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An important issue, so answer please.

I'm not gay, nor lesbian, etc....
Plus, I don't see any wrong with being gay, lesbian, homo या bi! I don't see any right with this either.. Which means that I'm neutral.

But I just have a little question, why each time I say to a girl that I like/love her, she understands me the wrong way? However, my mind is totally pure द्वारा saying that to her. Precisely Americans (no offense to any of them). I'm female though, and I usually like girls as my best friends, या even as my sisters, not as AHEM!
I like to talk to girls और than talking to guys.
All my group फ्रेंड्स is full of girls.
I play with them, having fun together (don't let your mind go to the wrong side please, handle it)..I'm really sick of this. Like imagine it, every time I say to a girl "I like you" she objects strongly and says "I'm not a gay", even though, I'm not either. that happened to me once and I was absolutely embarrassed द्वारा this. (Happened on Fanpop, द्वारा the way)

What are your thoughts on this? :/
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it's retarded beyond belief
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ImAdorkable said:
I'm not a lesbian या bi. Me and two girl फ्रेंड्स (two words, not one) say stuff like that, too. Those two are really my only two फ्रेंड्स that are girls. I hang out with guys more, cause I hate the drama girls bring. I have like four best फ्रेंड्स that are guys, and sometimes I get mistaken for being bisexual for the way I act. It's totally normal if आप hang out with girls और than guys, या guys और than girls. Just quickly explain to them that आप aren't lesbian या bi, आप just meant it in a friendly way. Me and my best guy friend tell eachother we प्यार eachother a lot, it doesn't change our relationship. Good luck with whatever happens.
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I have lots of फ्रेंड्स (girls not guys) 'cause I prefer them, but my best friend is one. Only one. And I know her, as well as she does. And she doesn't bring the dramas all right at my face, 'cause I and her don't like this either. Anyway, the girls that I'm talking about I actually don't know very well. And I feel like I प्यार the way of how one of them think या act, so I tell her "I like you", आप know the reaction after so.
ShiningsTar542 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Try politely explaining to them that आप meant it innocently.
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Probably right. Will see. Thanks. :)
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No problem. :)
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Me_Iz_Here said:
happens to me, really irritating.

just ignore it या tell them to stop.
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आप think I have to do so? Well, I won't tell any girl that I like her then ignore her या to tell her to stop, because I like her.. आप know.
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Trainofdoom said:
Aw me, that has happened to me..(us?) too!
If they are not gay and I am not gay then there is no problem with it.

Just follow it up with a "no homo"
hoped this helped me!
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=^_^= Thank me. I think I will handle it अगला time. I just needed my opinion on that. xD
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My welcome! (?)
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Or, I'm welcome. XD
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Hailie_45 said:
आप kinda hurt me द्वारा say "Precisely Americans", but the "no offense.." sentence cured that.
Anyway, that happens a lot to me. I actually don't know what to say after then, and yes this so embarrassing, especially when आप say to her that आप like her and all she does is "objection".
I have the same reaction ,so I think I can't help out. Sorry.
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It's okay! I see most of people think the same.
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katy55 said:
u'll certainly have to forgive them. u see because some pplz minds are a little perverteed and also since maybe it might hav that type of enviroment around them thats the first thing that will pop into their heads, other ppl might take it the wrong way so try to ignore it, thats just how life has become these days, आप hav to watch everything u say otherwise ppl will look at u differently. but anyway, just ignore it.
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Cool response. I think आप are right. Though, I hardly can ignore anything, but I will try. ^^
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Sasume said:
It just goes to दिखाना आप that some people aren't the smartest...take no offense to that, as long as आप know what/who आप are आप don't have to worry about what other people think. Just make sure it doesn't get out of hand. I have plenty of girl फ्रेंड्स and we jokingly say stuff like that. It's like when आप tell your family आप प्यार them: it's not a romantic love, a family प्यार :D. Yeah, I'm American and some people are jerks. But it doesn't have to do with your nationality, I don't call people gay if they're the same gender as me and say "I love/like you" because I believe in having an open mind and it just doesn't bother me. Good luck!
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Sorry about holding this all to Americans particularly, I knew I should have पोस्टेड this part, even if it was one my head. And I know it doesn't have anything with nationalities. I meant that all Americans that I talked to myself thought of the same wrong way. Sorry again. ^^ And thanks for answering. I think I'm convinced now.
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I'm glad you're better now :D. It's okay, everyone makes mistakes :D and it seems that the jerks are heard और than the ones with sense...don't आप agree?
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Yeah but I'm pretty sure ignorance is a learned skill.
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Jeffersonian said:
For some reason people, Americans precisely (I'm American so nobody freak out) tend to jump to conclusions. That's why I never say in public that I find my प्रिय actress cute (like a little कुत्ते का बच्चा, पिल्ला not in a lesbian way) because I know if certain people heard they'd take it the wrong way. I think a लोकप्रिय American phrase (or at least one I've heard) that might help आप is LYLAS (Love आप Like A Sister). Hope I'm helpful.
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Totally true. When I talk to any American I think of an American sentence that doesn't freak them out या think of me the wrong way. Sorry about saying Americans though. *Blushing*.
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It gets annoying when people need आप to elaborate on everything in order for no conclusions to be jumped to.
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