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For Mental Health Awareness Month, whats an experience with mental health that you'd be willing to share? (Yours, friends, etc)

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I'll probably share a few stories on लेखाए या such myself cos Im a huge "Mental Health - Lets Talk About It" kind of person XD
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twinklestar11 said:
well there is a possibility that i have autism. But i only find out on May 17th. But i did get put into a autistic i.e.p at my school
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Angelhugs said:
Isolation .........just putting that out there

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4vonlea said:
I believe that I have what's called Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). It can be difficult to spot, considering how one's behavior and afflictions in response to the traumatizing experience can vary. It's been so long, but it really has hindered my life, even now. I guess my biggest regret is being stupid, and trying to fix everything within me on my own and thinking that I could solve it all alone out of fear of burdening others with my problems and also out of shame. Then it just became this habit engraved into my head, even now I have a lot of issues with asking anyone for any kind of help with anything. To everyone out there, please, for future reference if आप go through any kind of hard times या experience any mental trauma, don't wait, get help IMMEDIATELY, talk to a therapist IMMEDIATELY. It's nothing to be ashamed of and asking others for help is NOT a sign of weakness.
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^! (Nice answer. Wish आप luck in your recovery)
2ntyOnePilots posted ·4महीने पहले
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Oh I definately agree to be honest. I tried to handle my mental health for myself for YEARS after it was clear I needed help for a large amount of things. Like it took me until I wasn't sure if I was going to end up killing myself या fucking up my life to get me to even try to get help outside of myself.
Riku114 posted ·4महीने पहले
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I know where you're coming from. PTSD is...not a fun thing to deal with. I've managed to fight with it for a good portion of my life, and sometimes, I'm on चोटी, शीर्ष of everything. But just one small little thought, one small little reminder can make everything come crumbling down. A fly causing a house to fall. I know it's और than just hard to deal with, and I agree in fully with getting help. I wish the best for everyone here., and know that there are just some things आप can't do alone. And capitalizing on whatlike Lea said, there's nothing wrong with that.
pLaStIcSUNDAE posted ·4महीने पहले
pLaStIcSUNDAE said:
I don't know how to really cope with anything. I never was taught how, so whenever something traumatizing या emotion afflicting happens I just...I don't know, become stiff to things I guess. That's the only way I can really explain it. लेखन helps to a certain degree, but I confuse my emotions just as much as they confuse me, so...there's that.
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लेखन helps a lot as a way of expressing trauma and emotions that were hard to digest to be honest. It helped me for many years
Riku114 posted ·4महीने पहले
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I feel like संगीत helps a lot too.
zanhar1 posted ·4महीने पहले
vagos said:
oh i dont knowzzz i really have no ideazzzz oh look i have problemz but idk whatzzz (Sarcasm) but like seriously its a bit weird teling my problems online tbh sort of, dont आप agree lel xD
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Not really. It's just another place to vent. It's not like we're giving phone numbers and locations and all of that. That's like saying, "lEl, yoU pOsTED somEthIng oN fAcEbOoK, isNt iT kInDa wEoRd tO pOsT sOmEtHiNg aBouT lIfE tHeRe”
pLaStIcSUNDAE posted ·4महीने पहले
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nani korez XD
vagos posted ·4महीने पहले
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Thus why आप can share what आप want to XD Its open and as Sundae said, its just another place to vent
Riku114 posted ·4महीने पहले
anaswill said:
Two years पूर्व I had an anxiety attack, thought that I couldn't breathe and called 911. They were nice about it and thankfully there wasn't a fee. I'm better at recognizing panic attacks now, so that's good.
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Oh dude panic attacks are the worst
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DarkGirI27 said:
I recently got appointed to the campus Behavioral Health Center for a reprimand. I go in, take the introductory assessment thingy so they know a bit about me before our first appointment, and once I'm in she sits me down and shows me her computer; I've scored high in all concerning areas except substance abuse. I was at least 80 and above in my rating for all of them, and my highest score was in Trauma-Related stress या something like that (They're not diagnostic assessments, so it couldn't say PTSD या any related syndromes.)

I kinda freaked out over it afterwards, as that didn't happen to my two फ्रेंड्स who have the same school therapist, and because we only have like two weeks left of the semester and I'm seeing her like once every two weeks since they're packed full of students. She gave me a referral for summer counseling, though.
Folks, trust me, it's never too late to seek help.
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Dude I am right with आप there. Like... some of my disorders and mental health shit went so underassisted and checked over for so long that a lot of them are really bad now and kind of hard to undo, but even with that in place, help has done me a lot of good managing and reducing all the shit that goes on up there
Riku114 posted ·4महीने पहले
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I feel a lot of people take a lot of disorder diagnoses off to be a death sentence - especially if it is chronic - but there are ways to work around it and it is just a lifestyle आप have to learn to adapt to and work with into functioning in the normal world
Riku114 posted ·4महीने पहले
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Also, I wasn't comfortable sharing at first, but now I think it's important to be said: The reprimand was because I had gotten drunk and started panicing and prancing all over the place and crying about things that happened to me a very long time पूर्व that I haven't mentioned since. I'm actually very embarrassed because I was telling people about how I encountered my mother being physically and sexually abused, and things with my guardians growing up; It's just- There's a lesson in this, if not more: If you're an emotional drunk like myself, take that shit into HIGH consideration. Do NOT shrug it off. Find someone to talk to, because if you're doing similar shit to what I did when you're drunk then there's things आप need to sort through. Also, it's important to be aware of how easy it is for people my age (21) to slowly creep into alcoholism. When people in media are depicted as alcoholics, it's usually an old dude with a बीयर, बियर belly या a single mom who's recently divorced. Meanwhile, media has college students drinking and having a funnn timee.... No, we should not exceed और than seven drinks per week, या और than three या four per sitting. Same with the students who party in high school; Alcoholism starts young.
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zanhar1 said:
From June to Mid-November (though it was starting to taper off in November) everything was a total shit show. It started with car & money problems and just snowballed into a full blown depression. It was bad like so many awful things kept happening with no breaks in between and very few good things to make up for the bad. It was just so much stuff from family issues to health stuff. I won't get into details about what caused it but I had my first huge fight with my dad in years. From when I was in elementary to high school my dad struggled with bipolar and my mom and I would always be on the receiving end of his lows. So I had a dreadful relationship with him until he finally found a working treatment. After that we hadn't truly gone all out until last year. He ended up calling me selfish and telling me that my stories/writing were useless and I ended up straight up moving in with a friend. I used to go to the pool to cope (since it was summer) but due to financial reasons my family was banned from it, which did not help. Naturally I go to the internet to cope and... I'll just insert an old टिप्पणी दे here; [i]"I think I'm headed for some kind of break down honestly. I hope आप don't mind some venting.

I'm going through quite a bit IRL so I go on tumblr to have an Azula week which I literally worked for months to plan and was stoked for it. I was very optimistic and felt as thought it would cheer me up. Everything goes well until the end when some futa loving wild feminist starts a ship war. She started telling people to die in ditches and bashed everyone's work if it featured a man. When I blocked her she got her फ्रेंड्स to go after me. And the TyZula fandom made me feel like shit for trying to organize something fun. I used to like TyZula it was my अवतार OTP now I can't stand it because the fandom is total trash. I ended up deciding to leave tumble for a bit. Best part the TyZula प्रशंसकों were getting on me because 'there was too much Sokkla and it made us feel unwelcomed." Like I'm so confused; how tf are आप expecting there to be any TyZula stuff if आप don't participate. Literally nowhere did anyone indicate that TyZula trash wasn't welcomed. In fact I wrote two TyZula fics myself. Only 2 (maybe 3) of the 7 days did I post Sokkla; that's not even half. Worst part is; the Azula fandom used to be my happy place I would go there because I प्यार pretty much everyone there until this one कुतिया, मतलबी and her posee showed up. I used to boast about how mature and respectful the अवतार fandom was. Guess I didn't knock on enough wood.

So I take my break from tumblr and decide to just chill on here because it's not a hell site. But naturally (just an घंटा पूर्व mind you) I get this chick on my दीवार accusing me of being a creep because we have a lot of क्लब्स in common and she got an ई मेल alert about टिप्पणियाँ on her मतदानो या something. Like everything is just my fault. I can't even.
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And in real life my work schedule was all jacked up because there was a mix up so I didn't even get the vacation days I wanted. And that's just scratching the surface of the real life problems." Basically online and real life went to shit at the same time and if आप pay close attention to most any of my टिप्पणियाँ from that time period आप will see the formation of a psychological collapse. The wild part is when I asked to see a professional we straight up couldn't afford it so I just had to deal. I take pride in knowing that I was able to pull myself out of it (with support from फ्रेंड्स IRL and online).
zanhar1 posted ·4महीने पहले
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Oh yikes I remember hearing about that. Im glad things have picked up the last like.. five या so months XD I was honestly kind of worried about आप man
Riku114 posted ·4महीने पहले
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^ Right though. It's like wow. It's one thing to troll shitty sexist सवालों and another thing completely to come onto a serious post like this one and shit talk someone's family. But then I guess I can't expect much from someone with that little self-respect. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Blaze1213IsBack said:
Well one of things I deal with and well it's not as worst as it use to be thank goodness. ...but I deal with anxiety often. It's not easy to control I tend to start shake a lot if I get on a ride(even though am not scared of them), दिल raises fast a lot easy when something scares me out of no where, and just in general get anxiety if I get over excited या put of my comfort zone, like for example if I have to give a speech in front of the whole school can get really bad. When I mean it's not as worst I mean I haven't been getting that anxious lately but still time to time. It is really hard dealing with anxiety especially when people in your life can't understand what it's like and they misunderstand you.
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Yeah man dealing with anxiety with people that dont really get it is kind of hard but I'm glad its better than before.
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CokeTheUmbreon said:
I have infantile autism and bipolar depression. Then I also have ADHD. People I live with have autism, short attention span, etc.

I don't know if these are mental issues, but I have a hard time trusting people, and I don't like to ask for stuff. Then I have some sort of obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).

Edit: I occasionally have suicidal thoughts, and I'm quick to snap if someone I don't know, या I hate, messes with me even the slightest of offences. Then I'm a caffeine addict. And I've been coddled my entire life.

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i might have Autism. So im not the only one here
twinklestar11 posted ·4महीने पहले
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Oh yikes that really isn't that fun of a combination. Out of curiosity what makes आप say some sort of OCD?
Riku114 posted ·4महीने पहले
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Nope. But my steady diet of energy drinks, coffee, etc., caused it worsen a bit.
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lionkinglove2 said:
That I am doing testing to see that if I am going to be in special ed या not, and they कहा I might be.
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Oh? What for?
Riku114 posted ·4महीने पहले
ShadowFan100 said:
Well, working at Goodwill certainly put a lot of strain on my mental health. That, and the fact that I'm STILL living with my aunt. She's s STILL babysitting my cousin's baby, along with someone else's baby. And I'm honestly beyond done with it. I'm done with my aunt and her narcissistic attitude. I say "narcissistic" because I personally think she acts like one. She does shit that pisses me off, she acts like nothing I say is of any value. Like, when I try to make a point about something we're arguing over या some shit, she downplays it like what I say isn't worth considering या acknowledging. Like, no matter what the fuck I tell her, she's right and I'm wrong.

I get angry because of this, and she labels me "rude" and acts like I'm attacking her and shit. It all kinda goes back to when I told her about the crossedressing thing. Even to this day, she treats me like I've committed a crime against nature every time I bring it up. Ever since I explored different देखा गया and no longer consider myself a Christian, all we've done is argue over shit. She hasn't actually flat-out asked me yet why I'm behaving so differently, but I think she's starting to put 2 and 2 together. I haven't told her yet, either. My shift in viewpoints has caused so many arguments, it's not even funny.

But enough about her, I'm also ready to हटाइए the fuck out of my current home. I'm tired of not only living with my aunt, but also my older cousin and her daughter. Like, I'm so done with this and ready to start somewhere new. I'm honestly just done with a lot of things, and I want things to change... for the better.

That's why I quite my job at Goodwill. I couldn't take it anymore. And doing so has taken a lot of stress out of my life, but not completely. Until I finally get my own place, I'm still stuck with my aunt. Living with her has driven me to suicidal thoughts and feelings. In fact, I once attempted to kill myself vie sleeping pill overdose. That was 2 years ago.

It's honestly a wonder how I haven't gone insane yet. And having certain Autistic tendencies doesn't help at all. I have SPD (Sensory Processing Disorder), and because of this, there are certain sound waves that irritate the piss out of me. And unfortunately, the most painful sound is my aunts' voice. I legit cannot stand to hear that कुतिया, मतलबी speak, OMG. Her voice is loud, and sharp-sounding and it literally causes pain to my ears. I've literally cried so many times over this, and it never ends. Everyday, I'm forced to put up with her voice.... and basically her in general. Thankfully, I have ways of blocker her नितंब, गधा out.

I'm beyond ready to get out of this house, there's virtually nothing keeping me here anymore. Both my beloved pets and Mother are gone, and I just need to हटाइए on. I don't wanna be stuck here all my life. Fortunately, I may not have long to wait. I'm getting closer and closer to gaining my freedom from my aunt. And trust me, I'm so ready for it.
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Good luck. I hope आप can get out of that house and that situation. It sounds difficult and borderline abusive.
zanhar1 posted ·4महीने पहले
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I cannot stand overly religious people. My mum told me not to bring a vampire book I brought घर from the library. Then she thinks I'm लॉस्ट because I listen to genres of edm, since she believes that they could be linked to the devil. I'm trying to get out of a predicament I'm in, but the place I'm in just wants to keep me for money.
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Zeppie said:
I won't go into specifics.

Basically dealings with anxiety, agoraphobia, body dysmorphic disorder, depression and suicidal tendencies/attempts.
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Suicidal thoughts too?😮🤐
Mike88Al27 posted ·4महीने पहले
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@mike Fuck the hell off.
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ThePrincesTale said:
Wanna start द्वारा saying that my hardships pale in comparison to others on here and I feel terrible for the people that have suffered invisible illnesses like depression या suicidal ideation. I wish आप all the best in recovery and hope that society improves its attitude towards such life-affecting conditions - we've improved in the last decade, but there's still much progress to be made and hopefully we'll see that going into the future.

As for me: actual anxiety and I'm talking on-the-floor breakdowns over stupid shit like essays lol.

Also dropped from 60 kg (132 lbs) to 42 kg (92 lbs) in the अंतरिक्ष of about six months last साल and I'm not saying it was an ED but look I was pretty obsessive. Do not recommend. Take it slow peeps. Ruins your physical health, affects your relationships, destroys आप perspective on खाना forevermore and you're not even happy/satisfied with being smaller. DO NOT RECOMMEND.
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Any struggle is a struggle worth mentioning, especially anxiety. Have आप taken time to seek help and therapy for the obsessive weight loss? Most people who recover from an eating disorder usually fall into OCD-like habits in replace of being controlling over food; I was wondering if you've encountered anything like that if आप have sought help?
DarkGirI27 posted ·4महीने पहले
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I wouldn't say that your hardships pale in comparison. The way I see it; being upset isn't a competition. Just because someone else has it supposedly worse doesn't mean that your struggles are any less difficult. Hopefully you're in a better place body image (though I've never struggle s with this personally) can be so tough. Because your body is...well it's you. It's one huge part of who you.
zanhar1 posted ·4महीने पहले
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*who आप are.
zanhar1 posted ·4महीने पहले
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Thanks to आप both, some excellent points there, esp about your body essentially being you. @Darkgirl yeah not underweight anymore but did indeed fall into terrible habits and am trying to get help for that, thanks for support :)
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Mike88Al27 said:
Well from what I've gathered about myself so far now:
Displaying certain autistic tendencies.
Episodic nervous breakdowns.
Episodic psychotic breakdowns.
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