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Is there anyone here that's socially awkward but socially confident at the same time?

I can hold a conversation and be able to socially interact with someone but at the same time. I do things that's very socially awkward and I need to get out of the habit of doing such. Is there anyone that shares that predicament? Just out of curiosity really.
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zanhar1 said:
Yup. It's really odd but I think I veer और towards the awkward side at the end of the day. As आप put it; I can hold a conversation no problem but then I have these odd social ticks and tendencies.
I think part of it has to do with having no filter. Like I will vent to a stranger about my problems. I'm too open with people and I think it makes them uncomfortable?
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One of my problems is that I look at people too long because I am analyzing them या I think they are gorgeous या interesting and it comes off as staring.
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That makes sense. With me it's a whole bunch of things.
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@Blind Its the same with me. I dont look at them though. I just sit there awkwardly and use my phone as an excuse. आप know Im using my phone as an excuse when Im not actually doing anything but flipping screens XD
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Dreamtime said:
yeah
i feel really nervous but i try not to दिखाना it
even though it effects on me badly and makes me anxiety after interact with someone
i tend to make my जवाब short and sometimes pretend
to be busy and excuse myself from the conversation
what makes me uncomfortable is i focus on their face expressions
and sometimes skip या talk about things that it got nothing to do with our subject that we are talking about in first place and it puts me in a weird moment
not to mention sometimes i get so awkward i suddenly say हे nice haircut in the middle of the conversation
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I see. Sometimes I simply don't talk at all to avoid an awkward thing from happening. But have done things akin to saying nice haircut. randomly.
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Like I don't get embarrassed really really often but when I do it's fucking painful for me for some reason.
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i feel आप man being embarrassed is one of worst feelings
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8theGreat said:
I'm kind of like that.

With me, it's और like I avoid talking to people and being near people at all costs, but I have absolutely no problem with talking in front of groups. I can give speeches and presentations without a सेकंड thought, but actually talking to people makes me nervous.

So I can see where you're coming from.
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I understand your point of view as well.
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Sapling132639 said:
With me, I'm socially awkward with certain people, but socially confident with others (especially with people I know.) It solely depends on who I'm talking to.
I'm especially socially awkward around people who I don't know. I'll just be like "Um... So... What's your प्रिय color?"
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Makes sense.
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LivialovesU said:
Not really but I feel like a nerd talking to people.
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Canada24 said:
Probably me..

I'm a pretty shy guy
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Riku114 said:
Ooh~ Me! Me! Me! Me! XD

Actually now that I think of it, Im actually pretty socially confident if Im not in a group of normal girls, girly girls, या hormone run teenage boys/girls Im pretty socially confident. I get a bit awkward the girlier the girl या the और hormone ran the person is as I dont have any clue how to interact with them. So really for me, Im either super confident या not at all. Im good around complete strangers as well.

Its mostly since I have a long सूची of how to deal with people, but with my sheer lack of experience with the people I listed above, I just have no mental notes as to what to do when faced with a scenario like that XD
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PS When I say a bit awkward it means I dont कॉनवर्स and just play on my phone the whole time.... .... Cause.... Yeah... XD
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Like.... I just dont know what to say. Im pretty charismatic but really.... I just sit there trying to think of how Im supposed to talk to them.... हे CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN TO ME WHAT NORMAL GIRLS AND GIRLY GIRLS TALK ABOUT WITH EACH OTHER?!
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Ya dealing with people आप don't like is always a challenge
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Zeppie said:
Kind of...

I am generally extremely socially awkward. If I'm not comfortable with a person (and even sometimes when I am comfortable) I get tongue-tied all the time and can't put into words what I'm thinking (hence why I प्यार communicating via messages). Then I just get embarrassed द्वारा the blundered words that I said, so it makes me even less confident.

However, when I'm in a situation where I know what I'm doing, या it requires a skill that I have and that I am good at, then I suddenly become confident...well somewhat. I'm only confident in situations where I know I'm skilled. I can't just improv anything, I have to know what I'm doing.
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I see.
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x-Yumi-x3 said:
That's me like 100%.
But I've been working on it for a few years, so it's not as bad as it use to be.
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I need to work on it और myself tbh.
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ThePrincesTale said:
लोल I have a weird double introvert-extrovert complex where I'm super shy and socially awkward around some people and loud/hyper/crazy-sociable around others.

Oh and god forbid I embarrass myself in front of someone of the former category, because if I do I'll never be able to speak to them again without having an internal-freakout xD
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FunnyBunny0 said:
Bunny
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pokemonfan909 said:
*flump hugs you* Hi, आप called for a congregation of our kind? Let's be friends
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