@HaleyDewitt
Thank you your previous comment cheered me up no end, especially about Matt being a Delena shipper! GOD I LOVE MATT. You've also made me feel less angry about Car and Stefan who were DOUCHES in this episode.
Firstly it makes me grind my teeth that I just KNOW all the SEers are going to say ‘Oh they only had sex because Damon’s feelings are projected through the sire bond’! They are clearly wrong and DUMB because Elena fell for him long, long ago, WAY before she was sired… but even so it’s like the writers WANT to give the Stelena shippers a helpful get out clause, to allow them to stay in their denial! :L When will we finally get a full on acceptance of Elena’s emotions which they can’t just constantly find some pathetic excuse to say ‘Oh but it doesn’t mean anything?’
I’m not even going to mention Stefan ( oh wait now I have ;D ) because we can all see what a pathetic, selfish child he’s being, who can’t let go of his favourite toy and won’t grow up and learn to love Elena for who she really is. His actions aren’t ‘love’ they are disgusting: he’s manipulating Jermemy for his own ends and pretending that he’s doing it for Elena! Pretending that this is what Elena ‘needs’ when actually, what she needs is for him to LOVE HER FOR WHO SHE IS. Moron. He’s pathetic. How can people think he’s such a wonderful guy when he is a two faced IDIOT! Acting as though he is god, and gets to decide what Elena does with her life, he’s such a control freak. I would hate him but he’s so pathetic I don’t even feel ANYTHING towards him.
I love Car but I hate what she’s doing: My reactions to Caroline in 4x07
I’m really gutted by how Car is behaving.
1) She continually projects her preferences and fantasies of the two brothers onto Elena’s life. She has an unrealistic ideal of Stefan and Elena as a perfect, romantic relationship, which is unrealistic and bizarrely immature. Anyone who has watched the show can see that Stefan and Elena’s relationship is, like any other, far from perfect. So her constant espousals of how ‘wonderful’ Stefan and Elena are for each other compared to how ‘terrible’ Damon and Elena are incredibly naïve, from someone as smart and savvy as Car.
2) Her preference for Stefan is hypocritical and nonsensical - Stefan has proved many times that he is capable of being just a much of a monster as Damon, and Damon has proven time and time again that he has matured, and is no longer the neck snapping douche bag of season one. Yet she continues to treat Stefan as a martyr and Damon as ‘The bad guy’? - talk about being utterly blind to how people have changed over time!
3) How dare Car reject how Elena is now, and act as though there is something ‘wrong’ with Elena now that she has become a vampire, when Car is one herself? More than anyone Car should understand how as a vampire you remain the same person, yet your feelings are amplified - or has she conveniently forgotten the entire trauma she went through with her mother in season 2, trying to convince her that was still her little girl and not a monster? Yet she lets her best friend languish in fears that she should feel guilty about who she is now. This is sickeningly hypocritical.
4) It is selfish of her to dismiss her best friend’s emotions as some sort of mistake, rather than trying to help her in this difficult time, and get her to work through her feelings. Because it’s not like, I don’t know, Elena tried to be a good friend to Car when SHE became a vampire, is it? Would it not be common decency – let alone the duty of a friend – to help Elena now? Yes, Car is utterly entitled to have an opinion on her friend’s love life, but to go around constantly undermining her best friend’s feelings? Wow, really mature Car. Her behaviour is utterly wrong.
5) After all this - all this condemnation of Elena for being attracted to a morally ambiguous vampire…. what does Caroline do? Oh yes, she’s hanging out with Klaus, laughing with Klaus, clearly warming to Klaus and becoming attracted to him.
Klaus, who I would like to add, is thoroughly remorseless and evil. Damon is no comparison, and it’d be ridiculous to claim so.
Hypocrite much?
Please Car, I thought you were more emotionally mature than this. You are bright, spunky, and awesome. So please stop seeing the world through the blinkers of a made up ideal you have about Stelena’s ‘Epic Love’!
In happier words, Ahhhhh! They did it! :D :D Delena <3
Thank you your previous comment cheered me up no end, especially about Matt being a Delena shipper! GOD I LOVE MATT. You've also made me feel less angry about Car and Stefan who were DOUCHES in this episode.
Firstly it makes me grind my teeth that I just KNOW all the SEers are going to say ‘Oh they only had sex because Damon’s feelings are projected through the sire bond’! They are clearly wrong and DUMB because Elena fell for him long, long ago, WAY before she was sired… but even so it’s like the writers WANT to give the Stelena shippers a helpful get out clause, to allow them to stay in their denial! :L When will we finally get a full on acceptance of Elena’s emotions which they can’t just constantly find some pathetic excuse to say ‘Oh but it doesn’t mean anything?’
I’m not even going to mention Stefan ( oh wait now I have ;D ) because we can all see what a pathetic, selfish child he’s being, who can’t let go of his favourite toy and won’t grow up and learn to love Elena for who she really is. His actions aren’t ‘love’ they are disgusting: he’s manipulating Jermemy for his own ends and pretending that he’s doing it for Elena! Pretending that this is what Elena ‘needs’ when actually, what she needs is for him to LOVE HER FOR WHO SHE IS. Moron. He’s pathetic. How can people think he’s such a wonderful guy when he is a two faced IDIOT! Acting as though he is god, and gets to decide what Elena does with her life, he’s such a control freak. I would hate him but he’s so pathetic I don’t even feel ANYTHING towards him.
I love Car but I hate what she’s doing: My reactions to Caroline in 4x07
I’m really gutted by how Car is behaving.
1) She continually projects her preferences and fantasies of the two brothers onto Elena’s life. She has an unrealistic ideal of Stefan and Elena as a perfect, romantic relationship, which is unrealistic and bizarrely immature. Anyone who has watched the show can see that Stefan and Elena’s relationship is, like any other, far from perfect. So her constant espousals of how ‘wonderful’ Stefan and Elena are for each other compared to how ‘terrible’ Damon and Elena are incredibly naïve, from someone as smart and savvy as Car.
2) Her preference for Stefan is hypocritical and nonsensical - Stefan has proved many times that he is capable of being just a much of a monster as Damon, and Damon has proven time and time again that he has matured, and is no longer the neck snapping douche bag of season one. Yet she continues to treat Stefan as a martyr and Damon as ‘The bad guy’? - talk about being utterly blind to how people have changed over time!
3) How dare Car reject how Elena is now, and act as though there is something ‘wrong’ with Elena now that she has become a vampire, when Car is one herself? More than anyone Car should understand how as a vampire you remain the same person, yet your feelings are amplified - or has she conveniently forgotten the entire trauma she went through with her mother in season 2, trying to convince her that was still her little girl and not a monster? Yet she lets her best friend languish in fears that she should feel guilty about who she is now. This is sickeningly hypocritical.
4) It is selfish of her to dismiss her best friend’s emotions as some sort of mistake, rather than trying to help her in this difficult time, and get her to work through her feelings. Because it’s not like, I don’t know, Elena tried to be a good friend to Car when SHE became a vampire, is it? Would it not be common decency – let alone the duty of a friend – to help Elena now? Yes, Car is utterly entitled to have an opinion on her friend’s love life, but to go around constantly undermining her best friend’s feelings? Wow, really mature Car. Her behaviour is utterly wrong.
5) After all this - all this condemnation of Elena for being attracted to a morally ambiguous vampire…. what does Caroline do? Oh yes, she’s hanging out with Klaus, laughing with Klaus, clearly warming to Klaus and becoming attracted to him.
Klaus, who I would like to add, is thoroughly remorseless and evil. Damon is no comparison, and it’d be ridiculous to claim so.
Hypocrite much?
Please Car, I thought you were more emotionally mature than this. You are bright, spunky, and awesome. So please stop seeing the world through the blinkers of a made up ideal you have about Stelena’s ‘Epic Love’!
In happier words, Ahhhhh! They did it! :D :D Delena <3