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I need help...

Okay. I am a bisexual girl. Right now, I'm in प्यार with another girl. The girl I like is straight, so I know I can never be with her, but I'm not the kinda person that can just get over people easily. Especially not when I प्यार someone as much as I प्यार her.

The girl and I are friends, but we don't talk much and never hang out. I try to talk to her and be near her as much as I can, so hopefully we could become better friends, but now she seems to think I'm stalking her. Especially since she caught me staring at her today. Now I'm scared that she thinks I'm a creepy stalker and she's gonna avoid me now. She hasn't कहा anything to me yet, but I think she कहा something about it to one of her friends.

If I liked a guy, if he caught me staring at him he might assume I liked him. But since we're both girls, आप wouldn't normally assume that. Now I feel like the only way I could get her to understand is to tell her how I feel. But I'm way too shy, not to mention is is VERY rare when we get to be alone together. Plus I have no idea how she would react, and I'm worried it could make things even और awkward between us.

What should I do?

Serious जवाब only please, if any of आप are homophobes आप can gtfo now.
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botchfromhell said:
Approach her telling her that आप swear आप aren't stalking her and आप just wanted to become better फ्रेंड्स with her. It coild blossom into something more. I doubt आप are really in प्यार with her. I think आप might think आप प्यार her but it's just a crush i am not going to say आप are going through a faze like some people do, which is stupid. The only reason i am saying this is because आप don't know her well enough from what i am reading. Hope i helped
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RobinFan360 said:
Say "Girl, I'm bi. And I like you. Now lets go eat pineapples."
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Say "Girl, I'm bi. And I like you. Now lets go eat pineapples."
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lolz
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JaseKS said:
Well, I have a bisexual friend who once admitted to having a crush on me, and we both knew I was as straight as a symmetry-freak's drawing. I didn't really freak out, because this girl was my best friend, and just cause आप like someone, doesn't mean you're going to rape them, so I just went on with my life.

Well, at any rate, disregarding my personal life, I believe that आप should try to talk to her about it. It may be awkward at first, but since she's your friend, explain things to her. Just say आप have a crush on her, but also mention that आप hope it won't have any affect on the friendship. Some girls may think "Oh God, this is going to be awkward now." But if आप explain it to her, I'm certain she'll understand. Take some time to mentally prep yourself for the confrontation. There may be consequences, but if आप really प्यार her, it will only make things और awkward if आप DON'T say anything, for आप especially.
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IoYoI said:
I understand where you're coming from.
I'm a lesbian, and right now I'm majorly crushing on a straight girl.
Except for we hang out a lot. Just because we have the same group of friends. I catch myself staring at her a lot as well. *sigh* damn straight girl hotness..
Right now I'm just planning on riding it out, until I feel like I need to tell her.

दिया that, I can't really help आप other than when आप tell her, don't be too worried. It will all work out. :)
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
*looks at how long it is*


आप expect me to read all that?
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*looks at how long it is* आप expect me to read all that?
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आप never read anything longer then 2 paragraphs XD
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लोल shes like that
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1 and a half is my max
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vvfrankie said:
i dont no how 2 reply to that
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