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First of all, let’s examine the अवतार used द्वारा each club. The अवतार used to represent being a woman is an artistic depiction of a female face. The face is formed from colorful designs of teardrops, striped waves, and circles, in addition to distinct facial features (i.e. lips, eyes, nostrils). In contrast, the अवतार used to represent being a man is a sexually attractive woman. Just that. Nothing fancy at all.
What do these avatars convey about being a woman या being a man? Well, the Being a Woman अवतार suggests that women are interested in aesthetics, color, and beauty – even that these are inherent features, दिया that the designs make up the face of a woman. As for the Being a Man avatar, all it really suggests is that men inherently perve on women.
Okay, there are a lot of ways that the Being a Man अवतार is offensive. I’ll just cover the few that come to the चोटी, शीर्ष of my mind. For one, it’s heterosexist to assume that all men are attracted to women. Some men are attracted to other men and they are no less male than the heterosexual men. Same goes with asexual men.
For another, the अवतार sexually objectifies a woman. She’s not really related to anything like, say, a sexually attractive image of Kristen घंटी, बेल would be for the Kristen घंटी, बेल club. She’s just a बिना सोचे समझे hot female there to be eye candy. In my opinion, the अवतार is both offensive to women for obvious reasons and men for the implication that the privilege of being able to sexually objectify women is the greatest part of being a man.
Moving on with the examination of the differences between the clubs, we have the club taglines used at the चोटी, शीर्ष of the page just below the club title. The Being a Woman tagline is the simple “Women are essential”. Pretty straightforward, though it can imply various things from biological fact to political statement. Nothing really offensive.
In contrast, the Being a Man tagline is a quote from Conan the Barbarian: “What is best in life? To crush your enemies, see them driven before आप and hear the lamentation of the women! - Conan the Barbarian”. It’s an aggressive macho declaration glorifying fighting and being dismissive of women’s emotions. This is the epitome of masculinity?
Then there’s a banner for each club that rests beside the अवतार on the club page itself. The banner for Being a Woman displays a collection of various women’s heads. They appear excited and happy. I’m not sure who they are या if I’m supposed to recognize who they are. They could be an Olympic team या something like that.
In contrast, the Being a Man banner depicts a silhouette of a man holding a sword out horizontally, so that the blade stretches out along part of the length of the banner. I don’t recognize him either. Maybe he’s Conan या he could be something else. Anyway, it fits with the Conan quote in an expression of aggression. I guess men can’t be men without a threat of death.
Moving on to the content of the clubs, I will briefly scan each club’s homepage. The Being a Woman club’s most हाल का वीडियो added are “7 Things Guys Don’t Have To Do”, “How Lovely to be a Woman”, and “She’s a Lady – Forever The Sickest Kids”. Three संगीत videos, at least one comedic, about the idea of being a woman.
The Being a Man club’s most हाल का वीडियो added are “The Power of the Brain”, “Man Rides Motorized बीयर, बियर Cooler”, and “If I Were a Girl”. The first is a shot of what appears to be a naked woman’s waist and hips with hairy crotch, but what turns out to be a man’s armpit as the camera pulls back. The सेकंड shows some half-naked thrill-seeking moron doing what is described as the definition of manliness as he zips down a road without any head protection. The third video shows a guy wearing a girly wig and looks like some sort of comedy.
The trivia सवाल up at Being a Woman क्विज़ on who sings the song “I Am Woman” (Helen Reddy, द्वारा the way). A quick look through the various trivia सवालों shows that they include सवालों relating to biological facts, women’s lib, and fashion, among others. Being a Man is without any trivia सवालों whatsoever.
There are no सवालों in the answer section at Being a Woman. The Being a Man सवालों include asking who is the woman on the cover of a magazine स्विमिंग सूट issue, whether beauty and sexiness are the same thing, and how much to tip hotel housekeepers. So, two related to ogling women, and one about tipping protocol. I guess it’s there because women aren’t supposed to tip.
The Being a Woman प्रशंसक picks consist of “Do आप think men treat women like crap? (Not all men, just some)”, “Do आप have an issue with crying? (Too much of it)”, a guy asking if women would rather तारीख, दिनांक a guy smart and sexy या fun-loving and sexy (I notice he पोस्टेड the same मतदान at the guys’ section), “What do आप have planned for your future career?”, and “If u could get something pierced, what would it be?”. At Being a Man, we have “which pic is hotter?”, “what’s hotter babe on a car या on a motorcycle?”, the smart/sexy या fun-loving/sexy poll, “does it bother आप if the tits are to big” (classy), and “what is your प्रिय magazine?” in which the choices are Maxim या Playboy. So, the Being a Woman मतदानो are related to living as a woman and gender relations (I’m not counting the guy-posted one), and the Being a Man मतदानो are about ogling and dating preference.
The most हाल का Being a Woman मंच topics include what to do when your husband leaves आप for a man, what women look for in a guy (or girl), and a woman saying she considers herself a feminist and inviting radical feminists to post about their beliefs. The मंच of Being a Man is rather sparse, only containing one thread of any real substance and that is about who is the hottest chick on the planet. Its other threads include a woman popping in to say hi and a duplicate of the hottest chick thread, in which only the original poster has posted.
The image gallery at Being a Woman contains two तस्वीरें of women, I guess because they represent femininity, in addition to boy eye candy. Only one of the boys shows much skin, and only his chest is bare. The Being a Man image gallery contains one cartoon image of a fat man seeing a buff reflection in the mirror – kind of cute, I guess. Other than the cartoon, the gallery is filled with soft-core pornographic तस्वीरें of female मॉडेल in skimpy outfits. The contrast is blatant.
Being a Woman’s लिंक्स include “Girl on the go: Essentials for todays modern woman”, “Tips for getting your ex boyfriend back fast”, an ad for girl power typographic prints, “The Nielsen Power Moms 50 List”, and “Traveling Mamas Give Back: Skin Cancer Foundation”. Being a Man’s लिंक्स include “BodyRock.TV” – a work-out video with a hot teacher, “A spot for pick-up artists”, “Maxim's 100 Sexiest Women [2008]”, “Celebrity Bikinis”, and “Ladies of Liberty City” – GTA IV gameplay. Yeah…
As for the articles, Being a Woman has “One Flaw In Women” – an ‘appreciate your worth’ kind of thing, “Guy/Girl” – a ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’ kind of thing about the different ways guys and girls दिखाना they like someone, and “Girls Don’t Realize These Things” – a rant written द्वारा a कड़वा guy who thinks he deserves credit for not तारीख, दिनांक raping his female friend. Now at Being a Man, there is the same “Guy/Girl” लेख cross-posted, in addition to “A Guide to Threesomes” and “FHM 2009 - UK - Sexies Women of 2009”. Once again, we have lifestyle vs. hot girls.
In conclusion, I find the फैन्पॉप sections for women and for men to be demonstrative of the cultural gender division. As it would seem from the फैन्पॉप club, the glory of being a man involves ogling countless hot women, being aggressive, and doing stupid things. This is not to say that the women’s club is perfect either. In addition to its progressive features, it has some ideological content I see as lagging behind. In any case, the क्लब्स stand as symbols in my mind of the sexist culture that surrounds us.
