How do आप know when your ex hates you?

We ended on a good note, it wasn't a bad break up या anything and he even कहा he didn't want it to end. But he hasn't spoke to me in a महीना and he कहा he would still talk to me and meet up with me and stuff and he hasn't....yet, anyway. And also like 2 weeks पूर्व i went on फेसबुक and as soon as I went online he went off, do आप think he hates me या what? i'm confused. I haven't done anything either. Cause when he left me he told me he loves me but the relationship has to end cause he could end up hurting me. Do आप think he hates me या do आप think he still likes me?
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cookiehead101 said:
i dont think he hates u i just think he needs some time या he just feels awkward cuz after all u r his ex so maybe he just feels awkward या needs some अंतरिक्ष just leave him alone if it continues अगला time u c him ask him if anythings wrong या if u did something 2 offend him
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I have left him alone, I haven't bothered him at all.Like I कहा I haven't spoke to him in a महीना . And I will
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Karthigesh said:
Sweetie, let me speak to आप from a guy's perspective. I doubt it is easy for him to talk to आप normally now after breaking up. It's always hard for exes to stay friends, especially during the beginning stages where it is just plain awkward. This awkwardness can however go away if the guy puts in the effort to be a little और mature about it and talk to you....

Truthfully I think he is still isn't quite over आप yet, maybe that is why he is avoiding you. आप should give him some time, and see if he talks to आप soon, because when he is ready he will. If he still doesn't then आप are better off, just not talking to him altogether because it is a matter of mutual respect and friendship.

One last thing sweetie, never ever, blame yourself and think आप are the one at fault. I know आप are quite confused about his behavior but आप have done nothing wrong so do not think that he hates you. He has his own issues and he needs to work through them, trust me, if आप are important to him, he would work hard on it and be फ्रेंड्स with you, like what a proper gentleman of a guy should do.

Never let yourself feel second-best okay? somewhere out there is a guy who will treat आप as his priority, and give आप the प्यार that आप deserve :D keep your head held high always
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I know, but he promised to still talk to me and meet up with me, do आप think he is just giving it time and that he will talk to me? and I won't thanks for the great सलाह :)
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Guys are always cautious about a girl's feelings. I think he is nervous and a little afraid to talk to you, because it is a big change, from couple to friends. He just needs to realize that he can still प्यार आप as a friend and watch over आप and care for आप and be there for आप when आप need a shoulder. Most of all he will want आप to be happy. I can see he means a lot to आप so I really do hope he works up the courage and be फ्रेंड्स with आप again. Any man can make a promise sweetie, only a real man keeps it...
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