(PLEASE HELP ASAP) Do आप think it's weird for me to have a crush that has lasted 2 years and 9 months? (it's my first cush and I have had it for that long. I can't get over this guy!)

I have liked him (Mike Sanchez) for 2 years and 9 months and all my फ्रेंड्स are all like "OMG! That long! I think आप need to get over him. It's been almost 3 years and आप STILL like him! आप should tell him. Anyways, there is only a few days of school left."

So I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP,

tnx!

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Im goin threw the same thing right now.
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I'm in the same situation. It's not weird at all...it just mean आप REALLY have feelings for this guy, not just some little girl crush
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ok, i thought it was werid cuz my फ्रेंड्स were all like ´´STILL!!!´´
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vanillamoon08 said:
I don't think it's weird at all to like somebody for that long! I mean, a lot of people can argue with that, but प्यार is love, right? There's nothing आप can do if आप still like the person after two years या so.
However, I really think that आप should tell him. This is kinda tricky since आप only have a few days left of school, but maybe do आप think that आप can tell him somehow? Because, even though I think that it's okay to like a guy for a long time like that, I also feel that it's a long time to do something about it. I also realize that it's tricky in the sense that since you've liked him for so long, that आप probably built up really strong feelings for him during that time, which means that if आप tell him, and आप get rejected, it might mean a big heartbreak for you. :( So, I want आप to be careful, and keep in mind that there's always a chance that he might not be into you. But if he is, then that's great!!!!! :D

Okay, I have a story kind of similar to yours about my friend. She's liked this guy for nine years. Nine years. And she never told him. Nope. She barely talks to him, but she used to years ago. She's graduating from high school now, since she's a senior, but she's never had a boyfriend, या a first किस yet, because she never moved on after nine years. I'm telling आप this because I want आप to see what can happen if आप don't act out on a crush. :/ आप can like somebody for that long, but let them know. :) For, if they like आप back, आप can be with them! But if they reject you, then आप know to हटाइए onto somebody who does like आप for who आप are. :)

So, basically, I think आप should tell him somehow. Don't just blurt it out to him, but build up a conversation first so hell be less shocked. :) Good luck!!!! I hope this helped you.
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thanks a lot! i already told him yesterday and he कहा he used to like me a साल पूर्व and he still inda likes me i think.
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You're welcome! <3 And, ooohh okay. :/ If he liked आप before, there could be chance that he may like आप again. :) I think आप should be फ्रेंड्स with him for now, and see where that goes. :D
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soffi said:
actually I don't think it's that bad if u really like him, some ppl just take some और time to get over someone so if u think it's ok then don't listen to ur friends!!
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okay! thanks!
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InBieberzPantz said:
Totally NOT! i think that if आप liked him for that long, आप have something going for you...and I'VE ALSO LIKED A GUY FOR ABOUT 3 YEARS TOO:)SO dont worry, but i think that u should SIGN HIS YEARBOOK SAYING HOW YOU'VE HAD A CRUSH ON HIM<3 and PUT THAT आप LIKE HIM(IF आप GET YEARBOOKS)
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I told him I like him on the last दिन of school and he कहा "ok! Good!" then walked away. Then my freind कहा "let me get it on video" . So she borrowed my आइपॉड and made a video of me telling him. the first time i told him but the सेकंड i didn't wanna say it again cuz i was scared to go again and i felt like a fool telling him that.
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haha i made mi bff tell him he कहा just friendz tho but he flirts w/ me और now!!!
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awwwwww! i hope he likes u:) and thats such an adorable idea!
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:)
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cassiluvsjustin said:
oh no!!!! thts nothing ve had a crush on this guy for 4 years he still dosent know its normal!!!
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ok, thanks! i thought it was going to be weird!
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HaruLuver said:
Trust me that's not so bad. I've liked a guy for 8 years and I still like him. So I guess that's completely normal. Most of my फ्रेंड्स have liked someone for that long too. Your not alone.
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