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I need some सलाह

I am moving into college in less than a month, and I am really nervous. Anyone can give सलाह really, but please if आप have been through this, या are already there it would really help me a lot.
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tamore said:
Hi I just finished my freshman साल and I'm going to be a sophomore!!!

सलाह - talk to everyone and go to the orientation events. The first friend I made is now my best friend and we met through orientation. Don't be afraid to talk to people - no one else really has any idea what's going on either and even the cool kids are dweebs deep down.

At the same time, choose फ्रेंड्स carefully. It's different if you're going to a huge state school या something but my school is on the smaller side and friend groups got cemented within the first few weeks. So don't hang with people आप don't like and introduce yourself to people आप find interesting even if you're terrified. Be फ्रेंड्स with your roommate but don't cling to them - having all the same फ्रेंड्स as your roomie just creates drama. Befriend your roomie but maintain boundaries!

शामिल होइए क्लब्स is also cliche सलाह but I met a lot of cool people through them! And go to parties, say yes to hanging out, be social in the beginning even if it isn't normally your thing. It makes your first साल experience so much better.

Also as far as classes make sure आप plan your schedule so आप have time to eat and time between. Don't overbook yourself. Don't be afraid to ask for help from professors - they प्यार what they do and they're super intelligent and they wanna help! Tutoring is also always available and yeah it can be stigmatized but if आप need it get it.

Get all your पुस्तकें as early as possible. Find them used to save money, या ask upperclassman if they'll sell their old पुस्तकें to you. (This also works for appliances btw. A lot of older students sell stuff at the beginning of the साल - keep an eye out!)

Get there as early as possible to हटाइए in. आप get to choose which side of the room आप want and आप don't have to deal with moving in and meeting people at the same time; it's a lot और relaxing to already have all your stuff in your room before आप go out and do stuff!

Also, आप probably don't have enough hangers and storage space. Make sure all your stuff has a home! And bring lots of comfort खाना and your प्रिय things from home. Bring Advil and cough drops and hand sanitizer (flu season in dorms is HELL and आप WILL get sick several times). आप will also need lots of paper towels. And duct tape. Duct tape fixing everything.

Idk what else to say, man, but everyone makes फ्रेंड्स at college and once आप do it's the time of your life, but आप gotta make yourself into the person आप wanna be. First साल is a fresh start - take advantage of that.

If आप have any सवालों आप can ask me, but can I ask what school you're going to? आप don't have to say if you're not comfortable with that but I'm from Pennsylvania and I'm p familiar with a lot of the schools there. ^^

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I'm actually going to a small womens liberal college :) I've actually followed a lot of these without realizing it XD.
Seastar4374 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Most of this advise is what I was going to tell you. To add - be careful if आप have to go out at night - make sure आप go with friends. Also, remember to take plenty of change with आप for washer / dryer / vending machines etc.
MaxandMart posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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^ true and on चोटी, शीर्ष of that first one, always look out for your fellow girls when आप go out! Only drink things you've seen opened in front of you. If a girl looks uncomfortable with a guy get her out of there even if आप don't know her. Don't let your drunk फ्रेंड्स do anything they wouldn't do sober. Always drink water after alcohol. ^^
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Kragfan1910 said:
Moving out is hard, but what my sister did before she left for college was she made sure to meet up with her roommates well ahead of time, so she had someone she could cling to if things got tough.
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I don't have that luxary :( My roommate is from Texas, and my college is Pennsylvania. I have only met her in person once at a scholarship competiton.
Seastar4374 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Do आप have skype information, या e-mail, या anything along those lines?
Kragfan1910 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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They gave me her college ई मेल under our residence life information when I found out my dorm room number and everything.
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