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हे anyone know how to get over a devastating break up?

My boyfriend dumped me in public. I'm serious. He just called my friend and yelled out "hey, does she know I just broke up with her?"

I feel devastated! I mean I cried through most of the day. Any suggestions?
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worst part is, he has a crush on my frenemy, who's currently dating his best friend! He says he's gonna try to get her to तारीख, दिनांक him and stuff... it kills me!
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NinaDobrev13 said:
Firstly, im sorry!

And secondly, listen to Taylor Swift?
The best ones are:
~Cold As You
~Dear John
~Forever & Always
~Haunted
~If This Was A Movie
~Last Kiss
~A Perfectly Good Heart
~Picture To Burn
~Should've कहा No
~The Story Of Us
~Tell Me Why
~The Way I Loved You
~White Horse
~You're Not Sorry
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snowwhitesilver said:
Go up to him, look un-affected, and then पंच him in the face in front of everyone! I'm serious. Then, smile, and walk away. Hope it helps. It'd help me.
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I sorta cried my eyes out and people saw that. O_O. I managed to slap him,...
justingurl99 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Nice girl! You've got guts, he obviously f'd up!
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Usui--takumi said:
Get a new BF.
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All the guys in our school are pathetic. They're all stupid and betraying like him...
justingurl99 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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@justingurl99 Well then... Try looking somewhere else and follow your दिल :]
Usui--takumi posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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ya ...look in tution classes या it is not necessary to have a bF all the time
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jeannette27 said:
sorry to hear the news here are some suggestions.
1:cry when आप feel आप wanna cry(its therputic)as long as its not in front of him या his friends
2:make a सूची of all his bad qualities, things आप will not miss and think of that सूची anytime आप start thinking of him.
3:shopping helps
4:spend time with ppl who प्यार and support you
5:start focusing on your self;you are single now आप have that right.
6:workout its the best stress reliever and आप will feel good and look good:)
7:get a hair cut या a new hairstyle या if आप can color your hair this is also very theraputic
8:eat और heathier it release good vitamins in your body that make आप feel good and give आप energy
9:do something nice for someone else.give to a charity या something this also makes आप feel good
10:smile and laugh any chance आप get this also helps up your mood.
11:when आप are in front of your ex act like the breakup did not affect you.there is saying called "kill em with kindness"believe me it works.
12:and last realize that आप will find better प्यार out there.
hope I helped:)
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Thanks for the advice! :)
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आप welcome,I've been through my share of breakups I understand.also I forgot to suggest is to stay busy like read a book या organize your room this also helps
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Tdinoahiscute4 said:
Let's see, आप can listen to Owl City, Taylor Swift, या The Script.
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Won't that make me even और sad?
justingurl99 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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I guess. But it helped my friends.
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Hermione-Fan361 said:
Well, when I got dumped (on my birthday), I didn't cry even a little. This guy was using me to get to my BFF.

For you, I suggest a long nap, a good,long,hot shower, and watching annoying नारंगी, ऑरेंज on YouTube.
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thanks... :(
justingurl99 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Sure thing. Hope आप feel better soon
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Sprinter23 said:
The last thing आप wanna do is rebound with some other guy. That's only gonna hurt both आप and him.
Let yourself hurt a little bit. It's okay. It's natural. आप don't have to cry through every class, but let yourself have a little bit of grieving time in private every दिन until the pain dulls down.
Don't blame yourself. What he did was wrong and even if it was partially your fault, if he was going to treat आप that way then he wasn't worth your time anyway.
Find comfort in other things to take your mind off him. Watch your प्रिय movies, play your प्रिय video games, hang out with close, reliable friends. Try not to talk about him too much. Naturally he's gonna come up, but don't dwell on him.
And if आप really need to, vent on paper. This is always what works best for me. In your diary या a notebook या whatever, vent all your negative emotions so आप don't have to dump them on everyone else.
You'll meet other guys and he wasn't right for you. Don't overreact over it. It's gonna hurt, but it doesn't have to kill you.
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