. If E stuck to an emotional affair on the show, it wouldn't bother me as much, but it's a show on the CW. They're definitely going to go THERE.
last edited एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
crying
Aw my poor Stefan
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
sad
I don't agree with this emotional affair thing. Of course they care about each other. Damon is Stefan's brother and he helps Elena to save Stefan several moments. Elena gets to forgive him because he changes his behaviour a little.

I like Elena in the books. She's tough and assertive. But nobody is perfect. She's also spoiled and selfish, but she grows up. She made perfectly clear to Damon that he was her brother in law. She said it outloud. She felt drawn to him because he was using his Powers, but she's too strong to be manipulated. Of course he's handsome, but she loves Stefan.

I still don't know how can someone root for Delena. He gets to drink her blood by threats and manipulations. This is a metaphor for rape. These girls want Elena to date the guy who raped her twice. And they believe Damon loves Elena. Damon is obsessed about Elena, it's quite different.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
tongue
But all the same, Delena-books is much more interesting. Because Damon only hurts Elena. The fact she forgives him shows how much she's becoming a better person.

Delena-show is Elena forgiving a guy who's done awful things for her friends, family and everyone but saved her once. WTF?

If in the book Elena becomes a better person because of her love for Stefan, in the show she's doing the contrary. She's getting worse. Just like the show.

I so want to read "Shadow Souls"...
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
heart
^ITA Patty
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना pattykirsche said…
heart
Damon has never hurt Bonnie. Does anybody need more evidence of his love for her?
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
worried
I aint arguing with that lol Sadly only applies in the books so far tho..
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना ILoveRomances said…
Yeah, but in the show Damon has never tried to compel Bonnie. That says something too. We know he probably can't because she's a witch, but he never tried to compel her even before he knew that.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
hmmm
^yeah I guess that applies too but in the books Damon hasn't tried to bite Bonnie. He's always controlled himself..
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना bamon123 said…
didnt he try to bite her? outside of vikkis house?

MORNING.
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना samjhart said…
hmmm
hey aly *hug*

when..? are you talking about when he nearly kissed her?
एक साल  से अधिक पुराना bamon123 said…
Yehhh.. wasnt he kissing her neck? then matt came...