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I need some help making a decision that could change my life... CAN ANYONE HELP????

Ok so I am 15 years old and am going to be starting 11th grade in August but the thing that I don't know now is what school I will go to. So my सवाल is what school I should go to अगला year? I'll give आप some background on the pros and cons of each school. The school I'm at now is great there are lots of things that I like about it that is way I chose it in the first place. Plus I have all my फ्रेंड्स there. For me this साल has been really tough. I had to deal with a lot of loss this साल and I got rather depressed. I am the kind of person who is really closed off and do not express my feelings and I rarely share how I am feeling. So when I went through everything that I did this साल I realized how close I really was to all my फ्रेंड्स because they made the last few months so much easier for me. So then the other school is also a really great school and when I really think about it I think that in the long run moving to that school will give me a better shot for my future. Yet I don't have any फ्रेंड्स there so it may make it difficult for me. So basically when I think about staying I think that I really want to go through all the high school stuff with my फ्रेंड्स like prom and graduation, but at the same time I think the other school will be better for my future. When I talk to my फ्रेंड्स about this they just tell me to stay because they want me to stay at the same school as them which just makes things really confusing for me.

So I know that there is a lot of information but I just want to get an idea of what other people think. I need another perspective that is not bias to one side. So if आप could just leave your thoughts about what आप think I should do if आप need और information about the situation just let me know and I'll give it to you.
THANK आप VERY MUCH I REALLY NEED THE HELP :)

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ok so for all of आप who answered thank आप आप did help me so it is not 100% but it looks like i will be staying at my school. I just wanted to say thank आप to alll of आप who answered and for those of आप who I did not take your suggestion the सलाह was really appricated because everything that आप guys कहा helped me make a decision. So once again thank you. :)
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Mela1994 said:
I honestly think that आप should decide what आप think is best for आप and what आप want to do, if आप want to stay then stay. If आप wanna go then go. It's your choice and your life. Do what आप feel to do! It's the best i can say and it's the best for your self to do.
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padme768 said:
i think आप should stay to the school with your friends.
the other school may be better, but being alone is rough-trust me i know- and it would make आप not pay attention to any classes.
आप will be depressed and wont have any interest at school.
so stick with your फ्रेंड्स to the end, आप will be much happier, and that's what's important =)
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shaza1101 said:
I agree with Padme,

in my school (like all others)everyone splits into their own little groups and just sticks in them. and when 4th yr came and exams were over everyone i was gd फ्रेंड्स with left to go to college या interships etc, leaving me on my own. and after 4 yrs it was hard to just शामिल होइए another group no one accepted you, i was on my own for the last 2 yrs and it wasnt exactly fun - i wouldnt recommend it
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Irina92 said:
well if u really प्यार your फ्रेंड्स and stuff u should stay in your old school. but if sometimes u feel oppressed द्वारा them u should change and make a new start... u know it depends on how u feel bout it and i think not so much bout how nice the school is...lots need change and new beginning while others r happy with wat they have...that's my opinion even though it's not that clear!
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PrettyCure55 said:
Well.......you're the one who has to choose. Speaking friend-wise, आप should think if आप want to make new ones या not. आप have to think for your self, we don't know what आप want to do या if आप think it is the best choice.
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BellaCullen96 said:
I can just imagine what आप are going through. I have moved multiple times, and I'm only 12! I really miss all my फ्रेंड्स from my old schools. I can think of two options आप might like.

The first is going to the new school. आप could stay in touch with your फ्रेंड्स if it isn't that far away, and make a bunch of new friends. If आप don't have a boyfriend, it could also be a good chance to meet new guys, आप know, start off fresh.

The other option is staying at your present school with all of your friends. आप could study hard so आप can get into a good college. From that college आप can work hard to get the future आप would have gotten from the other school. I personally like this idea better.

I hope this helps आप out some!
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The-Stig said:
I think that if आप genuinely think that the other school will be better for आप in the long run then आप should go for it. Hopefully you'll be able to make new फ्रेंड्स there and it's important to stay in contact with your old फ्रेंड्स as well. Your future is very important, so आप shouldn't let other people hold आप back. Your फ्रेंड्स sound great so Im sure they'll understand whatever आप choose. So i think make sure to stay close with them but go ahead and हटाइए to the other if it will be better for you. besides, if worse comes to the worst आप can always हटाइए back to the school ur at now.
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angiii7 said:
School with your friends! I say it cause it lived that and I picked the other school and now I'm not unhappy but I missed my फ्रेंड्स every single दिन ...
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