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I have a crush on a chick I just met?

I met this girl at a convention on Friday, and she's 20 years old, and I'm 14...what do I do about these feelings?


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And द्वारा the way, I know nothing will ever be of us.
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is she the one on the right of the group of three या the one in the center?
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Is that a Roy घोड़ा plushie?? :D
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Treu-Finn-Fan: She's on the right.
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sarabeara said:
Erm, well that's quite an age difference. As someone who was 20 until only recently I can say that personally I would never consider dating a 14 साल old. But that's me and maybe she's different and would be into it.

I need और details though. Do आप have her number? Have आप been texting her? आप could ask her to hang out some time (as फ्रेंड्स first) and then see where it goes from there.
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I have her number, and we text a lot. She knows I have a crush on her.
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Then just be ballsy and ask her out. What do आप have to lose? :D
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द्वारा the way, I'm a chick.
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tamore said:
Due to the age gap, stay away from her. आप can let yourself feel the feelings but don't act on them. Don't try to get involved with her. आप would get hurt emotionally because she's probably not even interested in someone so young. I'm only 17 and I probably wouldn't तारीख, दिनांक someone who's 14. Let yourself feel your feelings and they'll go away eventually. Just admire from afar. xo

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sieluvzsoul said:
Whoa! That's quite an age difference. Heres the thing, try to get rid of those feelings for her. Cuz ur gonna end up hurt...and probably arrested
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लोल she won't be arrested
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@16falloutboy, why are आप ALL the hell over this thread when आप don't even know your shit. a 20 साल old and a 14 साल old can तारीख, दिनांक legally, they just aren't supposed to be having sex. it would be considered statutory rape if they had sex and the 14 साल old pressed charges. but until then, the 14 साल old can तारीख, दिनांक someone older so CHECK YO FACTS.
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Arrested? She won't unless they have sex.
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x-Yumi-x3 said:
Ignore them find someone else, that's it really.
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michelle1654 said:
I'll leave in as little details as possible. This happened with people that were these ages, they decided to run away but the kid came back... It escalated quickly...
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Simmeh said:
There's nothing wrong with at least having a crush on her and being her friend. Things could definitely change over time if आप both have the same feelings later on, like when you're an adult.

द्वारा the way, आप don't have to give up just because everyone believes आप should. Just don't expect too much, though. Stay positive, but don't get your hopes up! That's pretty much all there is to it. :)
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Oh wait... आप JUST met her! लोल Sounds like Anna's situation in Frozen.
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SHHHH SHH NOBODY REFERS TO फ्रोज़न AROUND ME I HATE IT
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