I'm confused about delena haters

If आप are fairly new to the fandom and have never read the पुस्तकें then it's possible that आप will never have heard of Bamon (Bonnie and Damon). Bamon does exist, but it depends on where आप look. As for any 'DE hate', again, it depends on where आप look. Unfortunately, it has happened on our spot द्वारा people who have kind of stirred up trouble द्वारा posting comments/arguments which have just rubbed DE shippers up the wrong way. I'm sorry if some of the प्रशंसकों here come across as defensive. Most of us want to avoid shipper wars, but often, any slanging matches that have happened have been caused द्वारा negative टिप्पणियाँ from non-DE प्रशंसकों या multi shippers. We just really, really प्यार DE, and in spite of having the biggest numbers of fans, we feel like the underdog a lot of the time. Why? Well, because SE are always in प्यार and together, and a lot of the book प्रशंसकों are hurt and betrayed द्वारा spoilers from LJ Smith's soon to be released 'Midnight'. But DE haters do exist out there. I think you're lucky to have only encountered DE love!

I am not a Delena hater, I'm not, I प्यार Damon and Elena together. I just hate the argument that "delena is going to happen eventually". I am sorry but that is just a crappy argument. I agree with Delena प्रेमी who say 'in this and this episode आप can see that Elena does care for Damon etc etc and therefore we think that Delena will happen". THAT I can buy, but not some kind of destiny argument, cause I think that just sucks, it's not even a real argument.
Another thing is that some Delena प्रेमी like epicdelena4ever automatically say that non Delena प्रेमी are pathetic, that does not exactly make me प्यार Delena more, और the opposite effect.

people hate demean because they have gotten attached to stefan and elana being together. I think this is reasonable because demean sucks