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Can आप help me with my guy troubles?

I need advice. There are these two guys that i like a ton. But i am going out w/ one of them (lets call him Eric) but still have feelings for the other one.. lets call him Ron. So a few months पूर्व i told Ron that i just want to be friends, and im pretty sure he cried :(... But now i have feelings for Ron, but now he's ignoring me. How can I stay फ्रेंड्स w/ Ron and not let Eric get in the way of that? (CHEATING IS NOT AN OPTION)plz help! thanks :)
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LadyL68 said:
This sounds like a problem my friend is having. She won't take my advice, but maybe आप will. आप have to be direct with both of them. Do it soon, या else आप will lose both of them. आप have a few options.
1. Break up with Eric and tell Ron that your sorry आप hurt him. Be फ्रेंड्स with him for a while, then ask him out when आप think he is ready.
2.Stick with Eric if आप truly like him.
3. Be just फ्रेंड्स with both of them.
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but i want to be और than फ्रेंड्स for sure w/ eric, but i dont like ron ignoring me(and btw i chose the name ron from hp :) --but anyway, how do i get ron to lighten up a bit and be best फ्रेंड्स practicall?
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Thats a tough one, but I'd just say that आप need to talk to Ron and appologise if आप hurt him. Be nice to him and see if he really is what आप want in a guy. You'll find the one thats better for आप eventually. Nice name choice, btw :)
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thespikedturtle said:
Being a guy, I'd really want to know if a situation like this was going on.

If I was Ron, I'd feel mad at आप only if I truly liked you, and I'd want to know if आप felt the same way towards me.

If I was Eric, I'd be completely clueless on what was happening, and I'd like to know if आप actually felt anything toward me.

I think it'd be easier if आप saw this from every possible perspective, and I hope it works out!
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Thanks, that helped :) but Eric know i really like him... however i doubt Ron has a clue :(
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Just stay honest to both of them, things will work out eventually! :)
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