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Should I have just कहा "thank you?"

I'm 14. I take public transportation to and from school. When I got to my stop to go home, this guy and some other people got off. The guy was walking अगला to me when he casually कहा in a low voice "nice legs." I didn't know what to say so I just कहा "oh" while looking at the ground. But then I started to feel offended so I looked at him like "what the fuck" while he was looking back at me and then moved away from him. It looked like he was in his mid to late 20s and he was pretty attractive but I was still creeped out. My friend who is a guy कहा that he was just trying to be nice and that I shouldn't make a big deal out of it. So was his compliment sincere and was just trying to be nice and I should have कहा "thank you", या was he a pedophile for saying that? (Also, I do look older that I am but I was wearing my school uniform so it wasn't like he didn't know I was a minor.)
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I would have done the same. If it makes आप feel uncomfortable, आप shouldn't feel obliged to say thank आप whether he meant anything pervy द्वारा it या not. Plus, if you're a student and he seemed that much older than you, I wouldn't trust it as anything but, anyway. I think you're reaction was justified.
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^thank. That makes me feel better.
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yeeah
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X-Kid said:
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*bitch please*
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bratzdolly11 said:
In my opinion it sounds kinda pervy but it could of been a compliment but since it came from a 20 साल old it's still strange.

Sorry if this confused आप या didn't help at all I just realized my answer REALLY sucked
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It's fine, thanks. :)
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prussiaducky said:
In a low voice, nice legs...

Hmm, in a low voice. That is not okay.

Complimenting legs is not an average thing to do, nor is it taken as a compliment in today's society.

Either he was SUPER socially impaired, या was honestly a pervert. He could have said:
"You look nice today"
"You have a gorgeous pair of legs!"

That is और appropriate.
If it was in a low voice, than that is quite strange.

If it happens again, tell him that आप do not feel comfortable with that टिप्पणी दे and to say और appropriate compliment.

I would certainly not say thanks to that, if his tone was friendly and positive, then sure I'd say thank आप and हटाइए back, but it seems like his tone was quite dangerous
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The tone matters, not the comment.
prussiaducky posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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No, mid 20's saying that to 14 साल old is creepy in any type of way.
X-Kid posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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i dont get why its such a big deal that he has a low voice, men do seem to have ... low voices.
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^it was I wierd low voice though. Low and quiet like he didn't want anyone to hear him. The tone in his voice did not sound like he had good intentions. If he had कहा it in a nice, and light tone, it wouldn't have been as awkward and suspicious.
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summer2987 said:
well try to see it from the mans point of view.

he was probably just being nice like your male friend tried to point out.

but he didnt try to do any thing to hurt आप या any thing of that sort except compliment आप .


however if he did seem a but aggressive या hostile then i guess that language was used appropriately .

but if he just seemed calm and nice and no threat then he just meant it as a nice thing to say to a person with nice legs .
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Yeah. Maybe. I'm just not used to getting compliments like that. I usually get compliments on stuff like my clothes, hair, या just being pretty in general. But a component on my body Im not used to so it freaked me out a little. :\
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EgoMouse said:
Eh, आप didn't need to respond.
Though, its probably no big deal. He was just complimenting you.
Most men naturally has low voices, so it was likely his natural voice. Tbh, men's voices gets higher usually when they talk to someone he finds attractive. He could of possibly had कहा it to another woman अगला to आप since there were other people getting off as well and आप just happen to be there. Anybody can have nice legs, though it doesn't necessarily mean the person who complimented was sexually attracted to आप just for having nice legs.
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Book-Freak said:
आप should definitely not have कहा thank you. If something someone says या does makes आप uncomfortable, don't pretend to be okay with it.
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IsidoraSmiley said:
Yeah I would've reacted the same but when आप think about it आप did the right thing...He seemed much older and it was pretty clear that you're a minor from the school uniform. If आप कहा thank आप he might have got आप further into a conversation and then what could happen? Ok,I might be exaggerating but no,it's alright that आप didn't say anything...
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Zeppie said:
God no, definitely no need to say thank आप hahaha

If आप don't feel comfortable with his compliment, don't feel obliged to respond.

It happened to me and I kinda didn't know what to do so I just pretended I didn't hear, and kept walking. टिप्पणियाँ like those creep the fck out of me coming from any stranger :L
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doorsgirl666 said:
That's strange.
And really creepy.
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