self-esteem problems....

Stop comparing yourself to people!
Your फ्रेंड्स try to make your self-esteem grow because they don't want to see आप upset. No one does!
I'm like that too sometimes. Sometimes I think that person's stronger/funnier/more outgoing/smarter/prettier/skinny than me.
But I know that my फ्रेंड्स don't care if I were the most boringest person on earth. They wouldn't care if I was stupid/ugly/anything negative. My फ्रेंड्स wouldn't judge me. And if your फ्रेंड्स are trying to help आप they are not judging आप either.
Stop crying yourself to sleep. Just know that your फ्रेंड्स and family are there for आप no matter how bad/ugly/stupid/fat/anything आप are! (not that I'm saying your any of those things)

And your not pathetic! Stop being so negative about yourself! Stop judging yourself! It's about what आप think of yourself. Think if that weight is what आप want. या if that's how आप want to cut your hair. It's all about what आप want. Not your friend/boyfriend/parents/siblings. It's what आप want.

आप shouldnt hate your self. maybe आप should try useing make up so आप can stop thinking that your ugly. just be your self. i realy dont know what els to say this is a dificuld and hard situation. sorry

like nafela कहा this is a really hard situation but one that everyone goes through at least somewhat so your not completly alone i too went through this where i wish i could be और like someone else and always wondered what people though of me and though i still do sometimes i try to be myself remember आप are your harshest critic and most people already accept आप for who आप are even though आप don't know it instead of seeing the negatives think about all the positive characteristics that आप have i'm sure its alot and make a सूची and then everytime आप feel like आप wanna change या feel down look at the सूची also maybe talk to your family and ask them to write a note on how special आप are and go back to it when your feeling down but don't doubt आप are special once आप start loving yourself so will others i know its hard i've been there and its something that i work on i try not to allow other peoples view of me diminish my view of myself i try to just be me and let myself know its okay to be shy and different thats what makes us special and just know your very special i hope this helps message me anytime if आप need help या just wanna chat :)

आप shall follow the advices the rest of the प्रशंसकों gave आप and try to feel better.If it doesn't help आप then आप should see a psychiatrist cause maybe आप need medical help.I'm not calling आप a psycho या a sick person,just I think it's something like depression.I have self-esteem problems too but not that bad.I'm not telling this to आप to compare me with आप so I can feel better but to help आप and I'm not saying आप that you're pathetic even if आप need medication it's not your fault.I want to support you!

आप sound like a rather sweet person who is just going through a really hard time. if i new who आप where i would give आप a hug. every one is different based on many different factors and आप shouldnt be the only person आप can be and that is you. the world we live in now and days is so focused on looks and who is "cool". every one is original and that makes them great not bad. if only people could focus और on people on the inside and not judge people it would be easier for आप and others. i have been told for years that i have an ugly big nose and recently after counceling i am learning to learn its not the out side that matters. i hope i helped आप :) if not sorry.

My mum told me something years पूर्व and she was right and its my आदर्श वाक्य on here and that's be yourself don't be a sheep. The only person आप need to think about is you. आप are the most important person आप know. Everyone else comes second. That may seem selfish but when आप feel as आप do आप need positive thinking. This may seem hard but sit down and write a सूची of positives in your life good things आप have done या do. Then write a सूची of things आप want to do. Give yourself a goal each महीना या week या even साल but something to aim for and when आप get that done go for the अगला one. make the first few easy to do and then a few not so easy and one या two that will mean a bit of work to get there.