I guess so. It really depends on the person, though. आप can hate some people and प्यार others. I guess the people आप love, there is not a to that, though. XD
it depends if infatuation या real true love. आप cant stop प्यार या force it. how much आप प्यार the person isnt up to you. प्यार is enevitable, but becareful who आप let have it because the worst storms start when they're unexpected