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Is there something wrong with me?

MY family doesnt aprovw of my प्यार for mj.they say it is an unhealthy obsession.So the other दिन i went and tried to buy the mj vision and My brother कहा " No और mj stuff,you are to obsessed" That hurt and I am thinking hard on this one.I can see no wrong in mj. I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him. Is there soemthing wrong with me,because its tearing me apart,but I know that no matter what anybody sais, I cant... no i wont stop loving him
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lucaslover528 said:
Sweetie don't worry about it. I sometimes feel that Michael is the only one there for me too. On a lot of occasions I feel that he's the only one that listens to me, understands me.

I can see why you'd sometimes think that Michael's better for your happiness, believe me I do. I can name numerous times when I felt like saying, "I've had enough. Michael, take me with you." I can relate with आप there. Michael isn't there to judge and he isn't there to disagree. Perhaps that's what makes it so simple to think that he's the only thing that keeps आप going...

Try to realise that your family are always there for आप in physical form. MJ's there for आप in spiritual form. But your family will be द्वारा your side forever.
There's nothing wrong with you. I can see that आप truly प्यार him, but don't let that blind आप from the people that will be there with आप at the end of the day.

Hope this helps.
L.O.V.E
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God, you're like the MJ shrink! :P gr8 answer
eken posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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लोल thanks! ;)
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WithAChildHeart said:
Not in the least. Many MJ प्रशंसकों of our generation have witnessed that, I don't exclude myself. You're perfectly fine.

The matter is that a lot changed since our parents were in our age and what we are now. When our parents were a प्रशंसक of someone they really admired them. This is not the case with us anymore, because the things we fancy are a "phase" and come and go. Well, not always, of course, but most of the time, especially with younger children. E.g. an eight-year old is a प्रशंसक of Hannah Montana and wants everything related to her. After a while this "obsession" fades and she starts liking someone else, this drives parents nuts.

But I do think that you're old enough to say that your प्यार for Michael is everlasting. You're "just" a devoted प्रशंसक and I think that it's unfair the way your family treats you. Don't be worried, though, this will loosen up very soon! (:
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thanks that really touches my दिल
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zupanic said:
Yes..you are obsessed...we all are obsessed...but I प्यार my obsession:D
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UmOkayThen said:
There's nothing wrong with you, you're AMAZING! My family makes fun of me for my प्यार for MJ, but they let me get lots of MJ things. I don't think it's fair that आप couldn't get Vision. Like I would seriously buy आप one if I knew आप :)
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awww i would buy u one too
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zombiestars said:
have your family ever listen, saw या know anything about michael but i'm sad 4 u and hope your family understands your Michael obession
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sunsetdriver said:
Not even. You're perfectly fine. I don't consider that being obsessed,just a devoted fan.
They just don't understand what MJ means to you. Most families are like that.

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PaisleyPark said:
" I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him."

Okay, it is perfectly fine to प्यार MJ...

But loving him और than your own family?!

That is not normal. I'm sorry.

आप did not know him in real life. This IS an obsession.

I'm not saying this to be mean, but maybe आप should talk to a psychiatrist to see why आप feel this way.
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i've been to a shrink it doesnt work nothing does
mjrocks13 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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Then that one wasn't right for you, there is और than one shrink out there. आप just need to find the right one.
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AimieDawn said:
From knowing other प्रशंसकों of Michael, I know they have connections to him द्वारा his संगीत and his love. But आप do have an unhealthy obsession. I don't know how your life with your family is back home, but no matter what, आप should never प्यार anyone और than your family. Especially someone आप never even knew personally. Michael would disapprove of this, since he loved family very much.

Trust me, I प्यार Michael, I truly do. आप don't have to get every single thing related to him to दिखाना how much आप प्यार him. It's about love, not obsession या material things. It comes from the heart, y'know. Listen to his music, defend him, whatever, to दिखाना your love.

Please get help and try spending और time with your family. I mean, read with them, ride bikes with them, have family time!

This made me sick.

And it made me feel even और sick to see how many प्रशंसकों are saying this is perfectly fine. I mean, so आप all approve of loving someone आप never even knew और than your family? Oh whatever.
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Agreed.
PaisleyPark posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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i understand but my family has never been there for me
mjrocks13 posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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And आप think Michael would? I'm sorry, he was an amazing human and cared for all his fans, but आप really think he would've picked a बिना सोचे समझे प्रशंसक to be there for?
AimieDawn posted एक साल  से अधिक पुराना
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^ Bit harsh...
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