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फ्रेंड्स how much do आप talk about?

Do आप talk about everything and anything with your best friend या do आप have subjects आप stay clear of for reasons such as embarrasement या sensitivity या some other reason. I ask because my friend has suddenly decided there are certain things she does not want me talking about but when I ask for certain subjects to be off limits she takes offence. I don't want to fall out with her as she is probably moving to Spain but the rate its going I think it may happen.
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just make sure u know eachothers boundaries. tell if if theres something she doesnt want u talking about to just tell u nicely. आप guys are best फ्रेंड्स be open communicate tell her u feel alittle bad या whatever she will listen.
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BabyBlud said:
It depends on the idividual फ्रेंड्स for me. There are two फ्रेंड्स i have told everything and anything, knowing they will not judge me या dispise me and will be able to offer hope and support when i feel low when the memories hit me. Other friends, certain things for me are off limits and i respect their decision if they do not feel like telling me anything.
However - if your friend believes she should know everything about you, but does not respect आप enough to tell आप everything about her, then i can't see the relationship going anywhere.
आप should tell your friend that आप respect her decision not to tell आप things, but she in turn should respect the same of you. If आप do not want to tell her things, she shouldn't push at आप या become huffy about it, as that is not what a friend is supposed to be.
It could be she justs wants to help, but all the same, she can easily sympathise and encourage and hold आप up द्वारा the sidelines not knowing anything, then knowing every little detail.
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thank आप
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