My oldest friend since primary school has really changed. She acts really flirty and sometimes bitchy and some of my फ्रेंड्स and myself had a big fight with her last year... She promised to changed but she hasn't.

We all change through years. i think आप not the same, that you've been in primary school. My best friend became kinda bithchy too but I प्यार her the way she is, although sometimes I feel embarressed for her and sometimes she irritates me
Now आप have choice: आप can leave her and find new फ्रेंड्स या try to प्यार her as she is. But आप can't change ppl. She only can pretend to save your friendship (though I dont think that's a good way)

lots of people change. i'd sit down at chat to her. maybe start off ther conversation द्वारा bringing some sweets and offering her one, as a starting point. then bring the subject up with her about what you've just told us. if she's a true friend she'll understand.

i'm having friend trouble at the mo too. this is what happened to me:

my bestfriend recently turned on me because when we were talking, i told her of this boy i liked, and i really did like him, he was amazing and i was totally made for him. my BFF कहा she'd help me go out with this boy, and she कहा she'd speak to him. i asked her if she was sure cos i was pretty confident i could do it myself, but i trusted her to help me out. instead, she turned him towards herself and i later found out she liked him also, but this was after i'd already कहा i liked him. she did not help me at all!! while she was talking to him she had told him all these terrible lies and fake-cried and everthing. now she is with him. i feel like such a fool for letting her "help" me. worst of all, i see her every दिन at school, and i have to accept that the guy of my dreams is now taken; द्वारा my so called best friend, who pulls his tie and pokes him in the stomach.
also, everytime she sees me she rips my work, really discreetly so no one sees, या tips water on my work, या pushes me against the दीवार या throws my lunch in the bin.but she never gets caught cos she's such a goody two shoes to the adults.
so i'm pretty sad at the mo. mostly cos of losing my guy. :,(

The real सवाल is do आप still wanna be her bestie..... Because one of my frinds didi that to me and i forgave her tha 1st and 2nd time but the 3rd time i कहा enough is enough and i told her if she was going to keep treating me this way we couldnt be फ्रेंड्स anymore she कहा fine for a littel while i couldnt even look at her but now we are फ्रेंड्स NOT best firends not even close फ्रेंड्स just friends. so see if आप get anything from that!!

Try to have a serious talk with her. If things don't change, then she obviously doesn't care about whether या not she's hurting you; I'm sorry.

well if आप gave her a सेकंड chance she should have stopped I wouldn't b her friend anymore

I guess she's अभिनय that way because people can change and maybe as she got older she started to care और about other things explaining how she acts now (flirty & bitchy).
I think also that she keeps making promises that being broken to आप to pretend to reasure आप या just to stop u from bothering her (no offence).
I got in the same situation before so I know how u feel