Are आप a good BFF?
Admit it, आप couldn't live without Hillary and Marissa, Jackie and Alex, Ashley and Heather, and your other 54 BFFs (best फ्रेंड्स foreva!). Now that you've hit teenhood, your फ्रेंड्स are the most important part of your life. They are the peeps आप run to, the peeps who decide your every move. You'drather be with them than anyone else and आप trust them with your deepest, darkest secrets. Right?
So why did Melissa tell Corey that your bra was slightly padded the other दिन during वालीबाल, वॉलीबॉल practice? And why would Carly repeat to Nikki that thing आप कहा about Taylor? Now Taylor is upset and everyone is fighting.
What's a BFF anyway? Do आप really have any best friends? Are आप a good BFF? Being a good friend takes character and loyalty. Yet being a good friend isa very difficult goal, particularly during your teen years. Peer pressure. Cliques and groups. The temptation to gossip. These are all very realobstacles on the road to being a trustworthy BFF. And आप know the saying, "To have a good friend, आप first have to be one."
Want some friendly tips on friendship? Read on.
Friendly Tip #1: Get To Know Your Friends. आप say आप know who your फ्रेंड्स are? Well, आप might know what period they have English या the combination to their locker but do आप really know what makes them tick? Sure Amanda loves barbeque potato chips, but do आप know that she is afraid of the dark, hates her lips या has a half-brother who lives in Chicago? Understanding who your फ्रेंड्स are will help आप be a better friend to them.
Friendly Tip #2: Believe half of what आप read and none of what आप hear! Actually, that¹s an old saying but it still fits! A true friend doesn't succumb to rumors, half-truths and judgments about people they care about. Cynthia may have heard that your bff Jennifer was flirting mad with your latest guy during 5th period but get the facts straight first! Dont judge a friend without knowing the truth.
Friendly Tip #3: Know Who आप Can Trust. People come in all shapes and sizes. And some people are just born gossips. Astrid may be great fun at the Mall but don't test your friendship द्वारा telling her secrets. On the other hand, Joanne is the perfect bff for shoulder-crying and her lips will stay sealed. Where do आप fit in? Are secrets सुरक्षित with you?
Friendly Tip #4: Nobody's Perfect! Everyone deserves a सेकंड (and maybe third, fourth, etc) chance. आप and your फ्रेंड्स are bound to make mistakes. Learn to forgive Laura for announcing that आप just got your period. Take Melanie's apology for ignoring आप during संगीत because shewas sitting with the लोकप्रिय girls. Bffs know how to say "I'm sorry" and "I forgive you."
Friendly Tip #5: Dont Stress! आप know, sometimes bffs just want to have fun! Spend time with your प्रिय friends. Go shopping. Make up a dance routine. Pig out! Forget all about the little things that might bother you. In the end, a real bff is someone who makes आप laugh!
Admit it, आप couldn't live without Hillary and Marissa, Jackie and Alex, Ashley and Heather, and your other 54 BFFs (best फ्रेंड्स foreva!). Now that you've hit teenhood, your फ्रेंड्स are the most important part of your life. They are the peeps आप run to, the peeps who decide your every move. You'drather be with them than anyone else and आप trust them with your deepest, darkest secrets. Right?
So why did Melissa tell Corey that your bra was slightly padded the other दिन during वालीबाल, वॉलीबॉल practice? And why would Carly repeat to Nikki that thing आप कहा about Taylor? Now Taylor is upset and everyone is fighting.
What's a BFF anyway? Do आप really have any best friends? Are आप a good BFF? Being a good friend takes character and loyalty. Yet being a good friend isa very difficult goal, particularly during your teen years. Peer pressure. Cliques and groups. The temptation to gossip. These are all very realobstacles on the road to being a trustworthy BFF. And आप know the saying, "To have a good friend, आप first have to be one."
Want some friendly tips on friendship? Read on.
Friendly Tip #1: Get To Know Your Friends. आप say आप know who your फ्रेंड्स are? Well, आप might know what period they have English या the combination to their locker but do आप really know what makes them tick? Sure Amanda loves barbeque potato chips, but do आप know that she is afraid of the dark, hates her lips या has a half-brother who lives in Chicago? Understanding who your फ्रेंड्स are will help आप be a better friend to them.
Friendly Tip #2: Believe half of what आप read and none of what आप hear! Actually, that¹s an old saying but it still fits! A true friend doesn't succumb to rumors, half-truths and judgments about people they care about. Cynthia may have heard that your bff Jennifer was flirting mad with your latest guy during 5th period but get the facts straight first! Dont judge a friend without knowing the truth.
Friendly Tip #3: Know Who आप Can Trust. People come in all shapes and sizes. And some people are just born gossips. Astrid may be great fun at the Mall but don't test your friendship द्वारा telling her secrets. On the other hand, Joanne is the perfect bff for shoulder-crying and her lips will stay sealed. Where do आप fit in? Are secrets सुरक्षित with you?
Friendly Tip #4: Nobody's Perfect! Everyone deserves a सेकंड (and maybe third, fourth, etc) chance. आप and your फ्रेंड्स are bound to make mistakes. Learn to forgive Laura for announcing that आप just got your period. Take Melanie's apology for ignoring आप during संगीत because shewas sitting with the लोकप्रिय girls. Bffs know how to say "I'm sorry" and "I forgive you."
Friendly Tip #5: Dont Stress! आप know, sometimes bffs just want to have fun! Spend time with your प्रिय friends. Go shopping. Make up a dance routine. Pig out! Forget all about the little things that might bother you. In the end, a real bff is someone who makes आप laugh!
1.Grimace painfully,while smacking your forhead and say"Shut up all of you,just shut up!"
2.Crack open your ब्रीफ़केस या purse,and while peering inside,ask"got enough air in there little guy?"
3.Meow occasionally.
4.Stare at another passenger for a while,then announce in horror,"You're one of THEM!!" then back away slowly and scream until they get out of the elevator.
5.Listen to the elevator walls with a stethoscope.
6.Make explosion noises whenever someone preses a button.
7.Drop a pen,then wait until someone picks it up and scream"THATS MINE.
8.Bring your camera and take pictures of everyone on the elevator.
9.When the doors close,say to the person अगला to you"Its OK.They open up again"then give them reassuring hug.
10.Swat at flies that don't exist.
2.Crack open your ब्रीफ़केस या purse,and while peering inside,ask"got enough air in there little guy?"
3.Meow occasionally.
4.Stare at another passenger for a while,then announce in horror,"You're one of THEM!!" then back away slowly and scream until they get out of the elevator.
5.Listen to the elevator walls with a stethoscope.
6.Make explosion noises whenever someone preses a button.
7.Drop a pen,then wait until someone picks it up and scream"THATS MINE.
8.Bring your camera and take pictures of everyone on the elevator.
9.When the doors close,say to the person अगला to you"Its OK.They open up again"then give them reassuring hug.
10.Swat at flies that don't exist.