Suicide

हे I empathize with आप a bit on this topic. I don't feel आप are wrong but I also dont feel आप are necessarily right either.

Firstly, I would like to say NO one is required to reach out and help people if they don't know how to and if they aren't directly approached. Yes if someone comes up to you, then आप SHOULD try your best, but also if they start अभिनय entitled to your ear, that too is a problem and आप should try to establish boundaries.

However, in the sense आप are mentioning - like the FB posts - that is not really anything anyone is obliged to reply to. If आप can't handle it, it doesn't matter how much experience you've had with the matter या anything. आप don't have to share your experience. If आप can help and आप genuinely want to help and no one else is coming to their aid, then I would go regardless of if I did या didn't genuinely care since honestly, as people कहा above, while some MIGHT be for attention, it really might be a genuine final call for help.

It may seem dramatic या like some exotic fancy दिखाना for attention, but some people are desperate and do need it. Plus, some people are quiet depressive, others are actually very vocal about it. Even if they weren't going to do it but were extremely contemplating it, it is a concern that has to be taken seriously.


With that being कहा though, I do disagree with necessarily saying adults should be able to handle it themselves. Maybe it is the me that had to take care of my parent's mental health excessively and the amount of shitty adults I've had in my childhood, but adults are humans just like everyone else. Yes, they should be और mature, but they have issues, stresses, depression, anxiety, and severe mental health issues like any kid या teenager.

Major Depression isn't a mood and emotion that can just be 'handled' या figured out, and Im sure that is something आप probably understand and know personally. Child, teen, या adult, it is something that needs to be treated with a lot of care, support, and treatment to recover and honestly, I would much rather have adults breaking that illusion that life is easy, safe, and that they have everything together "like adults should" than I would to find out they killed themselves because they wanted to be "adult like".

I believe everyone has a right and shouldn't be judged (in most cases) for trying to reach out for help especially around being suicidal and depressed if they are genuine.

I see where आप coming from and yeah I have the same issue sometimes on what to say to people when their feeling sad या depressed. I actually have helped some फ्रेंड्स in the past so are doing a lot better now and some continued to talk about them being depressed a social media so I know it can be hard seeing that. Yes as adults we should a lot और mature when it comes to posting stuff on social like how आप mentioned and we should be able to know a least how to deal with emotions of course not everyone personis perfect and we all grow over the years and no your not wrong to think that way. If आप have a kid आप wouldn't want them see things like that and sometimes when आप already did your part in the friendship it's best just not to keep helping cause the person already made the decision not to take your सलाह in the end it's there choose either continue अभिनय the same after they gotten advice. I hope this is very helpful and what your looking और but am glad to hear people are wanting to help those that are in need of help.^^

Sometimes people really don't have anyone to lean on during their darkest times, so such posts online are like their last call for help in hopes that someone will care.
The ones who are doing it for attention only usually don't even want to hang out as much but just gain sympathy and टिप्पणियाँ as a form of approval that people care about them. It's also a form of problem, but not as heavy as when the person just needs somebody to wipe away the dark thoughts, because in that moment they feel like they are truly alone.