how do आप make big decisions??

step 01: Find out what your priorities are.
step 02: Find out which school fits your higher priorities best.
step 03: Think about it until आप feel comfortable with the desicion.
step 04: Act on that desicion.

आप have to choose whichever school fits your needs best.

I had the same choice a couple years back, public versus private for high school. I chose public because the public high school where I am has programs that aren't offered at private schools near me. It has programs like sociology, psychology in relationships, multiple bio classes, creative writing, human anatomy, and a good gifted class. Since I'm going into psychology, it made और sense for me to go to public school to get those courses.

आप have to look at it the same way. Look at the courses each school offers and go to the school that has और that interests आप and will suit what आप want to do with your life in the future. Don't worry about your friends. आप can keep in touch with them no matter which school आप go to, and you'll make new ones, anyway. I have like, a dozen फ्रेंड्स who went to private high schools, and I still see them often enough.

Usually when i make a big decision i make a सूची of the pros and cons of each answer to the question. I break it down into small groups...i'm going to take your problem as an example
1. which is the furthest to travel to - can आप get there in time, do they have free transport या do आप have to pay and if so can आप afford it?
2. one is free-dress आप say - will आप be comfortable in your own clothes in an environment that is not used to you? Will your style be bullied in some way and can आप deal with that?
3. uniforms - do आप have to pay for them and can your parents afford it every term to get आप a new one? Will आप feel comfortable in it?
4. Which school has the क्लब्स and/or आफ्टर स्कूल activities आप enjoy and could take part in?
5. Which school is best for your needs? If आप like art और then maths, do they have a better art department then a maths department?
6. What are the success rates? Is one school marginally better then the other for a field of subject आप could do well in?
7. Will one school give आप और confidence and ability to go further into the educational system then the other - such as scholarships and better teaching to get आप to uni?
8. Are आप actually Catholic? If not, are आप willing to become so just to get in a certain school? Will आप feel pressurised to convert if they find out you're not?

And so forth until आप feel you've covered everything and see which has the और yes'es.