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Does this sounds like I'm the jerk या my friend and what should I do about it?

Ok this happened a long time ago, but I just need to talk about it. Ok I was real good फ्रेंड्स with someone on here (or I thought I was) well I have this problem if someone makes fun of Dawn from Pokemon I get really mad and sometimes I yell at them (I don't do it much anymore) Will I saw someone say they hate Dawn because she's to nice and kind. I got really ticked off and yelled "Will at least she's not a jerk like Misty!! It's actually a good thing to be nice, not a jerk!!" Then I saw I was yelling at her, I was like "Oh.....that's not good" She got mad and yelled "Do आप have to stand up for Dawn everytime someone says one thing about her! Just leave me alone!!" I felt horrible, I made a good friend hate me. She doesn't talk to me anymore and I miss her. One of my फ्रेंड्स कहा she was being a bad friend, not me and that she wasn't a true friend if she stopped talking to me after one fight. Do आप think she's right? She did friend me back after I कहा I like Misty again, but once I started hating Misty....agian. She deleted me....again. Do आप think I'm the one being the jerk या do आप think my friens is? How do I get her to forgive me? I don't know what to do, I've कहा I was sorry a million times, but she won't talk to me.
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NeroVsLeon said:
Ok let get this straight, you're fighting over a कार्टून characters?! Anyway it's not आप या her is being a jerk, but I really think आप should talk to her like in an intelligent way if आप know what I mean.
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u're right
bucherstrongest posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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I know it's very stupid think to fight about, but this was like 4 months पूर्व and I don't get mad about stuff like that anymore. I have फ्रेंड्स on here who like different characters then me and we talk all the time. But she just won't even talk to me anymore, I don't know what to do. I've कहा I was sorry, but she just ignores me.
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bucherstrongest said:
what?! she hates u only because u like different characters? that's not friendly, none of u are jerks, well for example, i don't like justin bieber but my friend likes him, but we still r friends, hating a person only because he/she hates ur fav character, that's crazy, dude! go and tell ur friend her mistake and she'll understand something, problem's over
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I've tried talking to her द्वारा messages, but she won't even say one word to me.
pumpkinqueen posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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k then just wait, don't say to her any word and then she'll apologise द्वारा herself
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tdigirl said:
put that on zee सलाह spot.......
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its a बिना सोचे समझे spot. meaning anything can go on.
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animegrl52p said:
Niether of आप are jerks! आप both have different opinions on characters. Try telling your friend what आप think about this fight and try apologizing again. आप shouldnt constantly try to apologize. Give her time to think about it. If she is a real friend, she'll forgive you.
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I don't constandtly apologize, sometimes I jst try and say hi to her. But she just asks like I didn't say anything.
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*constantly, *just, *acts. Sorry misspelled some words.
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kitmolly123 said:
No one is a jerk,but she really needs to learn that people have their own opinions.
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LifesGoodx3 said:
I think आप both need to talk out your problems so आप can see if being फ्रेंड्स is possible anymore.
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StarWarsFan7 said:
Well, this did happen a long time ago. आप and your friend should get over it. Forget about it and make up.
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I have forgot about it and I want to make up, she just won't listen.
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
Neither of आप are being jerks, you've both got caught up in a silly argument. Your friendship really should not be based on - cartoon characters?

She's having a go at your for standing up for this Dawn, but she's ignoring आप because आप don't like Misty.

Tbh, in my opinion, if she can't be mature enough to get over your opinion on some cartoon characters, then she's not worth trying to win back. You've apologized all आप can, it's up to her to decide. आप shouldn't be the one chasing after her.

It doesn't matter what your interests are. I have फ्रेंड्स on here who have interests of all sorts. संगीत tastes from One Direction to Black Veil Brides, and interests from ऐनीमे to soaps.

आप don't have to agree on your friends' opinion. I have a friend on here who doesn't like Cheryl Cole, whereas I'm her biggest fan. It shouldn't come between you. It's आप that matters, not which characters/music/books/interests etc आप like. :)


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Thanks for the advise. :)
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TeamGalacticFan said:
Well I'd say your the victim here I mean just because आप don't like one character dosen't necesarily mean that she should even consider thinking about deleting आप because well all I could say is that its not what फ्रेंड्स do!

Okay I am saying that she is the one being a jerk if I'm honest!

आप have all the right in the world to defend a character आप like.

And if she was a true friend she would forgive आप I'm sorry but I don't know if her senses will come back unless she gets them knocked back into her!

So this is what I mean overall:
Your old friend:The jerk
You:The victim

Well thats what I think anyway!
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posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना 
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But really none of आप are jerks I'm sure of it well at least i know your not anyway!See I have a hard time explaining things in my way which is when I have so much on my mind so some of that may just be jibberish.
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But she is proving to be immature द्वारा not getting over something so small!I mean at school I have a friend who is like N's biggest प्रशंसक whilst I really hate N but we're still really good फ्रेंड्स it hasn't made us fall apart what so ever!And well I like Tabitha whilst she can't stand him and none of the two incidencces have ever involved a fall out between us!
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