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Has Twilight Ever Gotten In The Way Of Your Friendships?

Does it?

It has to me. All my फ्रेंड्स have read the Twilight या seen the films, so have I, for that matter, but I, unlike them, hate it. I feel alot like a gooseberry around them now. They're always going on about Robert Pattinson, Taylor Lautner (ESPECIALLY Taylor Lautner) and such. When it first started,I didn't mind so much, they raved for a bit, but then that was it. But ever since New Moon came out, they've turned into violent
-really violent- fangirls.

They started tattoing Taylor Lautner's name up and down their arms, wrists and hands, often decorated with little stars and hearts, I, making a joke, tattooed Rupert Grint's name on the side of my wrists and they attacked me. Now, my friend, Josie has started लेखन a book, it's EXREMELY like Meyer's लेखन and her main character is an obvious Mary-Sue in a प्यार त्रिकोण, त्रिभुज with two boys (Sound familiar?) I was really kind with my critism, but she didn't take me seriously. So it got worse, I tried to be a little और blunt and she completely freaked out.

She कहा that she didn't care what I said, that she was her own person, so I कहा that she was her own person, but whats the point in asking my opinion if आप don't want to be critised. Then she कहा my opinion didn't matter. I then got a little annoyed and that and said, very sarcastically, that she was going to be a GREAT लेखक if her book didn't get published straight away. And she pretended she didn't sense my sarcasm and कहा yeah,she was, even better than me.

That struck me hard. लेखन and पुस्तकें are my life, and I've always wanted to be a writer. I got upset and (I know this is mean, but I was IRATE) I कहा 'At least my लेखन has a voice, yours just sounds like Meyer's, and anyways WHO'S poem got published in a proper book?!'

Now, effectivley, I am a loner at school. My only friend who agrees with me, Rudy, doesn't go to my school, so I'm all on my lonesome.

I just wanted to hear your stories, kittehs, see if you've gone through wha
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Critical Analysis of Twilight जवाब

zelo said:
OHHHH poor you!!! Don't worry आप will be a fantastic author! I have met Twi-hards who I never knew come up and call me a कुतिया, मतलबी for loving Harry Potter and my cousin also is overly obsessed. Twilight has interfered with my friendships as well.
My best friend, Heather loves Twilight and at first I was often having to put up with everything about Twilight. I was, often finding myself in a hard postition, should I break a friendship with a girl who I've known since I was seven या put up with Twilight. Heather, obviously, died down and she didn't attack me for hating something she loved. But it didn't always work out that way. My friend, Ellie loves Twilight and she got a proper tatoo down of of the Twilight सेब on her back. She made me come when she got it down (personally it looked like the most painful experience ever.) She also got gor Taylor Laughtner's signature on her tatooed on her arm. She did that herself, because she already bought his signature from something and did some printing on her skin.
This former friend of mine, Charlotte, attacked me when I कहा I disliked Twilight. I didn't even critisize it, but she still attacked me. Like she jumped on me, and one) she's so much taller than me and 2) I'm super petite and she's a lot और muscular, so I broke my arm (no joke!) That's when our friendship ended. (Though, I'm still फ्रेंड्स with Ellie, because she's fine when she isn't a Twilight fanatic, but it can get to be a pain!)
My other best friend Lucy and I are the only HP प्रशंसकों at the school, which is kind of sad. Twilight has played a pain in the neck part in my friendships with many people. My other फ्रेंड्स don't mind Twilight, but luckily they are not such fanatics....
Sometimes I feel like I want to pull my hair out at times... and I have tried, but I didn't actually pulled my hair out.
Twilight has also come as a blow to me. My फ्रेंड्स have often unknowingly insulted me directly, particularly Ellie, for hating Twilight. Heather has always been kind and supportive about it, but that mainly has to do with the fact that I'm her best friend and that she's mine. Sooo... yeah Twilight has gotten in the way of my friendship several times, and it still does!!!! So I know how आप feel.
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Aww, your poor thing. Me and my friend, Alice are the ONLY Harry Potter प्रशंसकों at my school. (We wuvs Dobby) But she's only in my science and technology, so I'm left with my "friends" in thr other classes. Twilight has gone too far. It's tearing up FAMILIES as well as friendships, my sister is a twi-hard and me and my older brother don't speak to her anymore because we don't wanna hear her squeal all the time. It's good to know that other people feel what I feel.
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Ohhh, im sorry about your sister. It's the same with me and Lucy being the only HP प्रशंसकों at school. At my ballet classes, al my फ्रेंड्स प्यार HP, pparticularly my best फ्रेंड्स there, Lily, Elaina, Marie, Tessa, and Jennie. And i have alot of others who प्यार Harry Potter. For me its not tearing up my family, i mean i talk to my cousin when shes not being stupid, so i feel bad for u!!!
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that is sad!!
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LadyLilith said:
I'm so sorry, GrintCat. :( I had no idea. I can't relate totally, because I think I only have 2-3 good फ्रेंड्स at my school (I'm graduating अगला month, so I honestly don't give a damn about these people. They're retarded anyway), and they're loyal फ्रेंड्स who either think Twilight's okay या really like it but are understanding if others don't. But I don't see them too often. So I could also say I'm a lone भेड़िया and प्यार writing. I haven't लॉस्ट फ्रेंड्स because of Twilight, but I have लॉस्ट friends. I'm so sorry for what happened to you.
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Oh yeah...AND HARRY POTTER FTW!!!
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Aww, thanks LadyCat, and yes, LUNA LOVEGOOD FTW!!
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Plenilunio said:
I'm so sorry to read this. I really feel for you, baby. I know I'm lucky, but Twilight has never been a problem. Some of my फ्रेंड्स प्यार it and they know I don't like it, so we don't talk about it. We're friends, we have so many things in common a handful of पुस्तकें and फिल्में mean nothing. It also may be due to the fact that, funnily enough, all my फ्रेंड्स who are fangirls have wonderful boyfriends, फ्रेंड्स of mine as well. They're all real guys, with real virtues and flaws, not creepy monsters of any kind and they're loved for who they are. I bet none of my फ्रेंड्स would dump them if Edward appeared out of the blue and ask them to be with him.

As for the लेखन part, I know how आप feel and Twilight has nothing to do with it. I used to be a beta reader for a friend and she would go ballistic whenever I corrected her writings. I'm not even talking about plausibility या fanfic characters being actually in character, but about things like "hey, आप were using past tense, why did आप change to present, then back to past if it's the same scene?". I stopped being her beta altogether, I couldn't put up with her crap. Being a beta is not saying "you rule, I प्यार it!" if आप encounter errors. You're supposed to correct, not to disregard mistakes.

I truly hope things get better and that आप find new, real friends. If your so-called "friends" turn their back on आप just because of a fandom, whichever it is, they're not friends, they're just mean, childish people.
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Thanks, that helps. I know what आप mean about the beta reader, when she asked for my opinion -this is her exact words- "Ok, आप can tell me the things I done well and then one short sentence of critism" <- I couldn't fit it into one short sentence. XD -Sigh- yes, I have got फ्रेंड्स now. They're less लोकप्रिय than my old फ्रेंड्स but they are MUCH nicer.
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momo0231 said:
I'm so sorry for you!! i hope आप can get कूलर less mean friends! Twilight hasn't really gotten in the way of my friendship but my friend has read the book and loves it and i hate it (i also have read the book) but whenever she talks about it i just stay out of the conversation. (or make fun of it but she gets mad at me when i do that so i don't do it often) i hope this picture will make आप feel better!!
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 I'm so sorry for you!! i hope आप can get कूलर less mean friends! Twilight hasn't really gotten in the way of my friendship but my friend has read the book and loves it and i hate it (i also have read the book) but whenever she talks about it i just stay out of the conversation. (or make fun of it but she gets mad at me when i do that so i don't do it often) i hope this picture will make आप feel better!!
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i ment to do this funny picture but it's apparently on a different computer so this is the best i got! :)
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"I'm so sorry for you!! i hope आप can get कूलर less mean friends!" HAHA! That made me laugh. And yes, intelligent people don't need Twilight, who would when we live in a world with the literature of Bram Stoker and Mary Shelley?
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या Stephen King and J.K Rowling
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^^ Indeed.
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HerMelody said:
*Hugs for you!*

I haven't got a story, as I don't really have any फ्रेंड्स anymore, and the handful that I speak to every so often, aren't really interested in Twilight. But I can remember being at school, and the फ्रेंड्स I had... they were the kinds of girls that could get passionate about things (we were, at the time, passionate about a band called Busted...) and I can imagine them being like that, I think they did get like that a little over things, but somehow I always managed to stay out of the drama, while others in my group were at war! =/ ...
Do आप think this will eventually blow over?

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Aww *Hugs आप Back* Aaaaah! -FangirlySqueal- I used to ADORE Busted. That was hilarious!
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moo000 said:
Poor you!!

One of my best फ्रेंड्स is totally obsessed. She is, like your friend, लेखन a story. She is the main character and is pretty much Bella. The worst thing is, she talks about the stuff that happens in her story like it has actuallyy happened. Its pretty creepy actually! lol.

I just play along with her.now what we do is I write part of her story, always ending up with Edward and her breaking up (usually becasue he turns gay for various people). She writes और so they get back togeather. Maybe आप should try this with your friend?
She got pretty mad at me at first, but I managed to convince her to laugh it off with me. Our friendship is और important than that.
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LOL! Edward turning gay for people. I can so imagine that. Yeah, she actually wanted me to do that, but I wanted to work on my own book, y'know?
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OCFan123 said:
*hugs you* Awwwww, I feel horrible :( That was a horrible thing that happened to you...I bet you'll be an fantastic aurhor!
No, that has not ever happened to me. My फ्रेंड्स and I have argued about Twilight, but it hasn'r gotten in the way of our friendship...then again, it wasn't really "friends", it was और like "aquantices", but I'm getting off the point...
And anyway, *hugs आप again* really sorry!
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chagrin91 said:
mrs grint am sorry ill say coz i didnt know how twilight got into your friendship if i knew i wouldnt have been so stupid to fight with आप am really sorry and to tell आप honestly आप dont need फ्रेंड्स like that आप have all your kittehs to talk to lolzzzzzzzzz aint i right?????
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Ja ja, it's OK.
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lolzz thankx for forgivimg me
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