There are eight billion people on this earth continuously being conditioned द्वारा their environments, and therefore there are no positive या negative people; Not everyone heals the same way आप do, and if आप project your own way of getting over things onto others then आप can actually significantly increase the chances of their experiences becoming worse. A person's journey stepping into their own power belongs to them and the और आप try to discredit them, the और it's just a projection.
I am both sides to this coin, just like anyone else. It's taking me a long time to eliminate my own expectations I have for others, and I wish I could go back and दिखाना और unconditional प्यार to the people I weighed down with my own issues.
Idk everyone is making this about their own opinions but also, if a human rights issue is not your own, आप should not state your opinion on it as a fact; This only contributes to the idea that basic human rights and bodily autonomy are treated as political opinions in our society- and if आप easily say "no rights या recognition for this group" without actually identifying with that group, then it's only a grandiose display of your privilege and only proves why they deserve to be taken seriously in their strive for basic human rights and bodily autonomy. If they do not harm you, या others, but rather the other way around, are harmed द्वारा others, then there's no need for आप to be stating your opinion about them just EXISTING and policing what they can do with themselves and why.
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100% agree. आप worded this better than I ever could.
I dont think आप need to be part of the victim group to state your opinion. Thats gatekeeping and you're preventing lots of good ideas and constructive criticism from coming forth. Its like being in an eco chamber if आप really think that should be the case. Other than that yeah isuues like these shouldn't be treated as political opinions
Mmmh no. That’s not the point of what I said. “Stating an opinion” can be invalidating if it’s used to police and determine what an entire group of people should do with their own lives. Especially if you’re not apart of that group, या have not been educated at higher degrees sociologically, biologically, psychologically, etc. it becomes an issue when individuals take over a अंतरिक्ष and make it unsafe for an entire group of people just to exist, simply because they don’t agree it’s their existence या understand it. Especially when they try to use historical evidence that no longer applies, या understand it in a way that is used to better lives rather than suppress them. That’s not “constructive criticism” and if it’s viewed as if it is, then it’s obviously because the existence of entire groups of people are seen as a वाद-विवाद for conditions to their lives being strengthened द्वारा hateful arguments. It’s ironic to agree they shouldn’t be political debates, but then argue people stating opinions over their lives is just constructive criticism.
Also, some things are allowed to be “gatekept” mostly cause not everything is meant for everyone; and no one cares you’re upset that a phrase या policing people’s basic autonomy is becoming gatekept, they don’t owe आप that. The world doesn’t owe आप shit, hun.
Again gross assumptions and overgeneralization about people. I dont even get your point here, आप go on too many tangents but no need to explain cuz I dont have time पढ़ना essays
If आप want this pandemic to end, आप have to get vaccinated because it may not be immediate but it will help. That's how they ended smallpox द्वारा EVERYONE getting vaccinated. So do your part and quit your bitching.
The expressions "Things could always be worse" and "There's always someone worse off than you" are सांड, बैल shit ways of trying to make someone feel better and is just a "nice" way of telling someone to get over it.
BLM is important but George Floyd was a horrible person that treated his wife like shit
Black people can be racist
Gingerism is a REAL thing
All people are selfish
आप do need to have gender dysphoria to be transgender
Just saying "No offense" does NOT make what आप say not offensive
आप can die at any moment
Having a positive attitude does NOT make a situation better
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See, you're speaking on sociological subjects as if your individual voice is end-all be-all. it's not. Gender is a sociological construct, and is therefore ever-evolving regardless of if आप want to keep up with the times या not. Racism is on a societal level, and therefore any minority can only be prejudiced since the system does not benefit their prejudice; आप can take these terms at base value या आप can apply them educationally. This is why I'm not as active on here anymore, because racist, transphobic, homophobic, pedophiles who cheat and lie to everyone else on here feel as though they can hide behind their screens on here. This isn't meant for you, btw. it's meant for anyone who sees this dumb कुतिया, मतलबी shit -that's evident आप haven't gotten out of your hometown या went to college- and feels intimidated to be anyone but themselves. I promise to those seeing this and feeling as though they have the world against them, आप don't. And I'm proud of the सुरक्षित spaces you've found for yourself, and I'm sorry this site can't be because this site used to be my home. Message me if आप need an ally. And I hope this person finds growth and empathy beyond themselves and their own "struggle". Fucking disappointed.
With the two genders thing; I feel like there are a few और (now I'm not an expert on this) but intersex is thing. I also believe that it's possible to not identify with male या female as well as being able to identify with both male and female. Idk where transgender falls on this though because I literally just don't know enough about that.
Intersex isn't really another gender. They are still either male या female but have a physical abnormality. With transgender, if आप are a trans man आप are a man and if आप are a trans woman you're a woman. Many trans people have stated that there are only two genders, like Blaire White. Being intersex is the same as someone being born without a limb या any other kind of physical abnormality.
I actually used to be pretty strongly 'only two genders' but honestly I'm trying to keep an open mind about this kind of stuff because everyone has their own perspectives. Cinders (over on the वाद-विवाद spot) can probably explain it way better than I can so I'll link आप to that debate; link
The एल जी बी टी community is extremely toxic. Trump wasn't that bad. I don't understand the amount of hate. They've made 36 million dollars off of getting people vaccinated, it's not about saving people it's about money. The संगीत industry is full of industry plants and it ruining music. आप are 100% what आप think. Americans are not going to be able to afford to live if something doesn't change. Trans women are not women. White people enjoy the benefits they've gotten from systemic racism and would rather not change the way things are. Black people are full of internalized self hate. Biden isn't great and has completely used the black community and has no plans on helping them. Working shouldn't take up 80% of our lives.
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Tbh as an ace I've received और hostility from the एल जी बी टी than straights.
आप never get over a death. Like आप just think about it less but it doesn't 'get easier'. It just doesn't; the right thing can make it hurt like hell just as furiously as it did in the first week.
Also some people are just cunts and don't deserve to be forgiven.
डिज़्नी is a shit and hypocritical company.
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Yeah, getting over someone's death is mostly just getting yourself to the point where आप think about it as little as possible.
I like early डिज़्नी but I'm tired of the live action stuff. Tbh it feels very lazy these days. Not just डिज़्नी either; Hollywood as a whole is just monotonous anymore.
Freedom of Speech doesn't mean it's okay to be racist/sexist/transphobic/homophobic/an asshole in general
If someone tells आप आप hurt them, they're not being controlling या abusive
Trump was a terrible president and so is Biden. Just because you're a Republican/Democrat doesn't mean आप have to automatically side with one of them, आप can realize they both suck.
No, straight people don't need pride month.
Trans men are men and trans women are women
कुत्ता are just as likely to eat their owner's dead body as cats. Just say आप don't like बिल्ली instead of spreading nonsense
edit: Adding this because I can't believe how many people are making this comparison: Being asked to wear a mask is NOT THE SAME AS NAZI GERMANY.
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I agree with all of this! And my answer to people who say that there should be a straight people pride महीना is this, EVERYDAY IS STRAIGHT PRIDE MONTH! It's ridiculous that there are people who think straight people need a pride month.
Pride moths are to raise awareness for and about groups that are otherwise shunned/put aside. Hence why things like straight pride would be kind of pointless. Frankly I think that there should be a Native American history महीना (if there isn't already) and an asexual month. In दिन to दिन and the media, these groups don't really seem to get as much attention and awareness and could really benefit from something of the sort imo.
pride months is really also about informing others about the background of those who have been outcasted; A lot of groups, especially those of color, have histories and cultures that have been erased for the sake of the norm's history and theft of culture. Pride months should be about recognition, but they should also be about restoration.
- Just because you're dating someone longer before getting married doesn't mean the marriage last forever/til death. - There are only two genders and it's easy to identify द्वारा just looking between the legs. - Racism is everywhere. - At some point फिल्में have familiar scenes या tropes. There's no reason to trash it for it. There over million फिल्में and adaptions. Just shut up and let people enjoy it, if they like it. -People won't enjoy movies/shows if they get milked and milked just for the sake of money. - Not all original versions of something are better than the new ones. -When moving into a country with way different culture, people have to get used to that way of living, not expecting the whole country to change for you. -People nowadays are shitty parents for having their 10 साल olds या younger having access to internet and co. Protests against saving the world are useless, cause the biggest issue come from the big-ass industries, that probably won't do anything even through that.
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what about female with dicks are they male या female?
-your opinions on transpeople dont influence their life at all -your basic high school education doesnt out rank the biologists and scientists consensus on trans lives and what gender is -most of आप sound like transphobes why do आप even care how someone identifies -how someone identifies has absolutely no effect on आप :/
-that USA ruins the whole world. -getting vaccinated won't prevent आप from getting corona anyway and later it becomes less effective i mean there is upcoming version of virus like delta and it won't prevent आप from death. - the subtle art of not giving a f is assh*le book .
