Am I the only 1 who feels a moment of complete rejection when a trade on any of the many sites that allow trades is deleted?

And even when आप ask them to संपादन करे and आप send a message saying आप what them to संपादन करे and discus what they want they still मिटाइए it as if आप didn't say anything to them...you send it specifically as an संपादन करे so they would add या take off या whatever...and they just say it was bad and your like "i know it was bad tht's why i sent आप a message saying it was bad so u could tell me what u want and tht's why it was sent as a suggestion so u could change it"