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Why do some people (mainly girls) act like flirting is fun?


I always see and hear girls talking about flirting like it's something to do for fun, like an actual recreational activity. How can अभिनय like a tease be fun? I honestly cannot imagine what can be fun about flirting. Whenever a girl says something like "Yay! lets go out on the town, flirt with guys, and have some fun" i really try not to think that that girl as a strumpet, but the idea that people who are not whores do that for fun is kind of an alien concept to me.
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Haha, strumpet....
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someone_save_me said:
No idea, but I stopped paying attention at the word "strumpet". For some reason that word is currently cracking me up.
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Agreed. I started tearing up because I was laughing so hard.
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The word might be better than slut, या whore, या skank because it sounds like an instrument. Trollop's a good word too.
MasterOfFear posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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TROLLOP XD
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hetaliaitaly said:
well they just like to but im not gonna judge them just ignore it :)
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I'm just wondering, from a psychiatric perspective, why they would do such a thing.
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Jeffersonian said:
I don't know, I personally haven't...probably because I'd be like the worst flirter ever.
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lol, same.
sunflowerchild posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Why do आप flirt so much?
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mrsspencereid said:
Even though I'm a teenage girl, that concept has always been a mystery to me. I get that it can be fun when आप meet a new guy, but really, why flirt if आप already have a boyfriend या if you're not really interested? Some girls are just so shallow that they can honestly think of nothing else. I I know और girls like this than necessary. Thank god I'm not one of them.
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I'm glad your not like that too.
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ivoryphills said:
Just like how hanging out with फ्रेंड्स is fun: you're socializing and killing time.
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So toying with other people's emotions is fun या something? It just sounds like a really manipulative thing to do.
MasterOfFear posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Yeah, like flirtatious people just want to toy with other's emotions. :-/ Nah, to me, flirting isn't toying with another's emotions या anything like that. I simply believe that flirting is used just to socialize, give-and-get attention, and possibly even make a new friend. I wouldn't exactly know how flirting works because I barely socialize, let alone flirt with strange men, but I seen many cases where women flirt with men and the men knew it was simple fun, no chemistry whatsoever.
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Sammisaurus said:
I understand where आप are coming from, but I don't really think saying "mainly girls" is fair. That may be your case, but I actually know way और guys who do that sort of thing than girls.

Anyway, I'm not sure. It doesn't seem like something that would be very fun to do. I've never done anything of that sort, but then again I don't really flirt with anyone. Especially people I like. I mostly flirt with girls in a joking manner.
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I just know allot of guys actually complaining about that and calling girls like that cockteases while i hear girls say doing that is fun. So from my perspective, it seems like girls do it more.
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Me_Iz_Here said:
I don't know. I honestly don't get it. A bunch of my फ्रेंड्स are all like "OMGOMGOMG BOYSSSS!!!!" And I'm just here like "LOLOL internet."
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Agreed.
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same XD
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cassie-1-2-3 said:
Flirting is enjoyable and it makes आप feel great. It's great for your ego and gives आप a huge confidence boost.

I see what you're saying, though. I would never flirt with a guy I have no intention on ever seeing again, it just seems like a waste of time. ...Well maybe, if he and I both know we'll probably never see each other again, but never to the point of leading someone on.

I suppose the ones who randomly flirt with anyone are people who are less concerned with the other person's feeling, या don't think the other person would think too much of it.
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It's good for the ego and boosts confidence. Okay i understand it a little better at least.
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Skylen said:
flirting isn't fun, it makes the girl look shallow and stupid...especally when the girl is really bad at it...like me (i rather not humiliate myself publicly on purpose)
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CMxJ2xKA_L0Ve said:
Your kidding right? Flirting is sooo fun! It's basically like an ego boost!
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*you're! before someone else corrects me!
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bluesweets said:
They act like flirting is fun, because they find it fun.
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8theGreat said:
One of those things that आप can't fully understand unless you're the same way I suppose. To each their own.
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MyDeadSummer said:
I'm a girl, and personally flirting is just plain weird... I've see boys flirt better than girls...
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Heroine999 said:
I don't know why your saying mostly girl do it.I'm not getting into this shit!
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darkwave said:
Because they´re bored,they have no life,they like to be whores,they like to be used and "abused" द्वारा the boys...

(just my opinion)
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That actually sounds logical compared to allot of other दिया explanations.
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