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Is it weird being turned on द्वारा girls kissing, but being totally grossed out द्वारा guys kissing?

Cause like, I'll be thinking of 2 girls चुंबन & think, "that is hot". But when I think of 2 guys kissing, it's like, "That is DISCUSTING!" And when a guy & girl are kissing, it's like, "Awh, cute," unless I don't like the girl या something. But, only get turned on if I think about a guy चुंबन me. Is this weird? Does anyone have these same problems? HELP!
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no its nt, some pple r like tht, cuz a lot of pple thnk tht 2 girls चुंबन is hott, bt 2 guys isnt
Life_sucks posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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exactly, but still!!! I want it to go away! leave & never come back!
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no its not hell no :P
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Cinders said:
I'd blame either society, या your own sexual attractions. I don't know if you're a lesbian, bisexual, या straight, but society has conditioned us to believe that the only true प्यार story exists between a man and a woman. That same (patriarchal) society has decided that लेज़्बीयन are even और of a sex object than straight women, and ergo, girl-on-girl action या implied action is often used to sell products just as any other kind of sexual objectification. Ergo, society condones the idea that it's OK for women to be gay because it's "hot." However, since straight men should have no interest in other straight men, we're socialized to react with disgust at male displays of affection, and excitement at female displays of affection, regardless of our sexual preferences.

I think that any kind of couple making out is या can be hot. But आप can't fight how आप feel. So long as that doesn't affect how आप judge individuals, it probably is OK to feel that way.

But if it really bothers you, आप can try to condition yourself to be और comfortable around male gay couples. If आप want to do that, आप might think about looking into gay प्यार stories. There are several movies/television shows that explore gay relationships. It may help आप see gay men चुंबन as less of a purely sexual thing and और of a romantic thing.

आप don't have to find it attractive, but I think it's important to understand that it's as normal as two straight people चुंबन या two लेज़्बीयन kissing. प्यार is प्यार is love, wherever आप find it.

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Well, thanks for that, but ... umh, but I don't WANT this, I don't WANT to think that girl on girl action is hot and that guy on guy action can be hot too, at times.I just want to be as straight as a pin! Thanks for the recommendations, but I'm afraid if I watch them, I'll get और intreged. I can't have that happen, I just can't. And also, I believe that marriage should be between a man & a woman, ONLY and that gays are discusting; It's just like, playing aorund w/girls is hot, I guess. But, again, thanks.
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OK, well, I'm a little embarassed that I misinterpreted your question, but it sounded like आप were anxious about your premature judgement on gays. My mistake, I wasn't aware you'd already made up your mind about them. But don't आप think you're being a little hypocritical, saying that लेज़्बीयन are OK because it's "hot" but gays aren't? I know you're ASHAMED of this feeling, but I think it would be a great opportunity to try and otherstand the एल जी बी टी community, rather than write them off as "freaks" या "sinners."
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Exdactly. See, we had a very nice discussion w/o any feelings hurt ( I hope so, tho ) & yes that waz nice. :)
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Hellohoudini said:
Even though I'm straight...I प्यार watching girl/girl चुंबन as well as guy/guy kissing...there is nothing wrong with either. And though I respect your right to your opinion CullenProperty...to call homesexual attraction या प्यार "disgusting" and to "refuse" to accept it...especially in this दिन and age...is alittle closed minded. Let people प्यार who they want to love...find the beauty in "love" ..dont past judgement...no one has the right to do that but the god they believe in and until आप die and meet your maker...can आप really be sure that God isnt cool या not cool with same sex love? No one can...
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I'm saying this now, I just don't agree w/what आप just stated, sorry.
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I'm not refusing anything & I am not closeminded; I just don't like to see them being damned. If आप belive in something totally and completely differnt please lets just not get into this; religion I'm refurring too, because I am not up for another fight. Right now, lets just do this; Peace, not fighting. Uhm, have आप read the bible? God isn't "cool" for same sex प्यार & if आप think that whatver, I know whats right, please lets do not get into it.
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okay
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K5-HOWL said:
This kinda what I mean when प्यार can happen no matter who its between. Just like some Homosexual people think staright people are gross

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Just trying to point out some facts not bash on religon
K5-HOWL posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Watch dah videos!!!!!!!!!
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i didn't watch it.... but..
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girl12345 said:
well, i प्यार चुंबन girls too, but not any girl, i get turned on when i किस a girl, there's only one girl that know's this, and she's the one i make out, im exactly like you, i think its grose and disgusting when guys make out but i find it sexy and hot when girls do, and i find it cute when a girl and a boy kiss, but for me, its sucha turn on on girls, your not the only girl that feels this way, i do too and plenty of other girls do too!
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boytoy_84 said:
I don't get turned on द्वारा ether one, I get turned on when men are अभिनय sexy and especially dancing around just in their undies, अंडे या speedos. :P
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 I don't get turned on द्वारा ether one, I get turned on when men are अभिनय sexy and especially dancing around just in their undies, अंडे या speedos. :P
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eeeeeee लोल maybe a Chip 'n Dales Girls Night Out would suit your fancy! XD
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Wow, this is an OLD question... but someone must have recently answered because I saw this in my updates, and I thought, "Hmmmm that seems like a good question. It seems like something I would want to answer." So here I am! XD लोल & I will answer anyway.

I do not think it is a "problem." I am a straight female, one of those 99.9%-ers या 100% percenters, and I know many are bi या lean heavier one way. I am not so much "turned on" द्वारा females चुंबन as I can certainly see the sex appeal for a guy from his perspective या understand that and I am like you, the opposite reaction to guys चुंबन for some reason- for me personally-my body. I think females are "hot या sexy" in that they are pretty, but two guys - I am like you, not my cuppa tea, and go "Noooooo-" and if I see someone, a hetro-couple kissing, I am not "cute" but I might smile या think it is nice या "ahhh~" या "wow" (if steamy) या think "nothing" at all most likely, because, like the सवाल maker, I am only turned on when I think of myself being kissed या चुंबन ( द्वारा a male/mybf)~ so I feel similar is the gist of what I am trying to say. I don't see it as a problem. I am also aware (for me) what is lust या lustful and what is not (in what turns me on and the difference between lust and maybe female (idk?) -just that preference type in things that turn me on, whereas some femmes really like याओइ - I do not. So I don't know, but I think it is just our chemistry, I think. In all my gay friends, both guys and female lesbians, I do see a difference in the female लेज़्बीयन and my gay guy friends. Maybe it is just me???
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 Wow, this is an OLD question... but someone must have recently answered because I saw this in my updates, and I thought, "Hmmmm that seems like a good question. It seems like something I would want to answer." So here I am! XD लोल & I will answer anyway. I do not think it is a "problem." I am a straight female, one of those 99.9%-ers या 100% percenters, and I know many are bi या lean heavier one way. I am not so much "turned on" द्वारा females चुंबन as I can certainly see the sex appeal for a guy from his perspective या understand that and I am like you, the opposite reaction to guys चुंबन for some reason- for me personally-my body. I think females are "hot या sexy" in that they are pretty, but two guys - I am like you, not my cuppa tea, and go "Noooooo-" and if I see someone, a hetro-couple kissing, I am not "cute" but I might smile या think it is nice या "ahhh~" या "wow" (if steamy) या think "nothing" at all most likely, because, like the सवाल maker, I am only turned on when I think of myself being kissed या चुंबन ( द्वारा a male/mybf)~ so I feel similar is the gist of what I am trying to say. I don't see it as a problem. I am also aware (for me) what is lust या lustful and what is not (in what turns me on and the difference between lust and maybe female (idk?) -just that preference type in things that turn me on, whereas some femmes really like याओइ - I do not. So I don't know, but I think it is just our chemistry, I think. In all my gay friends, both guys and female lesbians, I do see a difference in the female लेज़्बीयन and my gay guy friends. Maybe it is just me???
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AmyRosefan4eva said:
To me it's not, but then again, I'm a guy. Lesbian stuff is a turn on for me, but two guys? Freaks me out a bit.
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uploaded900 said:
It is weird. I'm a straight girl and when I see 2 guys चुंबन its hot. When I see girls kissing, I'm like "WTF is this! Eww!" Unless its lesbians, then I respect it.
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