What happens in our lives doesn't affect how close we are to God. We get closer to him द्वारा giving him और of our time, द्वारा acknowledging his power in the hardest of times and seeing his greatness through it all.
somtimes we can be burdend with life many setbacks, its all a test of endurance. and yes its hard, but आप must understand, that god is a god of compassion, mercy and love. he would never allow आप to be tested anymore than आप can handle. stay strong, keep the faith, and continue to live द्वारा the words of the gospels each दिन of your life. and then आप may see change accure.