With the rise in brutal verbal beatings on the internet these days, with kids telling other kids things they would NEVER have कहा to them in person, I think it's important to point out some words that should slide right off your back.
That being said, I know it's easier to pretend that words don't hurt when they actually do. This सूची of words, are words that I have learned not to take offensively, and I will give आप an example of why each one doesn't bother me. This way, if आप ever feel yourself stung द्वारा the verbal attacks of an insecure online "friend," आप can read this लेख and know that A) you're not alone and B) we're here to help.
List of Words That Will Never Hurt Me
1) Gay. My actual sexual orientation aside, I have never, nor will I ever, consider the words "gay" या "lesbian" an insult. First of all, because some of the sweetest, funniest, bravest people I know are gay या lesbian. And सेकंड of all, if it's homophobic straight people who want to use it as an insult, well, let's just say I'd rather be "gay" then like them.
2) Stupid. This may be due to my obscene arrogance, but I know that I am really smart. The fact that someone feels the need to call me stupid just demonstrates the fact that they don't like that I'm smart. Maybe even smarter than them. The real way आप know you're not stupid, is if आप just smile enigmatically at a remark like this and say nothing. Because you're smart enough to know that these people are baiting you.
3) Fat and/or Ugly. When I was younger, and going through that awkward phase of adolescence, this insult might have bothered me और than the above two. I was highly insecure with my body image back then. Now, I'm comfortable in my own skin, and just roll my eyes at such immaturity. But since this लेख is targeted at that age group, I felt that it was an important insult to discuss. It is essential to remember that the words these girls say hold no power over you, and that आप are a beautiful person, especially if आप don't respond to the baiting. I don't care if आप actually are overweight, या if आप think your features are ugly. This insult is preying on your insecurities. If आप can't help but let it get to you, go to a real friend या family mother and ask them if they think you're fat या ugly. They'll say no, and it's their opinion that आप should listen to.
The very important key to fighting the burn of insults is to remind yourself that the words these people are saying are just reflections of how they view themselves. Whatever phrase they think will be the most insulting to you, is the phrase that, if someone ever used against them, would hurt them the most.
Be strong. I know that words can hurt, and for some reason, teenagers, particularly girls, can be extremely nasty with their word choice. The good news is, most of them will grow out of that phase and learn to be pleasant, friendly adults. The better news is, you'll also grow up, and, having dealt with your insecurities in your youth, be और comfortable with yourself then the people who hid behind insults.
That being said, I know it's easier to pretend that words don't hurt when they actually do. This सूची of words, are words that I have learned not to take offensively, and I will give आप an example of why each one doesn't bother me. This way, if आप ever feel yourself stung द्वारा the verbal attacks of an insecure online "friend," आप can read this लेख and know that A) you're not alone and B) we're here to help.
List of Words That Will Never Hurt Me
1) Gay. My actual sexual orientation aside, I have never, nor will I ever, consider the words "gay" या "lesbian" an insult. First of all, because some of the sweetest, funniest, bravest people I know are gay या lesbian. And सेकंड of all, if it's homophobic straight people who want to use it as an insult, well, let's just say I'd rather be "gay" then like them.
2) Stupid. This may be due to my obscene arrogance, but I know that I am really smart. The fact that someone feels the need to call me stupid just demonstrates the fact that they don't like that I'm smart. Maybe even smarter than them. The real way आप know you're not stupid, is if आप just smile enigmatically at a remark like this and say nothing. Because you're smart enough to know that these people are baiting you.
3) Fat and/or Ugly. When I was younger, and going through that awkward phase of adolescence, this insult might have bothered me और than the above two. I was highly insecure with my body image back then. Now, I'm comfortable in my own skin, and just roll my eyes at such immaturity. But since this लेख is targeted at that age group, I felt that it was an important insult to discuss. It is essential to remember that the words these girls say hold no power over you, and that आप are a beautiful person, especially if आप don't respond to the baiting. I don't care if आप actually are overweight, या if आप think your features are ugly. This insult is preying on your insecurities. If आप can't help but let it get to you, go to a real friend या family mother and ask them if they think you're fat या ugly. They'll say no, and it's their opinion that आप should listen to.
The very important key to fighting the burn of insults is to remind yourself that the words these people are saying are just reflections of how they view themselves. Whatever phrase they think will be the most insulting to you, is the phrase that, if someone ever used against them, would hurt them the most.
Be strong. I know that words can hurt, and for some reason, teenagers, particularly girls, can be extremely nasty with their word choice. The good news is, most of them will grow out of that phase and learn to be pleasant, friendly adults. The better news is, you'll also grow up, and, having dealt with your insecurities in your youth, be और comfortable with yourself then the people who hid behind insults.
Ok, so I have this friend who's a Freshman, like me, at my high school & everyday when I get to my lunch table, usually there's nobody there, so I go on my phone & onto YouTube to watch some वीडियो I really like. Well, while I'm doing that, my friend Mitchell always sneaks up behind me & tasers my sides. Well, this would be ok if I wasn't extremely ticklish there! Whenever he does this, I always jump, squeal, & bring my arms down to protect my ticklish sides.
He's always done this & he enjoys it, I can see that. To be honest, I do like it when he does this, but sometimes, I don't. And usually, I'm having a crappy दिन after 4th hour(Exploring Science), because there's a girl in my तालिका, टेबल group, Lauren, who's always snobby to me & mean. I never did anything to her to make her hate me!! So usually after that class, I'm in a bad mood. But when Mitchell tasers me, it makes me feel better. But I'm not sure what I should say to him!! Please help me out!!!
He's always done this & he enjoys it, I can see that. To be honest, I do like it when he does this, but sometimes, I don't. And usually, I'm having a crappy दिन after 4th hour(Exploring Science), because there's a girl in my तालिका, टेबल group, Lauren, who's always snobby to me & mean. I never did anything to her to make her hate me!! So usually after that class, I'm in a bad mood. But when Mitchell tasers me, it makes me feel better. But I'm not sure what I should say to him!! Please help me out!!!
Well i know people thnk about alot of things like suicide and all of that. I'm here to let आप know I've been through tons of things and what your going through I've most likely gone through. I just want to say it आप just need सलाह या want to talk I'm here. I know everything can be scary but आप can't let that get आप down. So before yo udo something studip या something you'll regret. ie)boys girls life. Talk to someone. If i knew this before I'd be so much better off. If आप want to talk send me a message I'll help आप out.
yours truly SurferChic. :D
ps thanx so much if आप responed pss thanx
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