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Am I too young to get married?

I'm getting married in December, and I turned 18 on May 27th. My boyfriend is 18, too. One of his best फ्रेंड्स and 2 of my bffs कहा that we were too young. Would आप agree?
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
18 is an acceptable and legal age to get married, yes.

But your फ्रेंड्स are just worried that you're making a wrong move.
In some countries women get married at very young ages, but here where I am in England, most people leave it till later on.
Sometimes it's not a wise decision to get married so early. आप and your partner may not know eachother as well as आप think आप do, depending on how long you've been together. But as far as I'm concerned, as long as you've both thought this through properly, you've taken into account your parents/guardians' opinions, and are certain that it's what आप want, then I'm sure there's no problem. But आप must feel ready. आप don't want to grow up too quickly and regret it.

But if you're both mature about this and certain, then I'm happy for you. :)


द्वारा the way, how long have आप known him?

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I always प्यार how आप answer with the long, yet informative little speech :D I agree :)
rapunzeleah123 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Hehe, I can't seem to help it. :) Thanks!
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@kakalover, it all depends really on how आप feel. you're obvously uncertain, right? otherwise आप wouldn't be asking this question. what's the rush? आप have years to go of आप being happily together without the stress of being married. And if it's not what आप want, then don't be shy to call the wedding off, if he loves आप he'll understand. i'm not going to tell आप what आप should do, because it's up to आप to decide. Listen to the voice deep inside your heart. Does it think you're ready? 5 months is a short time. Go with what आप want, not what आप think आप should do.
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Schnusch said:
I don't think 5 months being together are enough time. आप should live together first to know if he's right for आप and if आप get along when आप see each other everyday and have to manage a household together. Cause that's always a whole lot different than visiting each other. My fiancé and I lived in my mother's apartment sharing a small room for one साल and then moved into our own flat. We faced a lot of difficulties that others only face after years of marriage and we stayed a couple. So we knew it's no mistake to marry cause even those rough times couldn't separate us. आप never know if the marriage lasts but if आप have faith in it and there's no doubts for आप then आप should marry. But you're asking this सवाल so आप obviously have doubts. And is that a good start for a marriage? I don't think so.

आप shouldn't buy a dress before आप know it's the perfect size. It's no guarantee that it will fit आप for a lifetime. But at least while it fits it makes आप happy and not feel like आप made a mistake buying it =)
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agreed.
EmzLovesCheryl posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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My parents got married after 3 months and this साल they will have 19 years of marriage.
Drisina posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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I didn't say there was no exceptions ;) I just wouldn't do it.
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Ale1152 said:
It may not be wise to get married at a young, but I think 18 would be acceptable.
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Ok. Thanks!
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Your Welcome ^^
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Insane4ever said:
Those marriegess rarely last.....so good luck
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Thanks.
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bluesweets said:
I think it is, आप haven't lived your life yet, but whatever, our opinions don't really matter.
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आप really thinks so?
kakalover posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Yeah and as कहा above, those marriages rarely last. I think it also depends on how long आप have been going out.
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rapunzeleah123 said:
That is quite young... but I'm going to pray for your marriage to keep holding on. It's probably been stated before, but young marriages don't really last. (Excepting Edward and Bella's XD)
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Thanks!
kakalover posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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No prob :)
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Tamar20 said:
Well my sister got married in the age of 18 and then she got divorced in two months!
Hmm I'm not trying to let आप down या anything but marriage is a huge responsibility. But if you're in प्यार and feel like it's the right thing go for it.
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Ok.
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nciszivarox said:
I think that if आप guys are sure आप प्यार each other and want to be together for the rest of your life प्यार has no age limit.So I say its yours and your fiancee's opinion that matters और than theirs. Good luck I hope आप have a great marriage
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KK.
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zanesaaomgfan said:
No...

My ex-friend's sister got married at 17 since the wedding was on her birthday....

या was that her mom...?

Anyway, I asked my mom a few days पूर्व why she thinks Zanessa is too young to think about marriage and she कहा because there might be other people out there that they would fall for.

Your and his फ्रेंड्स are probably thinking that... How long have आप been dating? (Please don't say a week!)
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Wow, that's pretty good. I'd say go for it!
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Thanks!!
kakalover posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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^ But she kinda grew up with him, आप know?
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Chaann94 said:
Sure it's legal.
But आप better wait 'till आप both are all grown up. See the brain is done growing when ur about 24/25. THEN you're a grown-up! If आप get married after that you're less likely to grow apart.
So it's और for your own sake. But of course I don't know आप and your relationship so...
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Drisina said:
There is no too young/old age to get married.
आप do it when आप feel ready and आप found the person आप want to spent the rest of your life with , but in the same time to be sure she/he wants the same thing.
"Use your head and follow your heart."
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StarGirl1721 said:
well your young and your not
if आप think आप can handle the responsibilities then your OK to go with it but
if आप think आप can't well then its up to...but remember its always your disunion to make ;)
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Niceness said:
Do what your दिल and mind is telling you.
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shadowcharmer said:
pretty much -_-
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 pretty much -_-
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