I will be meeting my stepsister for the first time next week and I don’t think it’s a good idea though. My mom got pregnant nine years ago while she was working abroad and she never said a word to us about that until now. She got impregnated by a foreign man who ran away after knowing her condition. She wants me to meet her daughter and I don’t know if I should be glad or get mad. I know she expects me to understand because I’m too old to feel bad about this matter. I just can’t help but feel a little upset. I think this is normal.