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What are your देखा गया about divorce?

For me, personally I don't see anything wrong with it. Sometimes people get married that weren't meant for each other and they didn't realize it until they were married so they get a divorce..no biggy. But I'm just curious to know what आप guys think about it.





(Kind of come up with this सवाल because of Orangeturnip's marriage question.)
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I agree with you.
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Thank you. It'd be kind of weird if I was against it anyways, a lot of my family have been married, divorced, and remarried.
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GaGaBoi said:
Statistics दिखाना that in America 9/10 marriges end in divorce.

I don't see the point in marrige to be honest.
If आप प्यार someone, आप shouldn't NEED to have to दिखाना them with being bonded for life that आप care. They should already know.


My mom and dad were together for 19 years, not married, just together, had 6 kids. me being one of them.

They are not together anymore, but they don't hate eachother and never had to fuss over a divorce because they were never married.

It's just easier without marrige.
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I agree. Very good point!
Abilei posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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लोल thanks, oh and im not in america, it was just a point.
GaGaBoi posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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alot of things are and use to be tradition.
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BabyBlud said:
To be quite honest i don't particularly like it. Not because i think it's wrong या anything, after all if two people decide they no longer प्यार each other then why not? Better to have divorce then spend the rest of your lives miserable. But i don't personally like it because my parent's got divorced when i was 6 and i didn't see my mother for ten years after that.

However some religions don't like divorce, so it depends on what background आप come from whether आप believe in divorce या not.

Also couples who get divorced should take some सलाह and don't do what my parents did. Just because आप don't प्यार each other any और doesn't mean आप have to bitchy या fall out with each other. If आप have children it's especially important to talk to them about it together and make them understand that just because they don't प्यार each other doesn't mean they don't प्यार their children. Divorcees should be open and honest with each other and give each other rights to their children. Even if one parents moves away they still have parental responsibility to that child imo and shouldn't just fuck off without telling them.

But to conclude cos i've just realised the anger is coming up - no it's not wrong, but it can be disastrous to those who aren't completely involved and who should be loved and cared for enough to be respected and told.
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i agree
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thespikedturtle said:
I don't think divorce is right. It just seems to me that marriage is about true love, and if there is true love, there would be no need to get a divorce anyway.
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yes but आप shouldn't NEED to get married to दिखाना someone who आप truly प्यार and care about that आप do.
GaGaBoi posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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hahah आप cant say that, STD'S HIV !?!? i dont know what your talking about, if that were true, marrige would be a MUST DO law. not a decision as it is today.
GaGaBoi posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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I know, reality is different than what should be a whole lot of the time...
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Twilight_Dream said:
well if dont work out, it dont work out. my mom was divorced from my 3 half siblings dad. he just wasn't right for her.
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iluvtony96 said:
Well, so long as its before आप have children. If आप have kids i dont like it because it can hurt the kids emotionally, but other wise i dont mind. Also, it doesnt always hurt the kids but its a risk.
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If they stay together and are being unhappy, I think that would hurt a lot more.
Monrose posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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ummm....idk........CHEESE!
segagenies posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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thats why my parents never got married, they were together for 19 years, and then moved on, it never lasts. VERY RARLEY.
GaGaBoi posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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it would hurt a lot और if they are unhappy, i know because my parents are unhappily married and i blame myself. Also, gagaboi, that may have worked got them but it wont always. and didnt it bother you? I plan on waiting until i'm sure the guy i'm with is the one i want to spend the rest of my life with, im a huge प्रशंसक of commitment. i want to get married because its tradtional and symbolic and (in christianity) the right thing to do. I know in some religions its okay to have kids out of wedlock but even personally i dont agree with it, but thats just me.
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dustfinger said:
I think its right. Some people end up getting married too young and then realize the spark is gone. It also can solves problems. या it can be like my parents. They विभाजित करें, विभक्त करें up cause my dad is gay. They both weren't happy and now they are.
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dragonrider said:
I read somewhere that 60 percent who marry end up getting a divorce. I think divorce is fine. I think it's really horrible if the two people absolutely hate each other and tell that to their kids. Sometimes divorce is what's best for the family
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starwarsfangirl said:
Yeah, आप don't NEED a marriage to दिखाना that आप प्यार them, but I think it's a sweet idea, don't आप think? I mean, I know I still want my 'big day'. Divorce... I don't care. It causes too much hate in the world. But I wouldn't say I look down upon those who do. I mean, yeah, if आप decide आप don't like the person, why be forced to stay with them? Honestly. But I do encourage marriage, unless आप don't want to ever be intimate (hint). Well, I guess आप could still... *cough* do that *cough* but it's against the ten commandments. Well, sin can be forgiven, I must say. Well, I don't have a problem with divorce, and that's basically what this सवाल is asking of me... so yeah. (I'm sorry for the rant.)
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