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Okay so I'm 15 years old and have a major crush on one of the guys I've known since I was 10. We are really great फ्रेंड्स but I don't know f he feels the same way back. I'm not looking for a serious relationship या anything but I'm debating about weather या not I should ask him out. Alot of my फ्रेंड्स have told me that I should wait for him to ask me out because he is the guy but I think that maybe that's to old fashioned and sexist. On the other hand I'm afraid that if I do ask and he doesn't feel the same way it could wreck a truly amazing friendship. I've had a crush on him since we were 12 and I just can't contain it all inside of me any और but I don't know if it's worth risking our friendship. Please help me आप guys! I feel like I've turned everywhere else with no success. If आप give me ligitamet सलाह I will give आप props! :) lol
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Me_Iz_Here said:
(Thinks about the amazingly similar situation I'm in)

Tell him आप like him first. If he's okay with it, then ask him out. It shouldn't ruin your friendship if he's a really good friend. Just do whatever आप think आप should do.
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A lot better than my very long answer... lol.
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Thnx, I think that's probably what I should do and I think I know that somewhere inside of me but it still is hard to do.
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Good luck with your situation!
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jayem801 said:
If uu really like himm... like a lot, well i think uu should just come clean ,just tell him how uu feel , .... tell him that if uu guys can be और then फ्रेंड्स beacause if uu just keep it all inside it's going to kill uu और trust mee' i was in this problem too... if he doseen't, at least uu had the guts to tell him... && be pround of yurr self (: if he dosen't feel the same way ?... Then just be फ्रेंड्स but don't let that get in the way... There lots of guys out there "a lot" maybe there sum one like him but a little better... and maybe he is just waiting on a perfect girl like आप <3
i hoped i kinda helped c:
♥- Kamie
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It did sort of! It was very motivational:)
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Sandfire_Paiger said:
Well, I'm not very experienced with boys, considering I'm 12.

You've known him for five years. Well, its just me but, I think आप would probably know him well enough to at least predict his reaction. Take that into account. And if it seems like it would go well, ask him out. Who cares if its 'traditional' for a guy to ask out the girl? And if आप have no idea how he'll react, then I would still think about it carfully and most likely ask him out. If he says no, and things are awkward, just do things like आप regularly do, and try and get things back to normal. Thats the best सलाह I can give! Hope it works out well!


द्वारा the way, आप might get better जवाब here:

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Being as like आप कहा आप don't have a ton of experience with boys, that was a very good answer :) it's just hard because the way he is he is never really open about any type of serious emotion and I get nervous sometimes talking with him about it.
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creepyboy7 said:
follow your dear heart! that is the dearest सलाह i can give आप at this dear moment!
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Lol, thnx
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Animetama said:
If आप don't wanna ask him out, then look for signs that tell आप whether या not he likes आप या not. Like if he talks to आप alot या leans foward whenever आप guys talk. Im sure it'll all work out in the end. Try flirting yourself too, if he responds, then I'm sure he likes आप on some level.
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Thnx :) but I'm a terrible flirt! लोल
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lolz then practice >:P however he flirts with आप (if he does) flirt the same way!
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