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a सवाल from a guy to all आप girls out there (or gay guys. u can help to.)

why is innocence on a guy such a turn on for some of u girls? i कहा some cuz i know not all of u are into it, i know. anyways, this is what had me thinking it. i was on the phone with me gf and she asked me to tell her somethings that i wud never tell the guys. so i told her these things that were all true about me:
- im a virgin
- i sleep with a body तकिया cuz i प्यार to cuddle
- and i still have my stuffed animal from wen i was little.
she..... went..... CRAZY!!!! she was all like "omg thats soooooo cute!!!! so innocent and cute! i cant believe u do all that! so cute and innocent" i was flattered, even though it was annoying, i wanna be sexy, not cute. lol! but then she was all like "omg ur innocence..... i want it! i want it so bad!" then i was all like "Dafuq 0_o" then she started talkin bout how she wants to be my first and all that stuff. dont want to get into detail. so why is the innocence that so many guys wish the didnt have the think that turn so many girls on??? i really want to know.
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BabyBlud said:
I think it's the maternal instinct kicking in. When girls see something cute and innocent they feel और closely connected to it, something they can truly understand and want to protect it and put their mark on it.
I've never really gotten into it myself but that's what I've come to understand about it.
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basically :3
summer448 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Material instinct? I think she just be'n kinky XD
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lili11p said:
Well, us girls like really cute and innocent things. Like पिल्लें and kittens. So it's sort of a maternal instinct that we have. Sorry if this wasn't much help. I don't have a boyfriend ^^'
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I actually think your answer was BRILLANT - especially when I really think about it.
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सबसे अच्छा जवाब
Sinna_Hime_chan posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Thank you. I'm flattered :3
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mizorewannabe said:
I should've known. -___-

Speaking from a 13 year-old's point of view, I'm actually attracted to innocent guys (and skater dudes). So maybe it's a turn-on for her because its attractive?
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Maybe she is young too like you. :)
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:3
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:) I think that is <333
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metrolight said:
Perhaps it has something to do with the idea that those who are innocent can have a wild side within them. There's the famous saying "It's always the quiet ones" that backs up the idea that those who may appear innocent may not be as innocent as they seem. This idea sparks the curiousity of the observer.
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:) Sometimes I think that is very true. . . sometimes. Where if आप want to bring that side out, but if that side is not there then "cute" just is not gonna cut it for some. लोल
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summer2987 said:
I don't think it's a turn on at all ......
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_voldy said:
No offense but I don't agree with this whole innocence thing being a turn on to girls. I mean in the past generations that might have been true but not in today's generation. Most girls like bad boys. I don't know why though. Their complete assholes and 90% of them treat their girl's like shit. If I was straight (btw I'm a lesbian) I would totally go for a good guy. Because, to me the innocence thing is appealing and I can relate to it also.
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BlindBandit92 said:
It's just personal preferences they may have. Everyone has them so yea. There's really not much to explain.
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Seastar4374 said:
I honestly am not even sure how to explain this. My girlfriend, and before we go on here I am a girl, is like "Rochelle your so innocent and adorable." She tells me similar stuff like that too. I am really sorry I am no help here, but what I can say here is that a lot of girls do find innocence sexy cause its a sign that the guy is actually kind and caring, which makes a girl want someone even more. But yeah it is a person's opinion. I go for और of an edgy kind of person, I like people who have a good and bad side.
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legend_of_roxas said:
Well there are girls who think that cuteness is sexy. I don't think anyone really knows why, it's just the way they think.
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_Aleena_ said:
Innocence is attractive. Sure, some girls think bad boys are hot and stuff. But a boy thats actually really nice and innocent and a virgin is different, and it's a turn on because when is innocent, that means he's mature enough to know he should wait to actually have sex and he respects himself and other girls if he knows he should wait till' marriage या whenever he is ready.
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karolinak1999 said:
because it's sexy!!!!
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x-Yumi-x3 said:
I think it really depends.
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SeeUV3 said:
I honestly think its cute when guys are innocent but my fear of most guys kinda blocks the attraction for me . Maybe some girls are just into innocent guys ,everyone has their taste
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prophet69 said:
I'm a straight guy and I'm still going to answer it. Fuck the police. From my experience: Girls दिखाना only pity to innocent dudes. (I'm not talking about everyone. Just my own personal statistic)
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ravissa said:
it's really cute, lol, I would be real happy to have a Virgin bf T^T, lolZ, but my bf is...well...definitly NOT Virgin...

anyways, I think girls really प्यार the cute virginity because it's very very RARE, like diamonds. And quite frankly it's not something to be ashamed of, I think it's adorable and lovable.
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ravissa said:
it's really cute, lol, I would be real happy to have a Virgin bf, xD. So I understand what she means, lol

but anyways, I think some girls really प्यार the cute virginity because it's very very RARE, like diamonds. And quite frankly it's not something to be ashamed of, I think it's adorable and lovable.

But reall, it ussaly dépends on the girls, all girls have differente point of देखा गया and types of guys.

maybe the cute innocent boy type to a girl's point of view is like a diamond (very rare) + when u loose ur virginity, u'll NEVER GET IT BACK!

being pure is dignifiing in many ways....

but girls also really like bad boys, surfer types, goths, punk, sexy guy, etc. So, really not all girls can fall for a Virgin like urself. (but many can x3)


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AlOoOosh said:
I honestly think it's cute to meet an innocent guy these days , but for me I prefer guys who aren't. I don't like the impolite guy though.
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Lisa02127kj said:
I like innocent & cute guys but i'm into bad flirty ones
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Book-Freak said:
I guess it's because innocence is the total opposite from arrogant jerks who want to take advantage. Innocence is a lot less intimidating too. Personally, I prefer guys with a bit of innocence.
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KatelynBrown said:
*Off topic* THERE'S A BODY PILLOW? I NEED ONE NOW


Cute is sexy, especially to fangirls.
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
I answered this सवाल on The प्यार Club, as best I could, because it isn't a turn-on for me but I can understand that people like different things.

I hear that same thing from guys about wanting to rape my innocence and stuff- half of it sounds like a line, something they picked up and just got themselves aroused, and the other part may actually get a thrill from the defiling या deflowering and want to OWN someone's innocence because it can only be दिया once.(Or just wanting to be someone's first...IDK). I understand "kinky" but it depends on whether it is sacred, sweet, something special आप respect, प्यार and care, या lust, या looked at as "OH BOY I can Manipulate आप better!" या just a bunch of stuff- bringing out that passionate/dormant lustful side, etc. My answer on the प्यार Club was kinda different than here, but I did not want to totally repeat.
That is not a turn on for me. I have a younger boyfriend but I do not want to feel like I am molesting some kid या being a pedo! 0_0 I want a MAN. He cringes and grits his teeth and gets mad when he gets called "cute." Now I see nothing wrong with any of what आप listed. It just does not turn me on. . . but like I DID say on the प्यार club, I also do not like Baby-face guys, big eyes, या feminine guys. My bf has done a lot to PROVE to me, that though he may be younger, he can still know a thing या two, even और than me! 0_0 Even though we learn things together, I do not feel I "teach" या he's a fast study, because I would not like that... Boyish does not do it for me BUT we are also bestfriends and I can certainly talk & relate on thse other levels and stuff. So I am not sure exactly what her likes are, but hey, if works. All I know is my guy wants to be sexy and yet he's real too and I appreciate BOTH. (Sexy turns me on though >//<)
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 I answered this सवाल on The प्यार Club, as best I could, because it isn't a turn-on for me but I can understand that people like different things. I hear that same thing from guys about wanting to rape my innocence and stuff- half of it sounds like a line, something they picked up and just got themselves aroused, and the other part may actually get a thrill from the defiling या deflowering and want to OWN someone's innocence because it can only be दिया once.(Or just wanting to be someone's first...IDK). I understand "kinky" but it depends on whether it is sacred, sweet, something special आप respect, प्यार and care, या lust, या looked at as "OH BOY I can Manipulate आप better!" या just a bunch of stuff- bringing out that passionate/dormant lustful side, etc. My answer on the प्यार Club was kinda different than here, but I did not want to totally repeat. That is not a turn on for me. I have a younger boyfriend but I do not want to feel like I am molesting some kid या being a pedo! 0_0 I want a MAN. He cringes and grits his teeth and gets mad when he gets called "cute." Now I see nothing wrong with any of what आप listed. It just does not turn me on. . . but like I DID say on the प्यार club, I also do not like Baby-face guys, big eyes, या feminine guys. My bf has done a lot to PROVE to me, that though he may be younger, he can still know a thing या two, even और than me! 0_0 Even though we learn things together, I do not feel I "teach" या he's a fast study, because I would not like that... Boyish does not do it for me BUT we are also bestfriends and I can certainly talk & relate on thse other levels and stuff. So I am not sure exactly what her likes are, but hey, if works. All I know is my guy wants to be sexy and yet he's real too and I appreciate BOTH. (Sexy turns me on though >//<)
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I do NOT think "innocence" is so attractive in a guy. I think HUMILITY is "attractive" - INTEGRITY is "attactive". . .
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nmdis said:
I believe that a girl is और attracted to an innocent boy than a "bad boy" and it's actually true maybe not for all girls but for majority its true. A girl thinks that an innocent guy will not cheat her. On the other hand "bad boys" do flirts with other girl which make the girls to feel that their bf is looking for another partner and can leave her anytime. they feel और सुरक्षित with innocent guys, an usually they thinks that these guys have patience and they could listen to her. Your gf asked आप to tell your secret (they are aren't they?) and आप told her which made her feel that she could trust आप and आप are loyal to her so she कहा आप that and actually being innocent is good not all boys have that. आप should be happy because girls like "cute" boys more, आप know that right?
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pearlxashxdawn said:
In my perspective, I प्यार innocent guys more. I think they're cute but I also प्यार sexy ones XD

It actually depends on the girl, to be honest. We girls have different ideal types.
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neonstars said:
Because secretly she's innocent too.
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