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I've लॉस्ट my best friend.

On tuesday both of my best फ्रेंड्स told me that they don't want to hang out with me anymore. Now I hang out with my other friend, but she also hangs out with her other फ्रेंड्स that I'm not फ्रेंड्स with, so I always feel akward like I don't belong. I've tried hanging out with some of my other फ्रेंड्स too, but I always feel akward because I feel like I don't belong anywhere.

Also, yesterday I found out that my crush likes someone else. And it's a girl a few years younger than him, they're not even in the same grade. But I can't get over him, and I really want to tell him how I feel about him, but I don't know what he'll say, and I don't want to get hurt even worse. But now there's a guy a साल older than me that I think likes me, because he talks to me on FB and he told me I'm cute. I think he's kinda cute too, and he seems nice, so I guess I wouldn't mind dating him if he decided to ask me out, but I still have a crush on the other guy.

What should I do?

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fly210 said:
well I can't really help आप that much execpt telling आप 2 things.
1) everyone gets kicked out of the group eventualy. Just take it as a time to meet new people. most likly they will be your फ्रेंड्स again after a महीना at most.

2)It is prooven that the "loners" या "misfits" in a school do better in their adult years then populars. So this may be good for your future.

sorry that that is all I can tell you. Hope it helps! :D

p.s. with the boyfriend thing I got no clue. just follow your heart. If आप do that you'll never be wrong.
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Thnx for the advice. c:
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AnimeFan66 said:
First off, I know what आप are going through- friendship can be दिल breaking at times and it's hard to trust फ्रेंड्स when they don't know everything about आप या unless they trust आप with everything आप tell them. The best thing to do about your old फ्रेंड्स या this friend is to just stay away from them and start meeting new people. I know meeting new people and making new फ्रेंड्स is tough but eventually आप feel a lot better. As for your dating situatuions, that is for आप to decide- if this other guy your dating currently is looking at other girls, then it's best to tell him through and tell him that it can't work out that well (even though it will be diffcult and दिल breaking to explain it all). This other guy आप should try to get to knowing him, but be carefull- आप never know what can happen next.
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i'm sorry if none of what i am saying is helping you, but i have been through these situations many times.
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Thnx for the advice. c:
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ginger805 said:
well, this is only MY opinion but i think i, if i were u, that maybe if u still miss both of ur old फ्रेंड्स maybe u can talk 2 them and work thigs out with them. u can also ask out ur crush, i mean u have nothing 2 loose if he says no so wat हटाइए but if he says yes then go for it. and about the other guy that u think he likes u and u KINDA like him back well, u can try being फ्रेंड्स with him.
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I've tried talking to my old friends, but they just try to avoid me & don't want to talk to me. :c
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
1) If she was ever a true friend, she wouldn't just suddenly drop you. My 'friend' did that once. She just decided that she didn't like me anymore, then the अगला दिन decided that nothing had ever happened. I confronted her, and she admitted that it was all just stupid, and could we just forget it. I like her I guess, we have a laugh together, but I know that she's not the sort of friend that I could trust. We get on, she's fun to hang out with, but that's all our friendship is. It doesn't get to the point when I feel that I could text her in the middle of the night and hear that she still wants to talk to me. I don't know, but I kind of get the feeling that that's what the friendship is between आप and your best friend was. Maybe, maybe not, I'm not you. But just भालू in mind that a true friend will stick द्वारा आप no matter what, and maybe आप should think about who your best फ्रेंड्स really are.
Friendship is hard. But give things a bit longer and see how things progress. आप may find that these other फ्रेंड्स will end up being way और trustworthy than your ex-friend ever was. It takes a while to feel like you're officially part of a group, but that's only natural. You'll get to know them, and they'll get to know you; and you'll possibly find that they're kind of फ्रेंड्स that आप always wanted, आप just didn't realize it till it came. In time things will work out, really. Friendship groups are always changing, everywhere, and sometimes it's for the best. Good luck.

2) I can't really give आप much सलाह on this one, just follow your heart.

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Thnx for the advice. c:
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rapunzeleah123 said:
Don't worry.

A best "friend" told me she didn't want to be फ्रेंड्स with me anymore, also.
Surprisingly, I felt no sense of loss या hurt, because I realized that she couldn't be a true friend if she wanted to stop being friends. You'll find someone out there who understands and likes आप as a person :)

About your crush.
"Crush" is the key word here. Depending on how old आप are, it's highly doubtful that the dating thing will last through college या even high school. Besides, the crush will wear off way before that, trust me.
I would suggest asking the other guy out. Your crush will see that you've (possibly) moved on, and might let go of the other girl and go to you. If he doesn't, he ain't worth it, sweetheart.
Good luck,
--Rapunzel
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Completely agree with you, आप put that really well. :)
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Thanks :)
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No problem :)
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Goldilottes said:
Oh hun you're in a bad situ.. </3 I was in one like that a while पूर्व so i get how confused and worried आप feel. Its a hard situation cos of the bff thing then the crush thing. I'll start with the bff thing- I have two 'best friends' -_- that sometimes go off with eachother and leave me out too, and the only other half फ्रेंड्स i have i feel awkward with too.
firstly, आप should tell your problems to your mom, she's probably been there herself. आप should also talk to your so called best फ्रेंड्स and find out why they कहा that to you.. altho i think i already know- most girls don't get on in friendships of 3, so 2 of them group together so both of them are safe, and leave out the third. personally i find that pathetic, but thats what most girls are like. आप should tell them that आप have other worries too and would appreciate their support, and offer your if ever they have any problems too. let them know आप value their friendship, but don't be a doormat. they don't sound like good फ्रेंड्स to me, so if the talk is unsuccessful, then just use them like they used you. just use them to talk to in school so आप dont have to hang out with awkward people. -If आप dont want to do that and still value their friendship, then try talking to your favourite female teacher about it. there's normally always one nice teacher that likes आप and understands everything. आप should get that sorted out, but not so that the other 2 girls get told off, because that will make them dislike आप more.


About the boy situation, आप should definitely look into that. first to say, i'm not sure about either of those two boys आप mention. i am disappointed for आप that the boy आप like doesnt SEEM to like you, because i've been there and its the worst gutting feeling of all. especially when he likes someone else instead, that really kills. There are a few options of what आप can do about him. they will depend on what your frame of mind is like. If आप are feeling strong, ready for a risk and not ready to let your problems overtake you, then wait until आप are on your own with him and hint that आप like him. then, drop into a conversation the सवाल of if there happens to anyone he likes. he probably wouldn't say 'yeah, you.' even if he did like you, so be prepared for that. boys just arent like that unfortuantely for us :(
but before आप talk to him, do your homework द्वारा finding out as much information as आप can. get talking to his फ्रेंड्स and yours, but don't make it too obvious आप like him.. this could have disastrous effect on आप if it all goes wrong and it turns out ha has no feelings for आप whatsoever. (i think he probably has a little bit, cos otherwise आप wouldnt have liked him in the first place.)
also, get talking to the girl he supposedly likes and find out if its true and if she likes him too. again, don't be obvious.

(please see टिप्पणी दे below for the rest)
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But as soon as it becomes obvious that it isnt going to work, take a step back from him, and wait for things to blow over. आप never know, he might start liking you. but only if आप make yourself likeable.
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As for the other guy, आप shouldn't automatically choose him just because he likes you- there has to be a spark. I can tell द्वारा they way आप write about him that आप aren't 100% sure आप like him, which is no good. BUT, if आप got to know him better, आप may like him. I think it is probably mostly because आप are so pre-occupied द्वारा your crush on the other guy that आप don't really notice the one who likes you. he might turn out to be amazing.
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Its ok, i hope its not too long :)
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alismouha said:
Who else didn't bother to read all of that?
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